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  • Ejaculation anxiety vs very sensitive shaft and glans AND What's causing my anxiety

    I used to smoke weed and even just two or three puffs, shallow puffs and I could make love to my wife for as long as I wanted to. I decided when to ejaculate...

    But when sober... even if she just plays with it during foreplay I'd reach ponr and ejaculation happens super super quick.

    I still have this issue and it depresses me a lot. I think I have a really sensitive shaft and glans.

    Well that's the physical problem.

    The cause of my anxiety issues are:

    My wife's ex, who I unintentionally found out about after we got married was a Congolese guy she dated and slept with for 3 years before meeting me. Shocked the crap out of me!

    He is 1.8m in height and a muscle freak and my wife is not a black girl 1.65m slim and super sexy.

    She's not given me his penis measurements but, I found out about him and nagged her to tell me and she just said once that he was longer and thicker from all angles. So even though not knowing his exact measure, she knows he was bigger overall. So even though I know I'm not small, I know I'm smaller to her.

    He was the first and only guy who made her cum vaginally and I believe it was perhaps anterior or posterior spots. Why? Because her g spot is almost non existent or as sensitive as you read with some other women, and she only cums now from manual clit stimulation, doesn't matter what position or how much foreplay and gspot pressure etc or whatever.

    I also know this because ten years ago when we first were talking about sex, she always got excited about the thought of deep thrusting and doggy style or cow girl and once we were talking about gspot orgasms and where it's located and we both didn't know what deep spot anterior and posterior orgasms were or existed, and she mentioned that she thinks her g spot is deep. This was all before we had sex.

    So she only learnt about rubbing the clit during penetration when I did it to her during sex once... after that she's been sticking to that method religiously.

    I am around 17-17.5 bpel and 5.2 meg rarely 5.5 but it can go there depends, and 6.3 base EG. I think she was pressed deeper and thicker than this and therefore came vaginally. I push as deep as I can and on maybe three times in ten years of sleeping with each other did I ever feet a tiny little bit of her cervix touch my utmost tip, but extremely barely. So still doing P.E.

    Also worries me as well because she used to have two sessions with him. With me, after she's beaten up her clit to cum, she's done for the night.

    So yea... It's effecting me, mostly in secret for a long time. We have had a few arguments about this in the early years of our marriage but I haven't told her for years now that it bothers me still.

    I tried kegels and RK and I just can't hold my nerve or get pass the sensitivity during sexual activity.

    I don't watch porn... btw.

    I am wondering if CBD oil would help. But I heard that weed makes you a little numb down there. I tried desensitizing creams and sprays, and the weed high sessions don't feel like those products. With weed I feel everything quite nicely, but it does feel way super sensitive like without weed high.

    Any of you guys experience with CBD oil?

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    My apologies for this thread. I just need to scream this out somewhere...

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    • #3
      OH F, the bigger dick ex thing again ,

      So very many threads on this perhaps it would help to read a few of them.

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      • #4
        Lol... I know right?

        Any links to the threads?


        Btw:
        Found a fascinating thread about IC muscle training here. Hope to learn more about that.

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        • #5
          Wait a day or 2 there will be another ,
          To be honest there are so many of these they sort of all meld into one in my mind . I am sure other members can provide links.

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