SECRET PE - quick and discreet warm up methods?

**OnMyWayThere** · 04-08-2015

Some people use a UV lamp with good effect. Since they can be used for muscle pain that's a good excuse to have one.

**tufax** · 04-08-2015

Thanks for the suggestions guys, im starting to think that i might be open with the girlfriend about it not sure how to approach that conversation though lol

**downthere** · 04-08-2015

If she's cool, I'd tell her. I told my wife after a couple of months. I got sick of sneaking around. She actually found it 'kinda hot' that I took an interest in keeping her happy.

I told her it would keep me from getting ED.

**closed224** · 04-08-2015

Penis health is a healthy thing to talk about. Dont be ashamed at all.

**tufax** · 04-08-2015

Im thinking of just saying im doing small basic quick exercises no more than 15 mins 3x a week just for penis health, better erections and ed prevention.

I think im more worried about the fact of what she will think of me, while we have amazing sex and she orgasms over and over at least 5 + times every session and says its the best shes had, its no secret shes been with alot of men and some who were larger than me. I guess i have an insecurity where if i tell her she will look down on me as someone "who has to exercise their penis to perform" while others didn't.

As unhealthy as that thought sounds we cant hide our insecurities

**jockinthebox** · 04-08-2015

Originally Posted by tufax

Im thinking of just saying im doing small basic quick exercises no more than 15 mins 3x a week just for penis health, better erections and ed prevention.

I think im more worried about the fact of what she will think of me, while we have amazing sex and she orgasms over and over at least 5 + times every session and says its the best shes had, its no secret shes been with alot of men and some who were larger than me. I guess i have an insecurity where if i tell her she will look down on me as someone "who has to exercise their penis to perform" while others didn't.

As unhealthy as that thought sounds we cant hide our insecurities

ATTAHBOY!!!
And remember, you can always threaten her with the billboard idea if she breathes a word to anyone!

**sidneycrosby** · 04-08-2015

I've been using a warm wash clothe but I just hate getting up and walking to the bathroom and keeping that thing warm. I'm trying a heating pad that I can hopefully put on my member while still laying in bed, let's hope I never fall back asleep with it on YIKES

**BigO** · 04-08-2015

Originally Posted by tufax

Im thinking of just saying im doing small basic quick exercises no more than 15 mins 3x a week just for penis health, better erections and ed prevention.

I think im more worried about the fact of what she will think of me, while we have amazing sex and she orgasms over and over at least 5 + times every session and says its the best shes had, its no secret shes been with alot of men and some who were larger than me. I guess i have an insecurity where if i tell her she will look down on me as someone "who has to exercise their penis to perform" while others didn't.

As unhealthy as that thought sounds we cant hide our insecurities

Well tufax, it's no different that exercising to be healthy, doing cardio for a strong heart, or her doing kegels for vaginal health and sexual improvement.

I waited a bit before I told my wife. She thought I didn't need it. Most say that's the reaction. Once I explained all the benefits, along with appealing to my own desire for size, and our increased pleasure, she understood. She thinks it's hot too. It's just new, and not common.

Kegels are in every women's magazine doctors office. If PE was a s widespread, it wouldn't feel so awkward. So, don't let it.

At the end of the day, it's a good thing, all around. Nothing to be embarrassed about.

Maybe she'll be flattered you are going through all the effort to better yourself as a person and lover.

**x30xtreme** · 04-09-2015

This sounds exciting... Secret PE....

Like others have said you could just say "I'm exercising my cock for the next hour". Trying to hide it, ultimately leads to bigger & worse issues down the track. Why live your life in secret? Fuck that, be proud about who you are and what you're doing man.

Be the first to break the taboo about penis exercising in your family. Be a trailBlazer, a Pioneer of your generation

We're stretching our cocks and theirs nothing you can do about it!

**this-moment** · 04-10-2015

Originally Posted by tufax

Im thinking of just saying im doing small basic quick exercises no more than 15 mins 3x a week just for penis health, better erections and ed prevention.

I think im more worried about the fact of what she will think of me, while we have amazing sex and she orgasms over and over at least 5 + times every session and says its the best shes had, its no secret shes been with alot of men and some who were larger than me. I guess i have an insecurity where if i tell her she will look down on me as someone "who has to exercise their penis to perform" while others didn't.

As unhealthy as that thought sounds we cant hide our insecurities

Yeah i think this sounds good. I would leave out the whole trying to increase my size aspect of it. It would feel so weird for me to tell my gf about pe. Ive made some really good newbie gains but my gains have dramatically slowed. If I told her I was increasing my size I would worry that she will start to expect it when actually its not completely in my control if i make good gains or not. Kinda like if you told your girl you signed up for a gym membership and your gonna get jacked and she gets all excited about it. And despite your efforts you never get jacked maybe because you dont have the genetics for it. i hope this makes sense.

I know how it feels knowing your girl has had bigger than you, this is partially why i started pe. I know sounds silly.