Clenching BC-PC during sex

**pe_hope it works** · 12-07-2009

So the answer? slow, methodical masturbation not fast wanking. Then visualize climbing up the mountain, a 10-point scale where 5 is a fullfledged boner, and 9.9 is the PONR. Take your time as you climb

slow beating may be the answer.

Im doing a little clenching myself.

Bottom line is it good to clench, or not?

**pe_ZEN** · 12-07-2009

bottom line: clenching is good as an EMERGENCY brake. so don't clench until you have mastered the multiple orgasm. instead try to incorporate reverse kegels as described

**pe_hope it works** · 12-07-2009

I understand, thanks.

But can you explain a bit more on how to do a reverse kegel?

**pe_ZEN** · 12-07-2009

Yes, it is a distinct feeling you know already

for example: when you want to RRRRIP a fart, you push out your sphincter muscles. Do this on the exhale, right after clenching to avoid ejaculation. Focus on trying to feel like you are pushing out pee out of your erection (this is impossible, however).

also feel like you are pushing large amounts of blood into the pelvic area. You can feel your taint area bulge 'like a frog' when you are doing it right

**pe_ZEN** · 12-07-2009

Originally Posted by pe_ZEN

also feel like you are pushing large amounts of blood into the pelvic area. You can feel your taint area bulge 'like a frog' when you are doing it right

that might be the best analogy every LOL

**Pegasus** · 12-08-2009

Originally Posted by pe_ZEN

Well you seem like perhaps the only one on this forum who effortlessly can acheive dry orgasms. but for those who don't have this ability and cum really fast during intercourse, most likely the problem is 'overkegeling'.

Can anybody else here claim to 'go thru the PONR' or 'acheive dry orgasms'?

Ther are numerous people on this forum who dry orgasm, read kp's (vey long) thread edging 101.

Look it is very simple, achieve contol and timing and strength in your kegals and you will be in control.
No need to breath through your heart charkra, or astral travel. It is not complex ,but it does require training and dedication.

**pe_ZEN** · 12-08-2009

Just reading the edging 101 thread is not going to make you achieve dry orgasms, LOL, Pegasus you make it sound that way.

there are many guys who come to this forum frustrated because they ejaculate fast in intercourse. A history of fast squirting while wanking can be a real obstacle to successful ejaculate retention (what you call, dry orgasms). Just because you can hold your load in, does NOT mean you have dry orgasms...

**Pegasus** · 12-09-2009

Many guys have have become dry orgasmic from the info in that thread. I am also trying to help this achievment as I believe you are.

Yes there are many fustrated quick ejaculators here and we aim to help them.

Ejaculate retention is not the same as dry orgasm,I do not confuse them nor should you.
I do know what an orgasm is. Your suggestion is that I don't I gather? I am amused.

**pe_ZEN** · 12-09-2009

No I'm not suggesting that

but I am confused on the terminology; and many others are,

**Pegasus** · 12-10-2009

Yes, a terminology for edging is a relatively new thing.
Because my method is very straight foward, I find it difficult to understand when other people are talking about it.
Yet they are often doing something similar in concept, but with lots of confusing detail.
Other times the concept is different.