psychological ed?

**broomstick** · 03-27-2015

i have hard time getting it up and i constantly think my penis is to small or will shrink permanently it interferes with me enjoying sex
nbp-5in
bp-6.5-6.8
girth-5.5-5.6
is there a good way to get over this or is this something i shouldnt even be worried about?

**MrB8** · 03-27-2015

Your length is above average and your girth is very big, it may *LOOK* smaller to your eyes for many reasons, but the fact remains that you have a big penis, stop worrying about your size, and when you do, your anxiety will be gone and your erections will return.

Jelqing, edging and kegels all help improve EQ, start with a beginners routine, and focus on the health benefits of PE.

Excellent average size chart

**finlandia** · 03-27-2015

I think a good start would be for you to change how you think about Sex in general.

Erection, Penetration, Ejaculation, hope I lasted long enough for her to come Sex is finished.

That's what most men think sex is.

So when you can't get an Erection you think you failed at sex and you can't satisfy your Partner/GF/Wife. FALSE! This is where all the anxiety comes from because we as men think of ourselves as failures because we can't even start sex.

You need to learn what proper Foreplay is. And I don't mean going down on the girl first and now its your turn. Learn how to flirt before even becoming naked. How to touch a girl and how soft or hard.

Sometimes I will take 20-30 min to undress my wife before we even start sex. By the time she is finally naked she is ready to orgasm in 20 seconds because of me teasing/flirting with her the whole time and I am hard as a rock. Because i completely took away all the anxiety from undressing ourselves as soon as we were in the mood to have sex.

Listen I understand from time to time its boom and lets go at it. But you need to understand that there is a lot more to Sex then just Hard Dick in a Vagina. Once you change your mind frame and explore other sensual areas on her body and change the focus from your performance to her satisfaction your dick (which is plenty to satisfy any girl) will be hard as a rock.