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    Hi, I'm 24 years old. Despite not being that old and otherwise healthy I've suffered from severe erectile dysfunction for as long as I've remembered, even as a teenager.


    I have not been in any successful relationships or have had an orgasm from sex ever despite numerous attempts. My penis just doesn't want to get hard and function properly. Even during masturbation it's often difficult to get an erection and stay hard. There is almost no sensitivity. It's like it's dead. A doctor prescribed me some Cialis a while ago which I find of "some" help, but is not by any means a miracle cure.


    What brings me to this forum is that I had a failed sexual experience yet again today due to erectile dysfunction which was mortifying. I did take the Cialis but admittedly it was expired so the potency may have been weak, and frankly I just wasn't attracted to my partner which of course is a problem even with the pills. I really am having a hard time dealing with this though. I'm almost ready to just give up and accept I'm a loser that's not going to have a normal sex life. I could use some support here.

  • #2
    Originally posted by slickskin View Post
    Hi, I'm 24 years old. Despite not being that old and otherwise healthy I've suffered from severe erectile dysfunction for as long as I've remembered, even as a teenager.


    I have not been in any successful relationships or have had an orgasm from sex ever despite numerous attempts. My penis just doesn't want to get hard and function properly. Even during masturbation it's often difficult to get an erection and stay hard. There is almost no sensitivity. It's like it's dead. A doctor prescribed me some Cialis a while ago which I find of "some" help, but is not by any means a miracle cure.


    What brings me to this forum is that I had a failed sexual experience yet again today due to erectile dysfunction which was mortifying. I did take the Cialis but admittedly it was expired so the potency may have been weak, and frankly I just wasn't attracted to my partner which of course is a problem even with the pills. I really am having a hard time dealing with this though. I'm almost ready to just give up and accept I'm a loser that's not going to have a normal sex life. I could use some support here.
    Not to accuse you falsely...

    But you sound like a dude who's EQ and sexual prowess has been completely wrecked by years of abusing hardcore porn. Am I close????

    (I'm 22 myself, and there's nothing that I can think of that would kill your ability for erections at this age except that.)
    "I simply am not there..."

    "Sharp like an edge of a Samurai sword, the mental blade cuts through flesh and bone."

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Dr. Bateman View Post
      Not to accuse you falsely...

      But you sound like a dude who's EQ and sexual prowess has been completely wrecked by years of abusing hardcore porn. Am I close????

      (I'm 22 myself, and there's nothing that I can think of that would kill your ability for erections at this age except that.)
      Lol, I was kind of hoping for more positive and understanding responses. Yes, I have viewed pornography at times (who hasn't?), but not in ridiculously large amounts or even regularly. I will have trouble getting hard when I haven't looked at porn in two months.

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      • #4
        Learn about the pelvic floor. Massage your pelvic floor. Sounds to me you got some sort of tension going on. You could also have an imbalance of some sort. Do you know anything about kegels? Do you get morning wood?

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        • #5
          Hey Slick, it's ok. You are among friends. Just mite take time and aliitle more info from you to figure this out. Ok?
          A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Jay1983 View Post
            Learn about the pelvic floor. Massage your pelvic floor. Sounds to me you got some sort of tension going on. You could also have an imbalance of some sort. Do you know anything about kegels? Do you get morning wood?

            Welcome to the jungle!
            I heard of kegals and tried them a while ago. I don't think I found them helpful but I could have been doing the wrong ones or just not doing them properly. If you got any good info please send a message with it. I am noticeably hornier first thing in the morning from the testosterone spike and usually want to masturbate as soon as I get up. However, I don't get more then partial morning wood. I don't wake up with a full on erection ever, apparently that's normal.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Party View Post
              Hey Slick, it's ok. You are among friends. Just mite take time and aliitle more info from you to figure this out. Ok?
              Thank you, and yes ask whatever you need to if you think you can help.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by slickskin View Post
                I heard of kegals and tried them a while ago. I don't think I found them helpful but I could have been doing the wrong ones or just not doing them properly. If you got any good info please send a message with it. I am noticeably hornier first thing in the morning from the testosterone spike and usually want to masturbate as soon as I get up. However, I don't get more then partial morning wood. I don't wake up with a full on erection ever, apparently that's normal.
                https://www.pegym.com/penis-exercise...rcises-for-men

                Kegels that target the BC muscle improves circulation, which improves sensation, and combats ED. Just don't go overboard with them or even strain yourself, because you can injure yourself doing them.

                Pelvic floor massage is a God send.

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                • #9
                  Is there something which stands out- an injury, traumatic event, or something like that which might have initiated this?

                  Was there ever a period where you didn't have any ED?

                  Have you been to a medical professional?
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Dr. Bateman View Post
                    Not to accuse you falsely...

                    But you sound like a dude who's EQ and sexual prowess has been completely wrecked by years of abusing hardcore porn. Am I close????

                    (I'm 22 myself, and there's nothing that I can think of that would kill your ability for erections at this age except that.)
                    Oh hey.. we're both 22.. difference is you're super lucky!! haha
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                    04-16-2019: BPEL: 7.1 MEG: 5.19
                    03-29-2020: BPEL: 7.36 MEG: 5.39

                    No person is worth wanting to hurt yourself over, neither is the size of your penis.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by 6inDongNotForLong View Post
                      Oh hey.. we're both 22.. difference is you're super lucky!! haha
                      Super lucky huh, For what???
                      "I simply am not there..."

                      "Sharp like an edge of a Samurai sword, the mental blade cuts through flesh and bone."

                      Start BPEL: (7/30/16) : 17.5 cm
                      Current BPEL: ? (pending)
                      Current NBP: 19cm
                      BPFSL : 23.3 cm

                      1st major Goal: 21.5 cm BPEL

                      Ultimate Goal: 25 cm BPEL

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Big Al View Post
                        Is there something which stands out- an injury, traumatic event, or something like that which might have initiated this?

                        Was there ever a period where you didn't have any ED?

                        Have you been to a medical professional?
                        I think maybe I didn't have ed during puberty where everyone gets spontaneous an unprovoked erections. After that it came on pretty quickly. I blame sensitivity loss and nerve damage from circumcision during infancy which I never would have consented to if I had something to say about it.

                        Yeah I went to a urologist who prescribed the Cialis but didn't really have much else to tell me. He said he could do an ultrasound but it was invasive and involved sticking a needle into my penis and my insurance wouldn't cover it so I didn't get it.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by slickskin View Post
                          I think maybe I didn't have ed during puberty where everyone gets spontaneous an unprovoked erections. After that it came on pretty quickly. I blame sensitivity loss and nerve damage from circumcision during infancy which I never would have consented to if I had something to say about it.
                          This isn't a medical opinion but if you had no sensitivity issues in your touth it shouldn't have become less sensitive as you got older unless something happened or you developed insensitivity through negative masturbation habits.

                          Originally posted by slickskin View Post
                          Yeah I went to a urologist who prescribed the Cialis but didn't really have much else to tell me. He said he could do an ultrasound but it was invasive and involved sticking a needle into my penis and my insurance wouldn't cover it so I didn't get it.
                          What about possible contributors like severe depression or low T?
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                          • #14
                            Get your Prolactin , #'s checked by a Endocrinologist. Most men don't know it or realize it but high excretion of Prolactin from your Pituitary Gland absolutely kills EQ. I didn't know I had high Prolactin for years & suffered a silent fight.

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                            • #15
                              This is just an update. I am happy to say that I have managed to make SLIGHT progress. I no longer view pornography. Even though I still am doubtful that it causes erectile dysfunction I agreed that at the minimum it wasn't helping. I also started doing these kegal exercises. I still do absolutely require Cialis to have sex, but I did successfully have sex two times since my last post here. I was only able to get partially erect from manual and oral stimulation, but I was able to get rock hard while giving anal sex and reached ejaculation.

                              So I'm beginning to condition my body so that I'm more comfortable and responsive to real partners.

                              Really the only problem is I'm almost out of Cialis, and it costs a fortune. I think it's too risky ordering from those shady online pharmacies that get the drugs from India or some other country unless anyone can vouch for them and had good experiences with that. I hear there is a generic viagra called sildenafil out that is supposed to be affordable and legitimate.

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