The donut problem... And a few other problems.

[White_Hawk]

Ok, here's another one of my problems. I started PE when I was like 16... (I'm 22 now) I did heat my dick with a very warm cloth before and after every session... after like 3 months, I quit. But ever since, I've been having the "donut problem" and I don't know why. You know, when you're like 100% flaccid, and you try having an erection by jerking it a little.... then it becomes bigger, but the problem here is that there's a big gap in the middle of the penis.. for like maybe 10 seconds, it looks like a coke bottle figure. The tip and the bottom of the shaft are larger than the middle of the penis... Keep in mind that it's still flaccid... like maybe 25% erect when it happens...

I don't really have any problems getting an erection, but I'm curious... Is anyone of you having the same problem? Its been like that for like 6 years, but I started worrying today lol. I'm starting to think that some irreversible damage has been done to my manhood...But I don't get it since I still can get erections.

My 2nd problem is.. even though I don't have a problem getting an erection while aroused, I NEVER WAKE UP WITH A HARD ROCK ERECTION in the morning. I still don't get it... that makes me mad. Any suggestions? BTW, I'm a beginner and I've been doing Jpop's 90 day routine for 2 months now. (57 days to be exact)

3rd problem: how to keep the dick hard and going after the first ejaculation. often, when I cum, I'm just like : fuck it, I wanna go home, and my dick softens easily. but nooo I don't wanna be like that anymore! Any suggestions?

Many thanks!

[kingpole]

1- I don't think that is a real porblem just the way your chamber fill up. Does the middle fill in eventually?

2 - Green tea for stamina, or stasmina exercise like edging.

3 - Green tea or ginkgo biloba for lasting power.

[Closed039]

While KP is certainly much more seasoned, I can only offer my own insights...

1. I have no experience with that, but I"m 20 years old. So you're saying when you have like a semi-semi (no thats not a typo), your head and base fills up first? I'm not sure why that is such a problem, especially since it only lasts for 10 seconds.

2. Have you been waking up to an alarm clock, or has your body been naturally waking up? I have noticed that when I wake up with an alarm clock, like before class at 8 AM, i do not have an erection. However, if left to sleep and wake up naturally, my penis is hard as nails. This is a problem/situation that others have shared as well.

3. Not everybody is able to have an orgasm and maintain an erection for a second "cuming". Additionally, on a one night stand, you may not be able to obtain a second "wind," since you have satisfied yourself, which was your ultimate goal. However, if you have a girlfriend and are comfortable with her, you may be able to continue your pleasurable activities.

just my two cents.

[White_Hawk]

Thanks for the info... Your right, when I wake up to an alarm clock, I have 0 erection... Maybe the other times, my dick is harder...

Another problem though: Since I've been using baby oil as lube... I've been having some red spots appearing on my forearms... They appeared randomly. Please help!!

[PartyPants]

when you wake up to an alarm clock your bladder isn't necessarily full. I know that when I sleep in I wake up because I need to piss, urgently. full bladders are what trigger morning wood, are they not?

[White_Hawk]

Really? Are you sure?

[Closed039]

they're a contributing factor.

[White_Hawk]

Hmm ok... Anyways, I'm drinking green tea as I'm writing this! And can anyone help with the spots on my forearms that I mentionned in my 2nd last post?

[PartyPants]

well if you're getting red spots from the baby oil there might be something you're allergic to in there. switch lubes. there are all kinds out there.

[White_Hawk]

Hmm ok... What would you recommend? I really don't know nothing about lubes, that's why I'm asking, lol.