cumming more?

**ajmarket** · 12-06-2009

Okay guys. I'm going to put as much detail as I can into this because I can't reply to threads.. I can only post them for some reason.

I'm really looking for a solution, so please keep that in mind with your replies.

I was with a girl last night. the good news: I got a pretty good boner. I will give it an EQ of 8ish. At one point we stopped for a good 60seconds and it started to go away... she said "are you going soft?" But it didn't bother me because I chalked it up to pulling out and stopping sex for a minute or so. So I don't feel like I had problems in terms of hardness - sidenote: is it normal to have to hold your poenis for a second as you slide it in her? If I don't my penis will sometimes bend or is not hard enough for entry on its own... but after a few pumps it gets rigged enuff to entry on its own, am I normal?

The real problem: after I busted (all over my sheets) she looked down and said... you don't cum verry much. Really shocked me... because that was a lot for me. It was a small handful, but USUALLY I just drip a bit out. I never "shoot"

The only time I ever shot was when I took a break from masterbating and sex for like 2 weeks. It wasn't a lot though. And after a few sex n masterbation sessions I was back to dribbling and dropping.

How can I cum MORE and further? Been doing kegels religiously by the way... should I stop cumming for a couple of weeks and then after than only cum every 2 or 3 days for a month or so?

**stretch030713** · 12-06-2009

For me it really depends how long my sexual excitement lasts. If I'm justin having a quicky, I tend just ooze out. If I'm having hot and steamy sex and the foreplay lasts a long time and I'm teased with whats coming next, I'll shoot a little farther a couple times and then ooze. Not a whole lot either though. I read somewhere that if you stay more hydrated by drinking more water throughout the day, the thinner your semen will be. Which in turn makes it easier to force out and will shoot a little farther. Good luck.

**E_Weazy** · 12-06-2009

You say your EQ is 8, but judging by your comment on how you have to hold your penis to slide it in, suggest that is it around a 6 when you are trying to put it in. The problem you're having is probably that your penis is not hard enough. Juding by how you are talking, it seems that you might be worried a bit about your performance as your gf seems to make these comments that might come off as rude.

Here are a couple reasons why you might not be fully erect; You are too nervous and worried about everything you do, thus effecting your EQ, the fix would to be:
1. just relax and make sex and enjoyable thing.
2. You might be watchin too much porn and getting an erection without the videos could be difficult, the fix would be to stop watching porn for the next 2-3 days and no masterbation to raise your sex drive and see where it goes from there.
3. Due to masterbation, maybe your erection sensitivity has gone down, there are some natural foods that can help this.
- Cinnamon (I eat it with oatmeal, and I add a teaspoon of this)
- KingPoles erection tea you could try https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...ction-tea.html
4. There are supplements that can increase vasodilation in the penis such as L-arginine, which is a common supplement used by many PE-ers here
5. Horny Goat weeds active ingredient, Iccarin acts the same way Viagra does, but not as potent of course, and this has been known to help a lot and increase volume possibly

Lasty about your ejaculate volume issue. Maybe your gf has been with someone in the past that produced an above average amount (5mL+). The average is around 2-4mL I believe, and like you I don't produce a lot. I masturbate and ejaculate daily, and sometimes twice a day or more, but my average output is around 1-2mL >_> which is on the lower side of the average.

If I don't ejaculate for 2-3 days, this amount can go up to a max of 3 mL only. Luckily my gf doesn't have a problem with me producing this amount but I want to produce more for a better orgasm and some extra fun

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Here is a experiment I am doing to increase my load, people have tried it and got a large increase. They were ejaculating 2-3mL before starting, and after gradual increases every day, they produce about 10mL (around Peter North or even more than what he ejaculates) now, but take this with a grain of salt as everyone has different results. Here is my thread, let me know if this helps.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym-for...ejaculate.html

and Lastly, all of these suggestions are speculations of what I think you are going through, so take some time to see what might really be bothering you.