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[saintly Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close saintly]

Just joined the website and been doing a lot of reading. I'm 33 years old and never had any complaints from numerous sexual partners. I am in my 2nd marriage, next week is our first anniversary but last night we had "the conversation." A few years ago, before we met, she had a full hysterectomy, so her sex drive isn't much. We have sex pretty often considering though, at least 2-3 times a week. It just seems like there is something missing with it though. So last night we had that talk and I know I'm no pornstar, but when we incorporate toys, it's seems like she has a better time. All that aside, I'm going to start the 90 day routine today and I'm looking for support from guys who have been in the same situation as I am in. My confidence has taken a shot because I know I have average length and girth but it has never been an issue until now.

So, ive been doing a ton of research and saw some tools than you can buy as well as some gel, well this stuff help in my gains or does it just make it easier? I'm determined to add at least an inch and a half and some girth and, like anyone else, would like to know the best and quickest way to see growth. She is also going to her obgyn and see if there is anything that she can take to help her with her sex drive. I don't want this sex life with her to become just another chore, ya know, I want us to both enjoy it to the extreme.

Any advice and words of encouragement are appreciated and I plan on becoming a dedicated member here! Thanks in advance guys. Oh, also, im starting a journal to keep up with exercises and gains.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

First off keep tools away from your dick; very dangerous, especially power tools.
As for gels, use them for your hair. They'll do more good there than any place else.
Now saunter over to the beginners section, read the safety first and the JP 90 day beginners workout and then get to work. Just make sure you're slow and gentle and you take your time.
As for toys, well they are hard to compete with aren't they. Face it they can do things that most humans can't. Don't think of it as a competition but more of an aid to get you all to where you want to be.
Hey what do you think of my parographs! I just learned what they are , although I thought they were spelled differently. Welcome to the gym and have fun, learn, ask questions, and post!

[saintly Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close saintly]

appreciate the response bro. Your "paragraphs" are nice!

[jmac Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jmac]

Don't be discouraged about the whole incorporating toys scenario. At least shes making the effort when you guys have sex right? Think of it as spicing your sex life up with her. And if that still bothers you, I would say to learn to eat that pussy good and make her cum with that! But like CUSP says keep your dick clear from power tools lol

[saintly Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close saintly]

I don't have any problems with the toys, they aren't replacements at all, plus she always gets off when I'm going down on her, so that isn't an issue, I just want to hit it on all points and knock it out of the park!

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Be patient and consistent and you will, over time, hit it out of the park.

I find that lubes (I prefer water based) help with exercises, but I like to alternate with dry and "wet" jelqs. My wife is older so I always use lubes during penetration.

I prefer skipping a line between my paragraphs. I believe it makes it easier to read and that's the way most good books are written.