I posted elsewhere and haven't gotten an opinion so I'll try here. I get nightly erections no problem. Sometimes they are so intense they are uncomfortable and wake me up. But during sex I usually only hang out around a 6-7 most if the time. I only reach 9-10 just before climax. It does fluctuate a bit thoroughly and some sessions are better than others.
My problem is something as simple as stopping to put on a condom will drop me down another point or even two. As soon as stimulation stops it starts going down. Also woman on top equals a loss of eq as well.
As a bit of fun I wanted to buy one of those penis mold things for my old lady where you stick your erection in that tube of gunk so that it hardens with your shape. But the instructions say you have to keep a full erection in there for about a minute. Now way I could do that, not even with porn. I simply don't respond that way. I need stimulation.
Is this a mental thing? My brain seems to be feeding signals just fine overnight so why not during sex. I've been having sex with the same woman for 16 years now in case that factors in.
What can I do to help with this aside from drugs? Is there a somewhat quick fix? I have a big event coming up in a few weeks and would like to be a bit better by then. Any hope?
My problem is something as simple as stopping to put on a condom will drop me down another point or even two. As soon as stimulation stops it starts going down. Also woman on top equals a loss of eq as well.
As a bit of fun I wanted to buy one of those penis mold things for my old lady where you stick your erection in that tube of gunk so that it hardens with your shape. But the instructions say you have to keep a full erection in there for about a minute. Now way I could do that, not even with porn. I simply don't respond that way. I need stimulation.
Is this a mental thing? My brain seems to be feeding signals just fine overnight so why not during sex. I've been having sex with the same woman for 16 years now in case that factors in.
What can I do to help with this aside from drugs? Is there a somewhat quick fix? I have a big event coming up in a few weeks and would like to be a bit better by then. Any hope?
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