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  • Feeling deep depression over my girth

    Ever since finding out my girth is below average around 4.5-4.6 I have been very sad and depressed. All I see now is a skinny dick that I'm terrified to let anyone see. Actually knowing I'm below average is brutal. I always thought my dick only seemed small to me just bcuz of all the porn I've seen. But now I know it actually IS small at 6.8 bpelx4.5 msg. / 7.4 bpsfl. I was with a woman a few days ago who wanted to have sex but I made an excuse and said I'm recovering from an injury and couldn't. I find myself not even pursuing women because of it.

    Everything in my life is finally going well except this. It's fucking me up bad. I'm doing a girth routine 1 day on 1 day off which includes clamping, squeezes, and ulis just hoping I can at least get to an average 4.8-5.0 soon so I won't be afraid to have sex. I keep regretting not doing this years ago because I know I'd probably be much bigger and happy now. However I didn't and I'm stuck with my below average dick.

  • #2
    Be depressed if y’a want to, wallow in self doubt but your girth is normal. Haven’t we had this talk already? Anyway, been 4.5 girth most of my sexual life, with less length by at least an inch. Never a complaint. Go to the medicine cabinet and take a man up pill and FUCK.
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    • #3
      What about your pleasure? Sex isn't just about pleasuring a woman but about pleasuring yourself too. Stick your dick inside those wet walls and feel heaven on earth. You can go down on her if she ever complains

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      • #4
        Originally posted by DeMi-GoD View Post
        Ever since finding out my girth is below average around 4.5-4.6 I have been very sad and depressed. All I see now is a skinny dick that I'm terrified to let anyone see. Actually knowing I'm below average is brutal. I always thought my dick only seemed small to me just bcuz of all the porn I've seen. But now I know it actually IS small at 6.8 bpelx4.5 msg. / 7.4 bpsfl.
        Ok, first off, it is not small. At 6.8 bpel you are definitely on the large side. And while the girth may be on the low average side, the overall size (volume) is above the average.


        Originally posted by DeMi-GoD View Post
        Everything in my life is finally going well except this. It's fucking me up bad. I'm doing a girth routine 1 day on 1 day off which includes clamping, squeezes, and ulis just hoping I can at least get to an average 4.8-5.0 soon so I won't be afraid to have sex. I keep regretting not doing this years ago because I know I'd probably be much bigger and happy now. However I didn't and I'm stuck with my below average dick.
        I think you need to work a bit on how you see yourself, not just on the girth. Of course PE is great, but we also need to be aware of the damage that porn has done.

        Develop a safe routine that you can do steadily, stick to it and be careful. But at the same time, tellyourself that it is not small. Daily.
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        • #5
          I was actually looking through studies the other day out of curiosity on if they measure BP or NBP. Some results were for the science stuff, others for condom sizing. Anyway, they all also said average girth was 4.5-5 so I wouldn't be too concerned or upset about it. About 7in BPEL is also above avg so you're probably going to be a lot longer than most guys she's been with.

          A lot of girls I know, and I remember even a couple pornstars once saying the long skinny ones are the best for Anal, so that's a plus too!

          Get yourself a bathmate if you dont already use one and use it daily but carefully. You should be able to get up above 5in girth in a relatively fair time.

          Last tip is to stop masterbation all together. Once you hit around a week retained, you'll notice your erections reaching max expansion, being probably another .25 in thicker at least than your current measurements, unless of course you already abstain.

          Don't be so down on yourself. Girl's gonna judge you way more on how good you eat pussy and how long you last in bed than the size you're workin with. If she gets off, she's gonna tell her friends how good you were. So make that your goal and focus on that instead my man

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          • #6
            Well, get to work and within weeks or months you're within the upper range of average.
            Btw. you're still within the average range(but on the lower end,..true). Which means if a woman got around a lot there's a high % that she had similar dicks.
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            Last edited by DickerSchwanz; 05-20-2019, 10:15 AM.
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            • #7
              Yr length is more than enough to compensate. I wish i had that. It's yr attitude to it and yr approach to sex.
              For girth, use a bathmate. 4x15 min sessions with jelqing will get u yuge

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              • #8
                Actually depending on the study that is dead average not low average . Some studies averge is 4.5 and some 4.8 in any case how is the pe going ? Seems to me if you get your girth to 5" you will feel macho.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by DeMi-GoD View Post
                  Ever since finding out my girth is below average around 4.5-4.6 I have been very sad and depressed. All I see now is a skinny dick that I'm terrified to let anyone see. Actually knowing I'm below average is brutal. I always thought my dick only seemed small to me just bcuz of all the porn I've seen. But now I know it actually IS small at 6.8 bpelx4.5 msg. / 7.4 bpsfl. I was with a woman a few days ago who wanted to have sex but I made an excuse and said I'm recovering from an injury and couldn't. I find myself not even pursuing women because of it.

                  Everything in my life is finally going well except this. It's fucking me up bad. I'm doing a girth routine 1 day on 1 day off which includes clamping, squeezes, and ulis just hoping I can at least get to an average 4.8-5.0 soon so I won't be afraid to have sex. I keep regretting not doing this years ago because I know I'd probably be much bigger and happy now. However I didn't and I'm stuck with my below average dick.
                  I fee you pain bro..... I worthless most of the time. I can’t even find myself to approach women because I live with a disadvantage. Short, ugly and have a pencil dick. Life isn’t fair. I just want to end it sometimes. At least you have women interested in you.

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