Is 8 Inches Long and 6 Inches Girth Really the Ideal?

[trill10]

Id personally say anything above 6 inches is just fine. True, it would be nice to have an 8 or 9 incher, but at the end of the day its all about what you feel confident with and i believe 6 inches is decent

[alan020]

I think personally I would like more the 6" in girth than 8" in length. Fatter is always better I think

[Pipeman]

8+6 is the goal!!! Or even just alittle bit bigger..

[benschmidt]

i believe 6 inches is decent

That's because it is. I wish more of the new guys you see on here so often believed that. You always here the same story, I have a 6 inch dick and it's so small, I feel awful, desperate, please help! I feel bad reading it, so you do the best you can to reassure them it's fine. Heck, my head wasn't in that great of a place that way when I found the site.

When I was in basic training, us guys got to talking about dick size and the well endowed black guy commented about how black guys all had bigger dicks than anyone else. I refuted, saying I wasn't sure if that was true. He looked me in the eye and told me to be quiet, that he had seen me in the shower and that I didn't have shit. For whatever reason, that stuck with me, and hurt my self esteem for a long time. I know it's a sadly common thing, and it can really take it's toll. These days, I wish I could find that dude again and slap him in the face with the new and improved model. There are some things you never speak ill of another man, and his penis is near the top of the list.

[alan020]

I do wonder, are black guys more likely to be a shower than a grower. You see a lot in gyms etc and they do look larger in general. But most studies say that this isn't the case.

[TANGO 5/10]

I do wonder, are black guys more likely to be a shower than a grower. You see a lot in gyms etc and they do look larger in general. But most studies say that this isn't the case.

ROTFL , That's just a stereotype about we all are all well endowed , like all black men can play basketball & are good running backs. I had a BPEL 7 at the age 18 but I swear that was due to my years going through puberty & unknowingly Jelqing. I would form the circle at my base and Squeeze all the semen out after I ejaculated because I felt guilty about dripping and walking around. It was done regularly after I jerked off. Now with the 8bpel & 6 Eg I think is a good GOAL. Let's face it , woman have kids and their Vaginas never quite go back to the same tightness. Now add multiple birth's. My Wife love's my PE gains & actually looking for more. But that's after pushing 5 kids out the Vagina & she loves me tapping her cervix and notice I said tap NOT POUND . SHE SAYS that S#@$ hurt's.
Currently
BPEL 7.75
MEG 5.75
Goal
BPEL 8+
MEG 6+
17 months of Jelqing & Manual Stretching , Stamina Training strong

[drISlittle]

I don't think so... Its more piece of mind for the guy, although some girls can certainly accommodate that easily. I've just over 6in in girth, always had a very thick penis but I was "only" about 7 inches, bpel/nbp. I was very skinny, so its possible I was slightly over 7 inches, but probably just a little bit of my tip not enough a girl would feel.

Anyways, my ex at the time I remember her asking me a lot if she had a loose pussy, and it wasn't but it also could be at the same time, it certainly wasn't EVER so tight it was hard to get in. If it was hard for me to put it in, she simply wasn't wet enough yet, she got VERY wet, so wet sometimes I couldn't even feel anything. Some of you guys are stressing so badly over that 6in girth mark but I'm telling you, it almost doesn't matter how thick you get, the girl can take it if she's wet enough.

I've never fucked a really petite girl before, so maybe then, even when she's wet it would be a struggle to shove my dick in there the first maybe week or something before she gets used to it. But length wise, I was pretty much at the point where for me, I could really smash and pound her pussy as hard as I could, but wouldn't hit her cervix as long as I was careful. During missionary I could hit her cervix if I was fully hard. If I was bigger, like, maybe an inch or 2, so 8-9 inches, sure, i'd feel more manly of course.

But wouldn't it suck too to be no longer able to just RAIL your girl as hard as you can, going all the way in as far as absolutely possible? Hell, if anyone here is an Efukt fan, you might have seen that video of even Gianna Michaels having to say enough is enough, dude had a huge dick, was too deep and even she couldn't take it.

I'd still probably take a larger dick, be hilarious to be 8-9 inches long nbpel, and then be over 7 inches in girth lmfao, but I'd imagine at that point, most girls are going to have to go very slow and deal with it hurting for awhile before it begins to be pleasurable, whereas if you were a couple inches shorter and maybe not so thick (depends on the girl), she could just hop on and orgasm over and over with no pain, and you'd get that feeling of fucking bruising that girl up from the back lol.

[Clockwork0]

kinda funny how so many of us including myself at times think a penis is like key, and believe a master key exists to unlock every vagina.

It just isn't the case, every woman has their own unique ideal size.

[benschmidt]

Funny thing is, most of the time she already decided she's going to sleep with you or not long before she has any idea what you're packing. Turns out that being nice, listening to her, and not making a fool of yourself is more important. Just like your mother told you. Obviously, some women just want to get laid, same as guys do, and a nice bulge will do the trick, but that's a whole different kind of woman.

[Party]

kinda funny how so many of us including myself at times think a penis is like key, and believe a master key exists to unlock every vagina.

It just isn't the case, every woman has their own unique ideal size.

Ditto that, great post, well done!