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[selp]

Hello guys,
I never considered myself insecure in the length department. Until recently me and my girlfriend were split up for a few weeks and she ended up sleeping multiple times with a coworker of hers. We are back together, but after her telling me what happened, and me having to ask about the guy, she told me he was almost as big as a big tall can of beer, which I believe places the guy in the 7-8" range.
I am around 5-5.25" when erect. From what my girlfriend tells me, I have been the only one that has ever made her ejaculate and she doesn't care about stuff like that, which means a lot to me. But in the back of my head, I have nothing in size compared to the guy and the thought and insecurities linger in my head and are consuming me.
Today was my first time exercising. I do not expect to be in the 8" range, but I would like to reach a healthy 6.5-7"

I am reaching out for advice, both psychological and physical.
I started the beginners portion of training, which include warming up for 10 minutes, exercising for 6 minutes and jelqing for 10 minutes. I will take 2 days off, and repeat for a total of 5 weeks, then start to add extra time to the process and from what I hear, also increasing the pull strength and pressure being applied.

Thanks a lot to everyone
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

[hunglikeabumblebee]

Physical advice I suggest the JP90 routine, it's very popular and gets great results, I'm in the third week now and it's going well

Dump the girl.

[Daws]

she sounds very immature, I personnally would dump her, and do your exercises to please you not someone else. Continue to build confidence in yourself. There are alot of women out there that are nice, kind hearted, and loving. Personnality and trust is more important as the years go by. Good luck.