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  • How many people here are able to stop themselves from ejaculating?

    TOpic, I can do it after only 2 months of kegeling

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    I can get a dry orgasm by holding a kegel, the question IMO is more if you can do it without contractions. Haven't got there yet, but that is the true dry orgasm as far as I can understand
    05-15-2008 BPEL 14,5 cm/5,7" MSG 11,45 cm/4,5"
    08-31-2008 BPEL 16,5 cm/6.5" MSG 12 cm/4,7"
    02-26-2009 BPEL 17,2 cm/6,8" MSG 12 cm/4,7"

    Remek: "They came, they thought, they gained."

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    • #3
      I don't see how you can stop it without kegeling, that is the whole point of kegeling isn't it?

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Moonstrike View Post
        TOpic, I can do it after only 2 months of kegeling
        I can, thanks to kegels. But it depens how aroused I am. Sometimes I still cum quickly if I am really horny.
        Physiological Indicators (the original post)
        :angel: Don't forget your KEGELS! :angel:

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        • #5
          I can stop ejaculation with kegels although sometimes I lose my erection afterwards.
          Starting BPEL 7.4" NBPEL 6.8" EG 5.2"
          Now BPEL 7.5" NBPEL 7" EG 5.2"
          Short-term Goal BPEL 7.5" NBPEL 7" EG 5.5"

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          • #6
            Your all getting the hang of it. Soon in time your sessions will be like one big dry orgasm from the begining to the end.


            For I will restore health unto thee and I will heal thee of thine wounds, saith the Lord Jeremiah 30:17

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Moonstrike View Post
              I don't see how you can stop it without kegeling, that is the whole point of kegeling isn't it?
              I do use a kegel to stop it, when you do it this way, the sperm is stopped but you still contract as a respons to your orgasm and your dick will loose it's erection.

              The more advanced version as I understand it is to master the natural instinct to contract, thus remaining in the state right before PONR as long as you choose. This way you can have an orgasm but be able to have a rock hard penis afterwards and possible multiple orgasms right away.

              Annyway, this is tantric teqnichues, and I am in no way an expert on the field. I'm trying to learn it though.
              05-15-2008 BPEL 14,5 cm/5,7" MSG 11,45 cm/4,5"
              08-31-2008 BPEL 16,5 cm/6.5" MSG 12 cm/4,7"
              02-26-2009 BPEL 17,2 cm/6,8" MSG 12 cm/4,7"

              Remek: "They came, they thought, they gained."

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Banana View Post
                I can stop ejaculation with kegels although sometimes I lose my erection afterwards.
                It is strange but sometimes this happens to me, I have no idea why. If I stop the ejaculation without having an orgasm I will lose my erection slightly, I would say maybe 2 out of 10 times but my erection returns after another 5 minutes just as strong. I don't all of the sudden go flaccid just maybe a 60-80%. It may have something to do with timing or even psychological, maybe one of the other guys will know but I don't think there will be much we could do about it other than just get more practice time in, some things are beyond our control.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Hairtrigger View Post
                  It is strange but sometimes this happens to me, I have no idea why. If I stop the ejaculation without having an orgasm I will lose my erection slightly, I would say maybe 2 out of 10 times but my erection returns after another 5 minutes just as strong. I don't all of the sudden go flaccid just maybe a 60-80%. It may have something to do with timing or even psychological, maybe one of the other guys will know but I don't think there will be much we could do about it other than just get more practice time in, some things are beyond our control.
                  This sounds like retrograde ejaculation. The cum ends up in your bladder. Best thing to do is work it up again and ejaculate. As one practices edging you can learn when your prostate starts to fire ejaculate up the shaft. Almost by feel you can feel the gun begin to load up. This is when you put your hand on a less sensitive spot of your shaft and do lighter strokes,


                  For I will restore health unto thee and I will heal thee of thine wounds, saith the Lord Jeremiah 30:17

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Hairtrigger View Post
                    It is strange but sometimes this happens to me, I have no idea why. If I stop the ejaculation without having an orgasm I will lose my erection slightly, I would say maybe 2 out of 10 times but my erection returns after another 5 minutes just as strong. I don't all of the sudden go flaccid just maybe a 60-80%. It may have something to do with timing or even psychological, maybe one of the other guys will know but I don't think there will be much we could do about it other than just get more practice time in, some things are beyond our control.
                    Exactly the same as me!! The erection comes back after about 5 minutes.

                    I think that this happens when I kegel to stop ejaculation just a bit later and probably a retrograde ejaculation, like kingpole suggested, takes place.
                    Starting BPEL 7.4" NBPEL 6.8" EG 5.2"
                    Now BPEL 7.5" NBPEL 7" EG 5.2"
                    Short-term Goal BPEL 7.5" NBPEL 7" EG 5.5"

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Scipio View Post
                      I do use a kegel to stop it, when you do it this way, the sperm is stopped but you still contract as a respons to your orgasm and your dick will loose it's erection.

                      The more advanced version as I understand it is to master the natural instinct to contract, thus remaining in the state right before PONR as long as you choose. This way you can have an orgasm but be able to have a rock hard penis afterwards and possible multiple orgasms right away.

                      Annyway, this is tantric teqnichues, and I am in no way an expert on the field. I'm trying to learn it though.
                      I sometimes stop myself only halfway from ejaculating (some sperm comes out but the majority is held in) and when this happens I am able to keep my erection and have another orgasm shortly after. It doesn't happen all the time though, just bad luck holding it in I guess.

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                      • #12
                        I have the same experience as Moonstrike. I am hoping that lots of kegels and practice will help.
                        Pirate Diplomacy:
                        The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.

                        Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.

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                        • #13
                          Partial ejaculation seems to happen a lot when guys are mastering multi orgasm, it should become rare later.
                          Retrograde ejaculation is not a dry orgasm and will cause a loss of erection.
                          I quite enjoy the contractions and do not lose eq afterwards, so do not avoid them.

                          Tantra is often used to describe male multi orgasm technique ,I have used it that way too. However they are not the same thing ,tantra is a mystic/esoteric practise, which is great if you are into that. Within pe however we try to be more solid and direct, so for instance, astral travel is not needed as part of multi orgasm training. This means multi orgasm can be achieved in a fraction of the years it often takes in tantra. On the down side, you do not lean to breath through the soles of your feet.

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                          • #14
                            Pegasus,
                            Thanks. I wear steel toed boots a lot and the foot sole breathing thing had me kind of worried.
                            Pirate Diplomacy:
                            The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.

                            Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.

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                            • #15
                              You are welcome.

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