Masturbation under limited moderation ??

[farhad1371]

So I always have problem with masturbation, thousand times i tried to stop but i couldn't and recently i started to masturbated again and it messed up with my Jp90 routine which has been a bumper cause i really liked Jp90 and now i have no motivation to do it and now that im back masturbating ive been doing a lot and i think its time for me to do something about it, i dont think i will ever be able to stop jerking off, the idea of it, its just impossible cause i have tried sooooo many times and ive failed, the most i got without masturbation was 3 month, that was my longest time.
So im thinking to put some limit on it like i'd allowed to jerk off like once every 3 days or like 3 times a week but the problem is when i do it i wanna do it more so i was hoping if you guys could tell me what should i do and also what my limitation should be ? like 3 times a week 4 ?


Thanks

[closed224]

Three times a week. Get into some other physical activity that gets you out of the house.

[closed071]

No need to stop,three times a week will keep your "pipes" cleaned..shouldn`t be any problem, enjoy your boy

[Sequoia Tree]

I don't really think it's necessary to stop masturbating entirely. Feeling the need to masturbate is normal, and most of the population does it, so there's no shame in it. As long as you can find a nice private place and time where you feel comfortable and relaxed doing it, and you keep the frequency and intensity within reasonable limits, masturbation is perfectly healthy. In my opinion the feel-good chemical release in the brain and other benefits of it outweigh anything that could be gained from complete abstinence.
Masturbation is only bad when it negatively impacts other areas of your life, and it sounds like your struggle to quit it entirely is causing you to worry quite a bit. I think you'd feel better if you reached a happy medium. Masturbating in excess is not good, but neither is total deprivation. The suggestions listed by others above are good ones. Try to find hobbies and work that you enjoy and find fulfilling. Best of luck!

[Jay1983]

Three months is a long time.. I'm lucky to make it three days! lol

If you choke 'em till he pukes while watching porn you need to limit your porn usage; limiting your porn usage "should" make you cut back on how often you squeeze for banana juice.

[farhad1371]

Ok awesome, thank you guys. yea 3 times a week sounds good. I'm gonna do it from next week. This is way better than stopping forever. I can actually do 3 times a week, hope this works.

[farhad1371]

True, I stopped watching porn completely since 3 weeks ago and its going good, these days i masturbate on just pictures lol on Chive.com loll
Btw jerking off on sexy pictures is not same with watching porn right ? i mean should i just masturbate thinking about somebody in real life or on pictures is fine ?

Thanks

Three months is a long time.. I'm lucky to make it three days! lol

If you choke 'em till he pukes while watching porn you need to limit your porn usage; limiting your porn usage "should" make you cut back on how often you squeeze for banana juice.

[Sequoia Tree]

Btw jerking off on sexy pictures is not same with watching porn right ? i mean should i just masturbate thinking about somebody in real life or on pictures is fine ?

Thanks

I think it's a step in the right direction, with the ideal being to be able to get and maintain an erection without being dependant on hardcore visual (external) stimulation. Not to the extreme of where you're overly sensitive to anything mildly arousing though. If you're out in public and you casually glance at a pretty girl, and your dick immediately tries to blast off to the moon, you might need to work on controlling your thoughts, lol.