A few problems

[spunkyboy2008]

Last Saturday I started PE again after a break of about a year or so. I don't live on my own anymore, I live with my boyfriend and he does not know about my PE at the moment. I thought I would only say once I had got some noticeable gains or he noticed.

So I've only been doing my PE when he has been out, which is on irregular days, because I think he'd find it strange if I was spending that long in the shower! So far I have done Saturday, Sunday, Wednesday, Friday (today).

I've been doing the following routine:

Warm up (in shower)
15 thirty-second stretches (straight out, down, right, left etc)
150 wet jelqs
Warm down

So, my question is, do you think it is OK if I don't have a regular schedule and just do my PE when I can (two days in a row sometimes, and maybe a few days off sometimes)? Also a more general question, do you tell your partner, and if not how do you hide it?

[W.M.P.]

So, my question is, do you think it is OK if I don't have a regular schedule and just do my PE when I can (two days in a row sometimes, and maybe a few days off sometimes)?

In the end, some PE is better than none. Some guys have had great results while dealing with similar situations as yours.


Also a more general question, do you tell your partner, and if not how do you hide it?

I personally don't have to worry about my girl finding out, cause I live by myself. Some people here have told their partners so perhaps they can chime in on that. I for one will keep it to myself until I end my days as a bachelor. However, there's been guys in similar situations as yours (hiding it) who have been quite successful. Most of them basically made an art out of how to sneak in their sessions. This one guy at another forum, found that the best way for him was to get up WAY earlier than his wife. She is the type who cherishes every second of extra sleep, so he figured he'd just get up with plenty of time to jelq, shower and all. He has been doing this for about a good year, and so far he has not missed a single session. Assess your own situation, figure out your boyfriend's patterns and eventually you'll find a way. Remember, where there's a will, there's always a way.

[PESG]

My wife-to-be knows about my PE dealings. She is pretty apathetic about the whole thing, which is nice. She basically calls it my reason to touch and play around with my penis on a daily basis. When she catches me jelqing, she laughs and says something along the lines of "so, how many more inches did you gain today?" Smartass...

Like W.M.P. said, even the slightest bit of PE is better than doing no PE at all. However, results in this business seem to greatly hinge on dedication and tenacity. You will more likely than not gain more by keeping to a dedicated and consistent routine. If you are worried about your boyfriend finding out, maybe you could do your entire routine in the shower. It shouldn't take you too long to do a simple set of stretches and 100-150 jelqs while in the shower. The shower is also a great place to do your warmup and warmdown, especially if you take your shower upon getting out of bed.

When all else fails, just tell him what you are doing. Who knows, maybe he'll embrace the idea and join in