so when i kegel i cant hold it, it just releases, like i tried and tried but nothing, i have been trying for a long time and nothing, is that normal, also can this be relevant to my not being able hold 100% bloodflow in my penis, like it rushes in and then comes back out, this all happened b4 any penile excersises, like i can get stiff but not OMG hard, should i consult a physician