Cross posting this from Fetlife. Dunno if it's interesting. I think it is.

OK, so I've been of this opinion for some time, via beating Premature Ejaculation (PE) some years ago and having to pay attention to and explore my own arousal given the lesson that orgasm and ejaculation are separate beasts.

But our bodies are different?

Well yes, and no. We all start "female" in the womb, and all of our organs start from the same seeds before the chromosomes ...