Sexual Concern

[misermice Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close misermice]

I did go through you site for different concerns.
This site gives me a lot of hope.

I might sound a little silly but this what i am. I sexually get excited very soon.

Examples:

I will have a erect penis when


1. I see a sexually appealing pose or woman , and as soon as my intentions think about sex

2. If i am on call with my gf and when we start talking about hugging each other

3. If i am watching some sex scenes in movies, not even porn.


I mean if a gal hugs me tight and starts to kiss me i feel like almost ejaculating. But still the peenis never got harder like a little strong muscle. (Learned through internet and sex stories that it becomes hard). And when she takes that in her hand and starts playing with it, i feel very good and ejaculate with in say 20 to 25 seconds. I know that this is premature ejaculation. I mean severe premature ejaculation.

I fear if this is erectile dysfunctions. I really like to have a lot of sex(like all of you) but never could last more than half minute. I also do a good masturbation. I dont want to use pills every night before having sex throughout my life.

So tried some natural remidies like


1. Two to three cloves of raw garlic should be chewed daily (got ulcers in mouth but no result)

2. Carrots are considered valuable in sexuality For better results, about 150 gm of carrots, chopped finely, should be taken with a half-boiled egg, dipped in a tablespoon of honey, once daily for a month or two.


But these didnt really show any improvement. Please suggest me what to do ? I am looking for a natural way of cure. My lifestyle is not very unhealthy. I live normal life like all other guys. I am a little overweight but not obese at all. I am 24 now. 5ft 7" tall. 170 pounds in weight. I don't remember any time in my life where i lasted more than a minute.

So i am looking forward
1. to last for about two minutes at least.
2. not worried about length (flacid:2.5 and errect: 4) but i have something else to worry more about.

Cannot share with friends as they will make fun out of me.


I am getting married soon , And i dont wanna loose my virginity by experimenting it with someone else before marriage so please help me.
What shd i do? Where should i start.


Thank You
Miser

[slanker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close slanker]

Ok Il start by giving you one tip try edging, which is masturbating for 20 minutes or more and NOT EJACULATING at the end. This is key to re-training the mind and body to not ejaculate and then last longer. Read more here:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginner/2802-edging-101-a.html

Others will chime in however I am sure this thread should be in the premature ejaculation forum and you should read up their too. Good luck.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Hey Misermice, waste one in the toilet, then wait to gget horny again then start masturabting and time it. You should last longer the second time.

[PhibbysHammer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PhibbysHammer]

I did go through you site for different concerns.
This site gives me a lot of hope.
I might sound a little silly but this what i am. I sexually get excited very soon.
Examples:
I will have a erect penis when
1. I see a sexually appealing pose or woman , and as soon as my intentions think about sex
2. If i am on call with my gf and when we start talking about hugging each other
3. If i am watching some sex scenes in movies, not even porn.
I mean if a gal hugs me tight and starts to kiss me i feel like almost ejaculating. But still the peenis never got harder like a little strong muscle. (Learned through internet and sex stories that it becomes hard). And when she takes that in her hand and starts playing with it, i feel very good and ejaculate with in say 20 to 25 seconds. I know that this is premature ejaculation. I mean severe premature ejaculation.
I fear if this is erectile dysfunctions. I really like to have a lot of sex(like all of you) but never could last more than half minute. I also do a good masturbation. I dont want to use pills every night before having sex throughout my life.
So tried some natural remidies like
1. Two to three cloves of raw garlic should be chewed daily (got ulcers in mouth but no result)
2. Carrots are considered valuable in sexuality For better results, about 150 gm of carrots, chopped finely, should be taken with a half-boiled egg, dipped in a tablespoon of honey, once daily for a month or two.
But these didnt really show any improvement. Please suggest me what to do ? I am looking for a natural way of cure. My lifestyle is not very unhealthy. I live normal life like all other guys. I am a little overweight but not obese at all. I am 24 now. 5ft 7" tall. 170 pounds in weight. I don't remember any time in my life where i lasted more than a minute.
So i am looking forward
1. to last for about two minutes at least.
2. not worried about length (flacid:2.5 and errect: 4) but i have something else to worry more about.
Cannot share with friends as they will make fun out of me.
I am getting married soon , And i dont wanna loose my virginity by experimenting it with someone else before marriage so please help me.
What shd i do? Where should i start.
Thank You
Miser

Hey Miser, Where are you from? I'm confused. Are you a virgin or not? Have you experienced sex as of yet as you said or has it only been fondling and touching with no actual intercourse and you are in fact still a virgin? ( I ask so I understand your problem better)
Either way, I think we all experience those problems when we are young and especially when we are just starting to break ourselves in to becoming sexually active. Everyone should shower or wash very thoroughly before a sexual encounter and as KingPole said, waste one an hour or so before the actual event, in the shower for instance. I did it many times as a young man so I could last longer with my girlfriend/wife and well into my early 20s. Also try masturbating without Pornography. Use your own imagination. When you masturbate and begin to feel the urge to ejaculate STOP!!! Wait a few minutes, then start again. After 20-30 minutes allow yourself to ejaculate. I strongly suggest you start a good exersize program also such as this one............
https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html as it will help you in so many ways including premature ejaculation.
Congratulations on your upcoming marriage and Good Luck!!

[misermice Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close misermice]

Ok Il start by giving you one tip try edging, which is masturbating for 20 minutes or more and NOT EJACULATING at the end. This is key to re-training the mind and body to not ejaculate and then last longer. Read more here:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginner/2802-edging-101-a.html

Others will chime in however I am sure this thread should be in the premature ejaculation forum and you should read up their too. Good luck.

Hello Slanker

Thanks a lot for your help. Your replies means a lot to me. Well can you direct me to the exact link where the edging technique is described. Coz, the link you showed is not working. I can find a lot of discussions about it but not the exact link.

[misermice Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close misermice]

Hey Miser, Where are you from? I'm confused. Are you a virgin or not? Have you experienced sex as of yet as you said or has it only been fondling and touching with no actual intercourse and you are in fact still a virgin? ( I ask so I understand your problem better)
Either way, I think we all experience those problems when we are young and especially when we are just starting to break ourselves in to becoming sexually active. Everyone should shower or wash very thoroughly before a sexual encounter and as KingPole said, waste one an hour or so before the actual event, in the shower for instance. I did it many times as a young man so I could last longer with my girlfriend/wife and well into my early 20s. Also try masturbating without Pornography. Use your own imagination. When you masturbate and begin to feel the urge to ejaculate STOP!!! Wait a few minutes, then start again. After 20-30 minutes allow yourself to ejaculate. I strongly suggest you start a good exersize program also such as this one............
https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html as it will help you in so many ways including premature ejaculation.
Congratulations on your upcoming marriage and Good Luck!!

Hai PhybbisHammer

thanks a lot of reply, your message gives me confidence and also some more doubts. I am 24 but still virgin, as you said it was just fondling and touching that too just once before a year, All my problems i described are based on the masturbation. Ok i will not use porn for masturbating. Well soemone just told me to masturbate and stop ..with out ejaculating for about 20 to 30 mins and then DONOT ejaculate finally. Is it so ? Wad do u say about Edging ? I am thinking to try edging for few days and then will start a workout plan. I am yet to do my measurements, once i did i will let you know.

thank you
Miser

[Auszlupin Member Find all posts View Profile Close Auszlupin]

Is your premature ejaculation physical or mental? Are you simply too sensitive, or do you get excited too easily? Do PE. If you are too sensitive (physically) then just doing PE will probably stimulate you without getting you off. You will become a bit desensitized. If it's a mental thing, then you just have to learn how to relax, breath slowly, and not focus on the physical sensations. Masturbate more often but learn how to relax and make it take a long time. Chances are it is a bit of both (physical and mental).

[eompow Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close eompow]

I did go through you site for different concerns.
This site gives me a lot of hope.

I might sound a little silly but this what i am. I sexually get excited very soon.

Examples:

I will have a erect penis when


1. I see a sexually appealing pose or woman , and as soon as my intentions think about sex

2. If i am on call with my gf and when we start talking about hugging each other

3. If i am watching some sex scenes in movies, not even porn.


I mean if a gal hugs me tight and starts to kiss me i feel like almost ejaculating. But still the peenis never got harder like a little strong muscle. (Learned through internet and sex stories that it becomes hard). And when she takes that in her hand and starts playing with it, i feel very good and ejaculate with in say 20 to 25 seconds. I know that this is premature ejaculation. I mean severe premature ejaculation.

I fear if this is erectile dysfunctions. I really like to have a lot of sex(like all of you) but never could last more than half minute. I also do a good masturbation. I dont want to use pills every night before having sex throughout my life.

So tried some natural remidies like


1. Two to three cloves of raw garlic should be chewed daily (got ulcers in mouth but no result)

2. Carrots are considered valuable in sexuality For better results, about 150 gm of carrots, chopped finely, should be taken with a half-boiled egg, dipped in a tablespoon of honey, once daily for a month or two.


But these didnt really show any improvement. Please suggest me what to do ? I am looking for a natural way of cure. My lifestyle is not very unhealthy. I live normal life like all other guys. I am a little overweight but not obese at all. I am 24 now. 5ft 7" tall. 170 pounds in weight. I don't remember any time in my life where i lasted more than a minute.

So i am looking forward
1. to last for about two minutes at least.
2. not worried about length (flacid:2.5 and errect: 4) but i have something else to worry more about.

Cannot share with friends as they will make fun out of me.


I am getting married soon , And i dont wanna loose my virginity by experimenting it with someone else before marriage so please help me.
What shd i do? Where should i start.


Thank You
Miser

Dear Miser,

If you are in-fact a virgin and close to marriage keep that special event for your new wife. This will create a deep one of a kind special bond for only you and her. To marry you, she would love you and work with any issues or concerns you have. Thinking of this new relationship she also has fears and desires that you can help her with (love and kindness) as the leader of your home and marriage.
The posting's on physical and mental control are going to very helpful to you. There is work to be done but you can do this. Patience, study the posting's, mental control and time will help you achieve your goal of lasting a long time with your special new wife. It is possible with time, training and study to last hours or as long as the both of you desire. Also look up and study books and threads on Multiple orgasms and/or dry orgasms.

Hope this helps. Congratulations on your pending marriage.

[misermice Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close misermice]

Is your premature ejaculation physical or mental? Are you simply too sensitive, or do you get excited too easily? Do PE. If you are too sensitive (physically) then just doing PE will probably stimulate you without getting you off. You will become a bit desensitized. If it's a mental thing, then you just have to learn how to relax, breath slowly, and not focus on the physical sensations. Masturbate more often but learn how to relax and make it take a long time. Chances are it is a bit of both (physical and mental).

Ausuzlupin

Hi thanz for ur reply. Well i think its both physical and mental. Coz a simple reading of a romantic episode in a story arouses my device and also it generates the sexual thought in my mind. Well i am trying to learn to relaax and take a long breath. Last time when i ejaculated, i lasted long. Coz i concentrated on foreplay for about 20 minutes and then took it out and started jerking off, by that time it was very hard(Usually it will not be coz, i take it out the moment it is aroused..which is again immediately as i get a sexual thought), it was hard .. but it took 20 rapid shots for it to ejaculate. So the total time was 21 minutes. The time for which i had it in my hand was about 20 to 30 seconds. Is this called lasting long ? Again excuse me for being dumb, i told you i am a virgin.

Thank You

[misermice Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close misermice]

Dear Miser,

If you are in-fact a virgin and close to marriage keep that special event for your new wife. This will create a deep one of a kind special bond for only you and her. To marry you, she would love you and work with any issues or concerns you have. Thinking of this new relationship she also has fears and desires that you can help her with (love and kindness) as the leader of your home and marriage.
The posting's on physical and mental control are going to very helpful to you. There is work to be done but you can do this. Patience, study the posting's, mental control and time will help you achieve your goal of lasting a long time with your special new wife. It is possible with time, training and study to last hours or as long as the both of you desire. Also look up and study books and threads on Multiple orgasms and/or dry orgasms.

Hope this helps. Congratulations on your pending marriage.

hello empow thank you for ur message. I will keep in mind your words.

[Auszlupin Member Find all posts View Profile Close Auszlupin]

Ausuzlupin

Hi thanz for ur reply. Well i think its both physical and mental. Coz a simple reading of a romantic episode in a story arouses my device and also it generates the sexual thought in my mind. Well i am trying to learn to relaax and take a long breath. Last time when i ejaculated, i lasted long. Coz i concentrated on foreplay for about 20 minutes and then took it out and started jerking off, by that time it was very hard(Usually it will not be coz, i take it out the moment it is aroused..which is again immediately as i get a sexual thought), it was hard .. but it took 20 rapid shots for it to ejaculate. So the total time was 21 minutes. The time for which i had it in my hand was about 20 to 30 seconds. Is this called lasting long ? Again excuse me for being dumb, i told you i am a virgin.

Thank You

Ok now do that every time you want to get off. Practice masturbating without feeling your penis and without the goal of ejaculation. Masturbating without feeling your penis is difficult, but possible. I find that the trick to allowing me to last longer.