New to this, lots of questions

[Atr0]

Hello,

I am sure many of these questions have been discussed thoroughly upon these forums, so if you just wanna give brief answers, that works.

An ex-fwb and I still casually hang out, and by complete accident, she was speaking of her new bf, and how big he is compared to everyone else she has slept with, because they were all so tiny. She only realized what she had said afterwards, and apologized furiously to me. I accepted, accidents happen, however, it's absolutely destroyed my ego in that department. I have been doing a routine I found online for about 30 minutes a day (10m for stretching, 20 for jelqs), for nearly a month now, with absolutely 0 gains in all departments. When I jelq, I don't feel any difference afterwards, but I see many on here do see, and feel, lingering effects.

1) I use an underhand technique, because I can't seem to find any way to do it overhand that isn't awkward, where my hands don't get in the way of one another. Am I doing something drastically wrong?

2) Additionally, I see that not much pressure should be used; however, if I don't use significant pressure, I don't feel as if I am doing anything at all, and the head doesn't swell up in the slightest. Can someone correct me please? I am afraid that I am doing something wrong, and could possible cause nerve damage, or an ED of sorts.

3) When I see people talking about doing 300 or so jelqs a day...is that at once? or spread apart? Seems like quite a lot of time (and frankly, it's pretty boring).

4) Should I be doing a full routine twice a day, morning and night?

I think that is all for now. Thank you very much for your help! Any advice is more than welcomed, as I am getting extremely discouraged and frustrated.

[GoingForGold]

I feel like you are too worried and taking it too seriously. Pull and tug and play with your penis and it will grow. Jelqs are not the only exercise. Have fun with it!

PM me if you want in-depth answers