depressed, rant

**Cavalier** · 04-20-2015

You say your 5.5 inches NBPEL and 5 MEG, have you measured your BPEL? Even the thinnest guys have at least a .5 inch fat pad, so that would put you at a minimum of 6 inch BPEL. The average penis size is about 5.8 inches BPEL and 4.7 inch MEG. So you are telling us that you are afraid of having sex because you are only on the high side of average. Quit stressing over it and have some fun, you don't have anything to worry about.

As far as PE goes, pick a beginners routine and stick with it, I recommend the JP90. Some have made gains with it others have seen little results until later. Trying something for a month or to without good consistency is the problem. If you want to be successful with PE you need to be dedicated, consistent and patient. It won't happen overnight, but if you stay motivated and consistent, then the gains will come.

**dedicate** · 04-20-2015

Originally Posted by workin_4_it

Simply asking about something they like, their day, what they do for fun, etc can lead into some rather interesting, get-to-know you conversations. Worry less, and just try.

thanks for the conversation tips i will try to use this next time i talk to girls. but what should i do to gain that .5 inch? the only hope i have left is erect jelqing, when i do erect jelqing i actually feel some kind of pump and my eq is also good after i do it.

**dedicate** · 04-20-2015

im 5.75 bpel, my fat pad is only .25 inch

**NCGUY1972** · 04-20-2015

Guys are out there blowing women's minds everyday with less than you are working with. Just know that you are more than adequate and get to practicing to be a good lover.
You'll regret it later in life if you don't have all the fun you can now.

**Cavalier** · 04-20-2015

Originally Posted by tipup

im 5.75 bpel, my fat pad is only .25 inch

That puts you at average length and above average girth. I managed to keep my wife extremely satisfied for 35 years at that length. Great sex for a woman is not about the size, it's about the whole package of being a great lover. It's your technique, the passion making here feel desired and so on. Even guys on the larger size would have trouble with girls returning for more if all they focused on and had to offer was only mechanical sex. Take the time to learn what really turns a girl on.

**CUSP82** · 04-20-2015

Okay tipup you got great advice here so go get a woman and get down! ( don't that sound cool; yup I thought so myself) When you're done, and you don't even have to wait til she leaves, get back on here with all the details. Yes I'm into stuff like that. Okay go be young!

**closed224** · 04-20-2015

I will also add Tipup, I was only 4.9. Bpel when I was your age and I rocked. If you follow the advice others have given you to set the stage and that I gave for the meal time(pun intended) you will have no problems. Love yourself and your penis brother it is wonderful.