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  • 20 yo virgin with anxiety

    I'm 20 and have never seen a vagina in real life. Even though according to statistics and science, my penis size is average and perfectly normal, I still see myself as completely inadequate. I have friends with exactly the same or smaller size penises who are in relationships and doing perfectly fine. I don't know how to get over this and start having sex. I'm about to enroll into college and will have all of these gorgeous women with tight, juicy vaginas & buttholes, just waiting to get penetrated. How do I defeat my anxiety for good?
    Current: NBPEL 5.9x4.8

    Goal: NBPEL 7.0x5.5

  • #2
    Go talk to a professional about your problems.

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    • #3
      Anxiety is an issue for the modern world . It is common onsite and member can be supportive . On the other hand a pro can be helpful. A good relationship with a supportive woman can help also.

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      • #4
        Socialize. Go to mixers, join social/church groups, or any place where both sexes get together to meet and you can converse with the opposite sex. Try making friends with girls on a non sexual basis. Eventually, you will meet someone who wants to take the friendship to the next step.
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        • #5
          Thanks guys. I'll have to kick myself in the ass and go out more. I just wish it was easier to do it.
          Current: NBPEL 5.9x4.8

          Goal: NBPEL 7.0x5.5

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Uncle Dick View Post
            Thanks guys. I'll have to kick myself in the ass and go out more. I just wish it was easier to do it.
            The more you are out of your comfort zone, more more comfortable you will be doing things that you once thought otherwise.

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            • #7
              Stop thinking of women as vaginas and bumholes!! We aren't that different from men... some are dicks, majority are nice

              Just chat to anyone and everyone you come in to contact with. Nothing big or personal. Its really easy and the more you do it, the better you will become at it.
              Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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              • #8
                I feel like being a immature virgin is the sole reason I look at women as walking sex dolls, not much else. Jeez. If I were to get some at say 16 like most teenagers do, I would have started looking past the sex aspect right about now, and searching for love and relationships (hopefully). I'm a bit frightened that the more I age and not get laid, the more I increase my chance of running into a woman that has seen quite a few schlongs, given the culture of one night stands and Tinder hookups that we are in now. Then performance anxiety would sure kick in. Now that's fucked up.
                Current: NBPEL 5.9x4.8

                Goal: NBPEL 7.0x5.5

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Uncle Dick View Post
                  I feel like being a immature virgin is the sole reason I look at women as walking sex dolls, not much else. Jeez. If I were to get some at say 16 like most teenagers do, I would have started looking past the sex aspect right about now, and searching for love and relationships (hopefully). I'm a bit frightened that the more I age and not get laid, the more I increase my chance of running into a woman that has seen quite a few schlongs, given the culture of one night stands and Tinder hookups that we are in now. Then performance anxiety would sure kick in. Now that's fucked up.
                  If you are having a one night stand, it doesn't matter if you get off fast. If you are in a relationship, the woman you are with shouldn't end it just because of that. She won't know how good you are in bed when you both start talking. Also, you don't need to settle down until around 25 or so as a man. But heartbreak is better being experienced when young so you can deal with it better when older.

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                  • #10
                    Listen sex with anyone is shite at first... its not like the movies or porn. Its clumsy.

                    But its also great at the same time. It gets better the more practice and the more you know the person.

                    Dont worry about cumming fast or not at all. Just go with flow.
                    Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Uncle Dick View Post
                      I feel like being a immature virgin is the sole reason I look at women as walking sex dolls, not much else. Jeez. If I were to get some at say 16 like most teenagers do, I would have started looking past the sex aspect right about now, and searching for love and relationships (hopefully). I'm a bit frightened that the more I age and not get laid, the more I increase my chance of running into a woman that has seen quite a few schlongs, given the culture of one night stands and Tinder hookups that we are in now. Then performance anxiety would sure kick in. Now that's fucked up.
                      We get virgins here a lot older than you .
                      I suggest you look at your attitude.

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                      • #12
                        Once again I thank y'all for taking time to read my deppresing thoughts and sharing advice. I'll make sure to use it.
                        Current: NBPEL 5.9x4.8

                        Goal: NBPEL 7.0x5.5

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Uncle Dick View Post
                          Once again I thank y'all for taking time to read my deppresing thoughts and sharing advice. I'll make sure to use it.
                          I had and still have the same view as you do when I was your age but they have been exacerbated now at the age of 27. I can’t offer any advice unfortunately, but I can relate to you regarding this issue which is nice to know that i’m not alone. I made a thread in the womans perspective section titled 26 year old virgin seeking help. I’d say you’ll be fine if you fix your attitude and put yourself out there more.

                          I understand the peformance anxiety and being compared to other guys by while getting with older females who have more than likely accumulated a high body count by the nature of todays hook up culture. You’re young and still have plenty of time . As for me, I feel too far gone and beyond the point of being helped. Atleast you’re not me!

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by softee View Post
                            I had and still have the same view as you do when I was your age but they have been exacerbated now at the age of 27. I can’t offer any advice unfortunately, but I can relate to you regarding this issue which is nice to know that i’m not alone. I made a thread in the womans perspective section titled 26 year old virgin seeking help. I’d say you’ll be fine if you fix your attitude and put yourself out there more.

                            I understand the peformance anxiety and being compared to other guys by while getting with older females who have more than likely accumulated a high body count by the nature of todays hook up culture. You’re young and still have plenty of time . As for me, I feel too far gone and beyond the point of being helped. Atleast you’re not me!
                            What stopped you from getting some? Size anxiety? Looks?
                            Current: NBPEL 5.9x4.8

                            Goal: NBPEL 7.0x5.5

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                            • #15
                              Bang an escort, trust me.

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