Is 8 Inches Long and 6 Inches Girth Really the Ideal?

**elijohnson** · 03-15-2015

r/bigdickproblems

Try e-mailing theyfit's support staff, they're a super helpful bunch and I'm sure on your first order they'll hook you up with a range to sample so you don't have to repeatedly order just to find what you like.

**Ivor** · 03-15-2015

I remember being taught about female condoms in sex-ed classes at school, but I've never seen one or used one (or been with a woman who's used one, I mean). Were they just a sort of 1990s flash in the pan, or what? Just struck me that, since they fit the vagina rather than the penis, they might better than normal condoms for bigger guys who have trouble finding ones that are comfortable.

**kong15** · 03-17-2015

Thank god I haven't worn a condom since 2002. I hated those things lol

**Phoenix7672** · 03-17-2015

Originally Posted by kong15

Thank god I haven't worn a condom since 2002. I hated those things lol

Small price to pay to have sex, at least for me, since I won't do it without one.

Ivor, so if you were already 8x5.6 pre-PE, what made you want to start? Was it wanting more girth and the length just came with it, or did you actually want to hit 9 and beyond, even with the odd issue?

**Ivor** · 03-18-2015

Originally Posted by Phoenix7672

Ivor, so if you were already 8x5.6 pre-PE, what made you want to start? Was it wanting more girth and the length just came with it, or did you actually want to hit 9 and beyond, even with the odd issue?

Good question. As silly as it may sound, at that size it felt and looked a little too thin in comparison to the length, if you know what I mean. So I decided to work on girth, and ended up thinking "might as well add a little length too" just for the sheer hell of it. Part of it was just the fact that I got a pretty favourable response from the first few girls I slept with, and thought "Well if 'big' is good, then 'huge' must be even better, right?" And 9" just seemed a good "round number" to shoot for. Definitely never considered going above 9" and to be honest it's just as well, for the sake of my girlfriend, that I've lost a fraction of an inch since I stopped PEing (she does not appreciate being punched in the cervix).

In all honesty, looking at big-dick porn probably had something to do with it, along with the sheer bonehead ego-trip of being told "OMG it's huge" and so on. So, all the usual silly reasons that guys do PE! Interestingly, I've seen stats compiled at Thunder's Place and most members there seem to have been above-averaged sized to start with, too. So while you might naturally expect that smaller-than-average guys would be more likely to take up PE, the dick-size/ego connection that already exists for biggish guys could be the main thing that pushes men to get even bigger.

**Phoenix7672** · 03-18-2015

Originally Posted by Ivor

Good question. As silly as it may sound, at that size it felt and looked a little too thin in comparison to the length, if you know what I mean. So I decided to work on girth, and ended up thinking "might as well add a little length too" just for the sheer hell of it. Part of it was just the fact that I got a pretty favourable response from the first few girls I slept with, and thought "Well if 'big' is good, then 'huge' must be even better, right?" And 9" just seemed a good "round number" to shoot for. Definitely never considered going above 9" and to be honest it's just as well, for the sake of my girlfriend, that I've lost a fraction of an inch since I stopped PEing (she does not appreciate being punched in the cervix).

In all honesty, looking at big-dick porn probably had something to do with it, along with sheer bonehead ego-trip of being told "OMG it's huge" and so on. So, all the usual silly reasons that guys do PE! Interestingly, I've seen stats compiled at Thunder's Place and most members there seem to have been above-averaged sized to start with, too. So while you might naturally expect that smaller-than-average guys would be more likely to take up PE, the dick-size/ego connection that already exists for biggish guys could be the main thing that pushes men to get even bigger.

I can essentially agree with that and draw a number of parallels too actually. For me, it only ever looked average and thin at 6.8x5, so I wanted to get to at least over 7 to prove to myself PE could work. Once I hit that, ego kicked in and I have to make it to 8x5.5 (my own internal goal). Still, my hope is a final size of 8.5x5.75 or bigger, although I'd love to break past 9 and reach just a hair over 6" of girth, even if it takes years (unless some girl stops me first).

That said, I knew the stats before starting, but couldn't see myself as anything but average at best. It was getting shut down by one girl actually that made me think "What if it is actually big? What can I do to hear huge from other girls who are hopefully game?". I'm also not tall, nor great looking, so finding out I'm bigger than most (and can make it certifiably huge)...it is a nice ego-boost when it comes to physical confidence around the fairer sex. I also think this is why so many guys who are bigger get into PE -- While some are small and try to find a way to be at least average, others are looking to see if they are big, find PE, and want to get as big as can fit...so to speak.

**Ivor** · 03-19-2015

Originally Posted by Phoenix7672

I can essentially agree with that and draw a number of parallels too actually. For me, it only ever looked average and thin at 6.8x5, so I wanted to get to at least over 7 to prove to myself PE could work. Once I hit that, ego kicked in and I have to make it to 8x5.5 (my own internal goal). Still, my hope is a final size of 8.5x5.75 or bigger, although I'd love to break past 9 and reach just a hair over 6" of girth, even if it takes years (unless some girl stops me first).

Sounds like you've made some pretty good gains already, so well done on that. Good luck with a) your future PE career, and b) knowing when to stop!

**Phoenix7672** · 03-19-2015

Originally Posted by Ivor

Sounds like you've made some pretty good gains already, so well done on that. Good luck with a) your future PE career, and b) knowing when to stop!

Thanks...still hoping for a lot more, and only stopping when they beg me. lol

**kong15** · 03-20-2015

Originally Posted by Phoenix7672

Thanks...still hoping for a lot more, and only stopping when they beg me. lol

lol i think the exact same way...

**kong15** · 03-24-2015

It's crazy when researching online but 8x6 really is huge statistically. Upper percentiles in both length and girth. I am so motivated to get there as I am in reach at 7.31x5.61! 9 months to get there.