Motivation

**Matt406** · 01-03-2015

Could anyone please give myself and others some tips on how to keep motivated for pe. I've been trying to do so for months at a time, on and off in the past three years. I purchased a bathmate 12 months ago, and I'm looking to buy a phallosan.
I am able to keep myself motivated for the gym, but I find it too difficult for pe. Perhaps it's because privacy is hard to come by?

**MrB8** · 01-03-2015

to the Gym!

Don't miss this thread!!!

Mental PE - Creating The Right Mindset

And if you haven't already done so, please READ THIS Thread, Maximize Your Success Here and focus on safety.

"Get your eyes on the prize and your mind off the time"!

PE will greatly improve your penile health and increase your EQ, in addition to size gains, but you need to be consistent, patient and persistent, please do as much research as you can, ask questions, follow safety and exercise instructions carefully and remember that PE is a long term process, don't rush it up.

Frequently visit the Gym, we have plenty of fun threads and activities in addition to PE related discussions.

The Success Forum has many motivational stories, also start a log and follow some of the members logs and exchange tips and info, to help each other keep up the good work, consistency and dedication pays off!

Good luck on your PE journey, PE safely!

**Matt406** · 01-05-2015

Thanks so much for the swift, yet very helpful reply!

I feel very welcomed here already, and I hope to stay in frequent contact with pegym, if need be!

**Sean Jacobs** · 01-06-2015

Welcome to the Gym Matt406.

I find that motivation can be very difficult to maintain over a long period of time. From personal experience I find that fantasy can help. Figure out your reason for wanting to increase your penis size. Lets say you want to impress your next lover. Develop a fantasy about how your first sexual encounter will go with him/her (I don't want to assume your preference). Make give your fantasy a lot of detail. What was your lover's reaction upon seeing your penis, touching your penis...when you insert it? Put some serious effort in to making this fantasy amazing. Now, when ever you are feeling like you are losing motivation, spend some time (before going to sleep is a good time) running this fantasy through your mind. It can really help to keep you going.

Also, PE can become a habit. Make it part of your routine. Even if you don't do your full routine, do something everyday. On your off days, make sure you do kegels or very light manual stretches, or very light jelqing. If it becomes an ingrained habit you will be more likely to stick with it.

**Matt406** · 01-07-2015

Thanks, another brilliant tip!

I plan to start again at the start of next month, so I have everything organised, and a decent time allotment for a routine.
I'm very grateful for the warm welcomes!

**kickinthemebs** · 01-07-2015

Keep a log, join the 2015 make your dick bigger challenge, set yourself quarterly goals, write down your routine everyday in your log, keep coming onto the Gym to get encouragement from all of us, keep reading about PE, have PE on the brain, and stay focused. In a nutshell.

**Matt406** · 01-12-2015

Could you send me a link to the challenge, kickin'?
Also, what are your gains with the phallosan like?

**drfrankencock** · 01-12-2015

Hi Matt! Here's a link to the challenge.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...challenge.html

**closed224** · 01-12-2015

It is something you have to do for yourself, or you will never be motivated. Fantasizing about a partners response can help for sure, but for me fantasizing about filling my hand with penis is the best motivator. Mental PE is very important. Doing PE for yourself has worked best for me.