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**LookAlive** · 11-19-2009

It's no problem, we're here to help!

I have privacy issues too, I use a heating pad. This is a wrap that you plug into a socket and electronically heats up, this is very good.

Other methods you could try in your bathroom such as the hot wrap (wrapping your penis with a hot towel/flannel/etc. that has been heated in hot water). However, the wraps require re-heating, I'd reccomend using two so one is always ready. Another method in the bathroom would be to use a glass of hot water. All you need to do is to lean over the glass and place your unit inside. Then press it firmly into your pelvis. After you've done this the water will not be able to escape and you can have a pleasant warm up. The shower is also good though.

A light grip is lighter than that, I believe. When jelqing you want to use a very light grip. I believe I've heard it compared to the force you'd use if it were an egg, you only need to move tiny amounts of tissue around, don't crack the egg!

The gains you've got will stay as long as you maintain them and over time they should become more and more permanent anyway. In terms of maintaining them this could be anything from a less intense routine to regular sex/masturbation.

**Th3_G4m3** · 11-19-2009

I have the same privacy issues, so what I do is sit in the bath tub get a bucket and fill it up with hot water then I grab hand towel place it over my shaft and keep purring hot water on top of it. For the warm down I just use the shower and place it directly at my shaft.

@lookalive when I jelq all my blood goes to the head and it feels rough/hard is that normal?

**Guillotine01a** · 11-19-2009

Alrighty my friend.

Wheres a good place to get a fairly cheap heating pad? I live in the US by the way.

I've been using much harder jelq then that. Its because I see my head expand so much so I figured that a good thing. But I'll take your advice and lighten it up.

**LookAlive** · 11-19-2009

Originally Posted by Th3_G4m3

I have the same privacy issues, so what I do is sit in the bath tub get a bucket and fill it up with hot water then I grab hand towel place it over my shaft and keep purring hot water on top of it. For the warm down I just use the shower and place it directly at my shaft.

@lookalive when I jelq all my blood goes to the head and it feels rough/hard is that normal?

You are manipulating it all around your penis, pushing it upward and expanding it. I think I'm familiar with what you're describing, it seems relatively normal.

I assume you're using a light grip and not killing your penis?

**Th3_G4m3** · 11-19-2009

My main goal is to get 8x6 and I know over time I'll achieve that if I stick to my routine, but my question is will I keep those gains if I stop peing. I mean come on I dont wanna pe for rest of my life 30-60mins everyday. If I am regularly sexually active and every once in while I pe can I still keep the gains?

**LookAlive** · 11-19-2009

Originally Posted by Guillotine01a

Alrighty my friend.

Wheres a good place to get a fairly cheap heating pad? I live in the US by the way.

I've been using much harder jelq then that. Its because I see my head expand so much so I figured that a good thing. But I'll take your advice and lighten it up.

Check out this thread.

Here's a quote from it, it seems like a pretty good deal to me:

Originally Posted by W.M.P.

I've been using a heating pad too, basically the same dimensions as the one Radiohead describes; I got one from the Sunbeam brand @ Wal-Mart for like $10.00; It works wonderfully but I've always thought it'd be great to find a smaller one so if any of you guys finds one smaller please let me know where I can purchase it.

Yeah, lighten that grip! It'll only make it safer!

**Th3_G4m3** · 11-19-2009

Originally Posted by LookAlive

You are manipulating it all around your penis, pushing it upward and expanding it. I think I'm familiar with what you're describing, it seems relatively normal.

I assume you're using a light grip and not killing your penis?

my grip is not hard and its not light. If I use light grip then not a lot of blood goes through the head and then I feel like am not doing it correctly.

**LookAlive** · 11-19-2009

Originally Posted by Th3_G4m3

My main goal is to get 8x6 and I know over time I'll achieve that if I stick to my routine, but my question is will I keep those gains if I stop peing. I mean come on I dont wanna pe for rest of my life 30-60mins everyday. If I am regularly sexually active and every once in while I pe can I still keep the gains?

Yep, you just need maintenance which can be masturbation and sex. As long as it is regular you shall be fine.

Remember, use it or lose it!

**LookAlive** · 11-19-2009

Originally Posted by Th3_G4m3

my grip is not hard and its not light. If I use light grip then not a lot of blood goes through the head and then I feel like am not doing it correctly.

I refer you to the previous 'egg' analogy, this is the perfect grip strength.

**Th3_G4m3** · 11-19-2009

Originally Posted by LookAlive

Yep, you just need maintenance which can be masturbation and sex. As long as it is regular you shall be fine.

Remember, use it or lose it!

Thanks man, I was little worried that I need to PE everyday for 30-60mins rest of my life to keep the gains. Now, I know that if am regularly sexually active or masturbate I'll able to keep my gains. Honestly, I don't think anyone wants to PE every single day for rest of their lives. You've made my day man.