Is 8 Inches Long and 6 Inches Girth Really the Ideal?

[Phoenix7672]

Also for reference, I recall seeing Shane Diesel measured at around 6.5" MEG. Considering how girthy he is, and the fact they probably fudged the measurement slightly to make him bigger, I can't see how many normal girls could take that...especially with a solid EQ.

If I can ever hit it, 6" MEG or just a hair over it is good for me, unless I marry a girl who can take more. Length I still want enough to bottom out 99% with a little to spare, which I guess means just over 9 BPEL.

Realistically though...I'm good with anywhere between about 8.5x5.5 and 9.5x6.25. Anything in that range, and I'd be extremely happy with my gains via PE.

[theLog]

Also for reference, I recall seeing Shane Diesel measured at around 6.5" MEG. Considering how girthy he is, and the fact they probably fudged the measurement slightly to make him bigger, I can't see how many normal girls could take that...especially with a solid EQ.

My response is honest and genuine, so here it goes:

In my experience it really depends more on is she a generally horny woman or is her libido relatively poor?

A 5'5" woman with little experience who I flat out couldn't get it in on the first two dates, was later on able to take me with ease after we bought her a toy to "prime her." After a short period, I didn't have to be gentle one bit. She excited very easily and had a healthy libido.

On the other hand, a 5'10" woman with plenty of experience could get me in from the get-go, however she never acclimated but only in short-term bursts (guessing ovulation here, because then she'd really get into it). She had a poor libido (at least in my eyes), and said she'd always been that way. She also flat out told me later on in our relationship she wished I was smaller girth-wise.

Lastly, -I apologize I don't have the link- but I recall reading what I believe was a condom-company article that said women's vagina's can stretch much, much more than is commonly advertised given some relatively short time to acclimate. I believe they quoted being able to stretch upwards of 9." Is this complete B.S.? Lol I don't know- you'll have to go ask a 9 incher.

But as far as "ideal," I'm basing my goals on what pops up when you type "ideal penis size chart for women" into Google.

[Phoenix7672]

But as far as "ideal," I'm basing my goals on what pops up when you type "ideal penis size chart for women" into Google.

Be careful with that one...depending on what comes up, you might find the old cosmo (or whatever) one that states around 10x8 as ideal, and anything below 8x6 unsatisfying for all. Pretty sure most girls don't need a wine bottle sized penis/dildo to get off during sex.

[NCGUY1972]

I'm ridiculously open at talking with women and each of them ( approximately 15 women in the last 4 months ) I have spoke to have all been completely satisfied with average and below average penises. Not one of them said the penis has ever been an issue in previous relationships. I've been hurt before ( because I allowed myself to worry??)and I've been over it for a long time. I'm very comfortable with my penis I know its not the longest or the girthiest and never will be and I'm completely fine with that. So I don't mind asking dumb questions to satisfy my curiosity now and I enjoy talking to women and getting their opinions in person on previous lovers abilities and penis sizes. The only complaints I have heard are stamina, technique or how doing the same exact thing every time was getting old. Some of them admitted they should have communicated better but they weren't comfortable bringing up some fantasies with previous husbands or boyfriends. I think there is a woman out there that will love the man attached to every penis on this forum and your penis will be ideal for that woman regardless of your size. I don't fault anyone for trying to make it bigger hell I am too but regardless what you've heard, read or been told we are all adequate and capable of being amazing lovers. If god forbid you have been told differently move on she wasn't the right one anyway. I've been told I wasn't "Ideal" (girth) I'm not with her anymore :-). You can read all the studies you want on "Ideal penis" that would be like us selecting a set of boobs which is crazy no one would do that? If we looked at 10 sets of boobs on a wall and picked a set we thought was "Ideal" we would forget all about it later that same day when we met an awesome woman that has a completely different set, her set would then become "ideal". Do I think the woman I'm with now is the best sexual partner in my life? yes I do, Is she really? I don't know but it feels that way and that's all that matters.

[Zekest]

I've fucked with ~10 girls in all my sexual life, most of these years with my initial measures. My initial measures, depending on how you measure it, were from 7" to 7.8" aproximatedly; both sizes are big, not a huge difference between them, but they are a "good" size even if they're not "huge". This is my opinion:

Some girls, especially the tiny, short ones, have it hard to get all that dick into them. You have to warm them up a little, with some hot kisses, touches and words, and then you're able to penetrate them to the final in missionary. In other deep possitions, that's much harder: many of these girls can't get all the dick, so you can confortably fuck them with some leftover centimeteres outside them.

But, hey, if you fuck with a medium girl, that was once with a guy that had it big, it's different. My ex, was with a guy that had a huge 23 cm dick (idk if well measured or not), so even if I could bottom her when we had deep sex, it wasn't "hard bottom". She could take it with no problem, so that says by itself that you could be bigger and still fuck comfortably. Despite this, she enjoyed it a lot and really loved to fuck with me.

My current situation is different: my girlfriend was virgin before being with me. She's tall, almost as much as me (she's 1.72 m, I'm 1.78 m), so her vagina is also deeper than the normal. With my old measures and normal EQ, I could get very deep inside her, but since I PE, this changed: now I passed to 18,5 / 21,5 cm (+7.2", +8.2") depending on how you measure and the EQ of the erection, which both are definitely good sizes. When I'm hard as hell, getting over those 8" easily, I feel a realy hard bottoming and a ultradeep fuck.

It's kinda hard this way. She needs to be reall, really warmped up to take all the dick. In 3/4 encounters, she definitely can't take that last centimeter or centimeter and half, she just can't, while sometimes if she's ultra warmed, we can do it to the maximum deep with absolutely no problem.

So, what can I say... I think it depends a lot on the girth you have, and how warmed your girl is. If you are friggin' big and she's not well warmed, she won't be able to take it, but if you somehow get her well prepared, I'm sure that a normal girl can take very big dicks inside them.

I'd say that the perfect size, is one that lets you fuck normally, and lets you get very deep inside her sometimes, when you can. If you're too big, you gonna have trouble having normal sex, sacrifying 4/5 of your sex moments for just having a very good one. If you're too little, you will never have any trouble, but neither have amazing deep sex sesions. So here my numbers (BPEL):

- Slightly girthy dick: 6.8/7" for short girls, 7/7.2" for medium and tall girls.
- Normal dick: 7.4/7.6" for short girls, 7,6/8" for medium and tall girls.
- Slightly thin dick: 8/8.2" for short girls, 8.2/8.4" for tall girls.

About girth, I can't say much since my girth didn't change a lot. I'm focusing on length, but well, I obviusly noticed a little increase in my girth, probably due to the increasing EQ. And I can say that a good girth, is always good with a woman, but too much can be a problem. Think of this mega-girthy men that need a lot of time for warming up, and the pain that women have after those sex sessions. I think that 6" in girth is a really, really good number, and I'd wish to have that size, but going over that, can be more a problem than a gift.

But none of this matters if you find a size queen. Luckily it never happened to me, but I think you've to get into 9" if you want to always like every girl you can find. Nobody can rant about that size, but it will be definitely too much big for most of girls.

[NCGUY1972]

I've been with so many partners I couldn't even begin to count and I've never noticed a correlation to vagina size related to height, weight or race. Very few that couldn't handle every bit of it either and the girl i'm with now was one of them but after a week or so she takes it all just like a champ. I personally think they adjust very well to length & girth of the partner they are with and penis size will only be an issue if you plan on having 1 night stands the rest of your life.

[akaTrex]

I've been with so many partners I couldn't even begin to count and I've never noticed a correlation to vagina size related to height, weight or race. Very few that couldn't handle every bit of it either and the girl i'm with now was one of them but after a week or so she takes it all just like a champ. I personally think they adjust very well to length & girth of the partner they are with and penis size will only be an issue if you plan on having 1 night stands the rest of your life.

Ditto NCGUY1972 !

I too have never noticed a correlation to vagina size related to height, weight or race.
The loosest was a tiny gal and the tightest was the largest gal I have had the pleasure to pleasure.

In fact the larger gal left me looking uncircumcised! Go figure.

[Phoenix7672]

Haven't seen any new content here, so figured I'd bump it both by saying fingers crossed I'll be at the infamous 8" by September (BPEL), and by saying by dumb luck I've been talking to a few girls, and at least 2 have commented how they have had huge (8-9" according to them), but found it too much. Still isn't going to derail me from my goals, as I'm ok with part in the cold, but more food for thought, and more proof bigger isn't always better.

[growtime]

Again my 2 cents. ))

hihi, There is not big or small size, are only incompatible couples.

Everyone of us are playing game called: Puzzle from 2 pieces. You are 1 piece and you need to find "right" 2nd piece.

[Phoenix7672]

Again my 2 cents. ))

hihi, There is not big or small size, are only incompatible couples.

Everyone of us are playing game called: Puzzle from 2 pieces. You are 1 piece and you need to find "right" 2nd piece.

Overall I agree, but it does only make sense that past a certain size, you start eliminating 'previously compatible' options, especially in terms of girth (since you can't control that as much as how much length goes in).