First post, couple observations. Psychological PE? also another question = )

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Hi everyone. Just stumbled on this site! Excited to start learning a lot of knowledge here. Couple things that I've noticed recently.

1) Anyone have any suggestions with psychological PE? Here is what is going on. I have problems with two things, one... when my girlfriend starts getting really into it and starts moving her hips to match my motions, It drives me close to the edge and I cant take it. Therefore, I tend to choose positions which I'm in control and can control the movements, she still loves it but I feel we could be doing so much more. I also have a problem that when I feel her getting close, it gets me off. If she doesn't quite get to where she needs to be, then I'm kind of screwed because she needs a more while I'm already done. Obviously a problem.

Now here is where I think it is psychological. While smoking 420, I noticed that I can last an incredibly long time with no problems with PE, no matter how she is moving on me or how hard we go at it. It still feels every bit as good, and there is no differences with my arousal level, but something about it separates the psychological aspects that get me off quicker. One night we had a several hour fest with no problems at all, and that was full out sex for the several hours. Incredible. Therefore, since all of the mechanical things can obviously last that long and PE is not a concern while in this state. I don't see why I should have a problem without the 420. Anyone have any ideas on that?

2) This is something that I've been wondering for a little while and maybe the fine people of this place can offer some insight. Through intercourse, do people tend to relax their penis and not tighten it throughout the entirety? I constantly feel the need to pulse it/tighten it. Should you fight that urge and only tighten to control when you get close? Or could the constant Kegel lead to a quicker ejaculation.

Thanks everyone!

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Hi everyone. Just stumbled on this site! Excited to start learning a lot of knowledge here. Couple things that I've noticed recently.

1) Anyone have any suggestions with psychological PE? Here is what is going on. I have problems with two things, one... when my girlfriend starts getting really into it and starts moving her hips to match my motions, It drives me close to the edge and I cant take it. Therefore, I tend to choose positions which I'm in control and can control the movements, she still loves it but I feel we could be doing so much more. I also have a problem that when I feel her getting close, it gets me off. If she doesn't quite get to where she needs to be, then I'm kind of screwed because she needs a more while I'm already done. Obviously a problem.

Now here is where I think it is psychological. While smoking 420, I noticed that I can last an incredibly long time with no problems with PE, no matter how she is moving on me or how hard we go at it. It still feels every bit as good, and there is no differences with my arousal level, but something about it separates the psychological aspects that get me off quicker. One night we had a several hour fest with no problems at all, and that was full out sex for the several hours. Incredible. Therefore, since all of the mechanical things can obviously last that long and PE is not a concern while in this state. I don't see why I should have a problem without the 420. Anyone have any ideas on that?

2) This is something that I've been wondering for a little while and maybe the fine people of this place can offer some insight. Through intercourse, do people tend to relax their penis and not tighten it throughout the entirety? I constantly feel the need to pulse it/tighten it. Should you fight that urge and only tighten to control when you get close? Or could the constant Kegel lead to a quicker ejaculation.

Thanks everyone!

I'm always stoned so I cant say if It helps me or not, but I do know I have the same problems high or not. As far as not cumming fast, I usually just look into her eyes or watch her face while I'm in her. Start slow and don't even think about cumming or not, just think about how youre making her feel at that time. But before all that fun, you should get her off a few good times, make her good and wet. By the time you start fucking, she will be so wet and sticky, yea it might make you more sensitive and more of a challenge not to cum, but it should and most the time help her cum again while fucking, if not more than once...

I make her cum several times before sex, and then some more during sex and I am having issues with my dick right now(tight base, wont relax, only 5" when erect not the 7'' I am, and my girth isn't as thick either, but I still manage to do all of this for her and me. It helps that she knows about my problem and she is supportive and that makes it easier to relax...