Is 8 Inches Long and 6 Inches Girth Really the Ideal?

[Steve23]

I'm sure most girls can take it, but doesn't mean most would enjoy it. Mens ideal isn't womens ideal.

[Sean Jacobs]

I agree. 8X6 is a male ideal. Naturally men want to be in the top percentile. It is deep seeded in our caveman competitive nature. We want to have that “Wow Factor” when we drop our pants; both to arouse (and maybe scare just a little) women and to intimidate/defeat other men (It’s good to be the king).

While 8” length may be too long for many women, when a man is pounding away, you can just go easy and insert only as much as is comfortable for her. As for 6” girth, I believe that when a woman is properly lubricated she can easily accommodate and find it pleasurable. A previous post mentioned a 6” girth dildo, but that can’t be compared to an actual penis. A real penis has more “give”; it is softer and has skin that shifts over the shaft, which is far more pleasurable than any piece of silicone available.

I must admit that my wife has commented about my size in a positive way, and sometimes in a negative way. When she's looking at it and holding it she complements me. Sometimes when I am penetrating her vaginally, and there isn't enough natural lubrication, she will ask me to stop. However, I found that with a good silicone based lube she has greatly enjoys it. I believe I could be above 6" girth and with that extra lube she would be fine.

[Black Amethyst]

I agree with Sean Jacobs on the whole "WOW" factor. A 8"x6" will definitely get the women talking amongst each other but once it is inside them it may be a whole other story. First of all, all women are different and not everyone handles the same. But personally I am more about the act of sex and I sure as hell do not want to be wasting valuable time trying to get my penis in slowly or risking that the size of my penis causes more discomfort than pain. As you can see below on my signature, my goal isn't very much. A length of 7" should be more than enough for most girls. Usually th 5"girth is a great size for women to enjoy but of course we want bigger. We want the wow factor. Since I am married I do not want to fully reach the 6" girth as I know it will be highly uncomfortable for the wife as she happens to be small in in size. Hell, I hit the cervix all the time as it is in certain positions but we can never go wrong with extra length. It just won't go in all the way.

[newtope25]

Ill give some insight. I came here to gain some length since my penis looks short since I am thick. I am at 7bpel x 6.2 MEG, but my base is 6.5-6.8 depending on arousal. From a mans point of view its cool being that thick. Girls dont notice how thick it seems to be until I insert it, thats when I get a lot of comments. Condoms are tight, even xls, and have left me with scarring at the base due to so much rubbing. You always need lube, it seems that some girls dry up pretty quickly (Im not that old either, Im only 29, so most girls I am with should be fine with their natural production) or just dont make enough natural lubricant to keep things going smoothly. You need a lot of foreplay, so quickies are normally a no go. Most girls get very sore unless you take it pretty slow the whole time. So sex cant be frequent unless your girl has a high pain tolerance. Although mouth size never seems to be a problem, some girls scrape their teeth, or get lock jaw pretty quickly. If you are having hard sex most girls have stopped me because at some point they get to sore.

The upside is there is a little wow factor if your into that kind of thing. And I have only been with one girl who didnt orgasm vaginally. I think girth really helps this along, Im not sure why. I read all this stuff saying most girls cant, but like I said only one girl I have been with just couldn't, every other one including my current girlfriend seems to get them just fine.

So while i feel incredibly lucky to have that girth, and I like it. I cant imagine 6 being ideal. Shit I cant imagine most sizes being ideal, I think each individual woman will have a size she may like. I mean all this talk about going to 8 inches. At 7 Ive never had a problem pleasing anyone. My current girlfriend and I play with another couple from time to time. This guy is 5.2 x 4.5, the girls measured us once. He has absolutely no problem bringing his girl or mine to orgasm. Stop worrying if your size will please the girl your with, learn how to work it, and do the size gaining for yourself. My girlfriend even admits hes a great lover because he is confident, knows how to use his tool in the right positions, and has a good rhythm. On another note once in highschool a buddy of mine and I were with this girl at a party at the same time. This kid had at least an inch, inch and a half on me. He was thinner but longer for sure. Girls always talked about his unit. This girl told him to stop numerous times because he couldnt use it right, and kept ramming her cervix, he thought rough was the only way. After going back and forth a bit, she stopped him and just gave him oral. Afterwards when her and I were talking she said he was the biggest she had had or seen, but he was terrible.

I guess what I am saying is again do PE for yourself. Dont do PE and think its going to make a big difference when It comes to sex. There are so many guys out there below average, average, big, large, that dont know how to use it. Learn to use it right, and it wont matter what size you are.

[Black Amethyst]

I guess what I am saying is again do PE for yourself. Dont do PE and think its going to make a big difference when It comes to sex. There are so many guys out there below average, average, big, large, that dont know how to use it. Learn to use it right, and it wont matter what size you are.

There you go!

[Crazy8.5]

Ideal... I'd like to think so - Ive heard words used like Perfect, huge, thick, ideal and amazing most of my sexual life; perhaps its partially polite, perhaps it partly true. I can also add that there have been few girls who simply couldn't take me - no way, no how. All Shapes and Sizes! Its frustrating when your in the moment and you just cant get inside her... I recall dating a girl with an insanely hot body; several times we tried to have sex (every time, she was dripping wet) and she couldn't open up enough - we tried every position - from doggie to her squatting on me.. Nothing! And, lets not forget the teeth that feel like fangs! And, anal sex is a infrequent at best..... So, is it "ideal"? A bunch would say no... But the women who've had body shaking orgasms, squirted, gushed, cried from an orgasm would say - the size is pretty awesome when you know how to use it....

... Ironically, I'd say that 9" long is perfect... Long enough to always hit the cul-de-sac.

[dickencider]

I agree with the three posts above this. I have a 6" MEG and a 6.75 BEG. It has always been difficult getting it in. My wife is getting older and I have to be very careful and patient or else I will make her bleed. which makes her self conscious and always worried about bleeding during sex. Lube is a must. Newtope25 is right. Be selfish. PE for yourself. Grow a big,long, fat dick that you feel proud to hold in your hand. But remember that the bigger it gets, the better the lover you must be.

[GoingForGold]

I guess I have always had loose girls because I started with 6" MEG and never had to be that careful. Maybe if you are born with, you are born with the ability to use it. I can't imagine being born with an appendage that can only get a certain percentile of women pregnant.

Personally I'm fed up with these topics related to too much girth but I guess they serve a purpose for all the guys that need to voice their stories of ripping condoms and pussies apart.

When I had 6" MEG I had very rough sex with girls, multiple times in a day. I broke the virginity of two girls and they weren't crying, ripping open, or bleeding more than a virgin should. I guess it worked because I was young, but I'd like to believe it will work for life.

As it has been said, technique is everything and lube helps. The vagina is very flexible. I can see myself going for 8" of girth, the size of a beer bottle, if possible. Right now my base is around 7.5" and fits in my gf fine when she asks for it. In fact, I think I could fit a finger in there when she's totally aroused. Crying and pain is a serious turn-off for me, but when she wants to be stretched apart, I can do that.

The ideal size is any size of yours in a vagina.

[dickencider]

I guess I have always had loose girls because I started with 6" MEG and never had to be that careful. Maybe if you are born with, you are born with the ability to use it. I can't imagine being born with an appendage that can only get a certain percentile of women pregnant.

Personally I'm fed up with these topics related to too much girth but I guess they serve a purpose for all the guys that need to voice their stories of ripping condoms and pussies apart.

When I had 6" MEG I had very rough sex with girls, multiple times in a day. I broke the virginity of two girls and they weren't crying, ripping open, or bleeding more than a virgin should. I guess it worked because I was young, but I'd like to believe it will work for life.

As it has been said, technique is everything and lube helps. The vagina is very flexible. I can see myself going for 8" of girth, the size of a beer bottle, if possible. Right now my base is around 7.5" and fits in my gf fine when she asks for it. In fact, I think I could fit a finger in there when she's totally aroused. Crying and pain is a serious turn-off for me, but when she wants to be stretched apart, I can do that.

The ideal size is any size of yours in a vagina.

I should have clarified. I agree with you completely about the vagina being able to accommodate a larger girth. What I meant to say is that my situation is unique to me in that my lady has some internal issues that require me to be careful with her. It wasn't always that way, just recently. I'm not even sure size has anything to do with it.

[GoingForGold]

Thanks for the clarification, I wasn't targeting you with my response though. I like your name by the way.