What does it mean to hold back an orgasm?

[trex]

I've heard the phrase "___ can hold his orgasm for x amount"

Say he is masturbating, does that mean that when hes stroking and has reached the PONR, he can still stroke with the same speed but not actually orgasm?

Or does it mean he has the mental strength to RESIST orgasm by stopping the stroking and letting the penis "cool off"?

Same thing in sex, which one is true? Are you able to thrust FOREVER and not ejaculate or do you have to pull out and let it cool a little before resuming?

[MrBigDick]

I've heard the phrase "___ can hold his orgasm for x amount"

Say he is masturbating, does that mean that when hes stroking and has reached the PONR, he can still stroke with the same speed but not actually orgasm?

Or does it mean he has the mental strength to RESIST orgasm by stopping the stroking and letting the penis "cool off"?

Same thing in sex, which one is true? Are you able to thrust FOREVER and not ejaculate or do you have to pull out and let it cool a little before resuming?

Mind control has ALOT to do with it. As men, we have the ability to control our orgasm through multiple methods. You can pull out so the sensation of orgasm stops. You can use mind manipulation to convince yourself you're not going to cum just yet and you don't. OR, you have very well developed kegel muscles that in conjunction with mind control, you can prolong your orgasm and have a longer, more satisfying sexual encounter............and a more intense orgasm as well.

[Pegasus]

Perhaps it's just me ,but I prefer the multi orgasm method.

[MrBigDick]

Perhaps it's just me ,but I prefer the multi orgasm method.

Who doesn't??

[Pegasus]

So trex if you agree, get to training kegals and edging.

[trex]

OR, you have very well developed kegel muscles that in conjunction with mind control, you can prolong your orgasm and have a longer, more satisfying sexual encounter............and a more intense orgasm as well

So say youre having sex:

As your thrusting you near orgasm and feel youre about to ejaculate, if you kegel hard enough to stop it, can you still keep on thrusting? At that time you are on the peak of orgasm right? Once you relax the PC/BC muscles you blow? Am i correct?

Or is it a different sensation? Please explain

[MrBigDick]

So say youre having sex:

As your thrusting you near orgasm and feel youre about to ejaculate, if you kegel hard enough to stop it, can you still keep on thrusting? At that time you are on the peak of orgasm right? Once you relax the PC/BC muscles you blow? Am i correct?

Or is it a different sensation? Please explain

I believe the key is to slow up while your kegeling hard to stop the orgasm as well as the mind control. I would thrust, but not as hard. I would simply slow down my momentum while I kegel like crazy to ward off my orgasm. You decide when your ready to blow. For me personally, I'll be fucking my girl and once I feel an orgasm upon me, I will slow up, kegel really hard and hold my kegel until the feeling subsides. I will also think of something else..........sort of a mental diversion to take my focus off the impending orgasm. These things usually help me last longer and satisfy my girl more. However, she likes it when I cum because when I do, she does and she likes to cum and orgasm so I usually don't abstain from orgasm too long. Hope this helps.

[Pegasus]

My experience is similar to 10's. Though I tend to orgasm ( dry through kegals), then change pace so as to orgasm again without E, and so on. I also usually ejaculate at the end of a session. However if I have another session planed sometimes I won't, as I am not a teenager any more and multiple times a day sessions sometimes require some of them to be ejaculation free.

[trex]

I believe the key is to slow up while your kegeling hard to stop the orgasm as well as the mind control. I would thrust, but not as hard. I would simply slow down my momentum

So lets take this one step back. Right now im "training" (by mastuurbating) for the day of my first time. So in order to hold off orgasms i should just edge, and try to reach as many PONR's as possible before ejaculating? Sometimes i REALLY want to ejaculate and alot of the times masturbating for more than 15 minutes can be very boring for me. How else am i supposed to prepare/train?

while I kegel like crazy to ward off my orgasm

When you say this are you saying you are squeezing your kegel muscles rapidly or just squeezing and holding as tight as you can for as long as you can?

[MrBigDick]

If you're not having actual sex yet, then what you are doing by masturbating to your PONR and not allowing yourself to ejaculate is about the only way to train. If it's boring for you, try to do something to liven it up a bit. Watch porn, close your eyes and fantasize............you get the idea.

When I kegel to abstain from climaxing, I do one serious hard kegel and hold until the feeling subsides.