What does it mean to hold back an orgasm?

**trex** · 08-30-2009

Hmm so how long do you think this usualy takes before i can "master the art of being able to hold off an orgasm 100% of the time"?

**MrBigDick** · 08-30-2009

Originally Posted by trex

Hmm so how long do you think this usualy takes before i can "master the art of being able to hold off an orgasm 100% of the time"?

There's no time limit here bro, it happens when it happens. But, your starting now so you should be able to abstain from climax and ejaculation when you finally start having sex. A question though, why would you want to hold off orgasm 100% of the time? I don't even do that.

**Pegasus** · 08-31-2009

I think he may mean ejaculation Mr BD, which of course is a different thing.
You have a lot of advantages learning edging, especially the info on this site.
given that and not geting distracted by tantric astral travel a couple of months seems preety typical.
However as Mr BD says it is highly individual.
Let us know how you go.

**courage** · 08-31-2009

It means that ____ can thrust for x amount of time before he comes. He can thrust for x amount of time and then he has to stop and cool of. Practicing sexual stamina techniques such as edging will increase this amount of time

**eompow** · 08-31-2009

Originally Posted by MrBigDick

There's no time limit here bro, it happens when it happens. But, your starting now so you should be able to abstain from climax and ejaculation when you finally start having sex. A question though, why would you want to hold off orgasm 100% of the time? I don't even do that.

Mr BD is right on the 100% of the time.

It seems to go in cycles with what ever makes me and her happy. Sometimes between 2 to 5 multiples and then sometimes just the one and then done. Keep it flexible and change things up to create some variety.

Also outside stress

, vacations, business travel and other variables can influence what a couple wants and needs.

I guess just have fun with the love of your life.

Have a great PE day.

**rbi99** · 08-31-2009

If you are reaching the PONR and "kegel like crazy", you will blow your load right then and there. If you are reaching the PONR you need to do a single long held kegel (probably for 10 seconds or more). If successful you will not cum, but you will soften up. It isn't like if you stop from cumming you retain a full erections and all the same urges. If you are young you will regain everything very quickly, but for us old bastards we might as well just let it rip right then and there!!

**trex** · 08-31-2009

There's no time limit here bro, it happens when it happens. But, your starting now so you should be able to abstain from climax and ejaculation when you finally start having sex. A question though, why would you want to hold off orgasm 100% of the time? I don't even do that.

Ya i mean ejaculation, sorry. I was wondering if edging would be good for making it take longer before i feel the need to ejaculate

What about multiple orgasms, does edging help with that? (whatever that is)

**MrBigDick** · 08-31-2009

Originally Posted by trex

Ya i mean ejaculation, sorry. I was wondering if edging would be good for making it take longer before i feel the need to ejaculate

What about multiple orgasms, does edging help with that? (whatever that is)

I've never had a multiple so I couldn't tell you, unless your referring to giving her the multiples. Perhaps what your referring to is having orgasms close in proximity to one another? Edging will help with all of it. As was said above, do one long hard kegel once you reach your PONR and you should be able to ward off an ejaculation and climax.