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    I have been dealing with this issue for the last month or so where I will be masturbating for 5-10 minutes when all of a sudden I will start losing my erection. I have started to get nervous when I masturbate because I am now constantly expecting the ED. I have been having days where it isn't really noticeable and other days where I am masturbating and I will end up with a limp after 5 minutes.It starts to go down and sometimes I cum at 50% erection and I have came completely flaccid before(which leads me to think its biological) .When I get random erections/morning wood, the erection is only partially filled with blood and doesn't really go rock hard. I have tried cialis with OK success but it isn't a miracle pill either.What could possibly be going on here to cause such an awful thing to happen to me. My penis also seems shriveled up to about 2 inches and I have to masturbate it for 30 seconds before it gets hard(80-90% erection only to lose it 5 minutes). Sometimes I will start to lose it and it will randomly get hard again. I am not sure if it has to do with arousal level but even if arousal level dropped I don't feel like I should lose my erection in seconds. Could this possibly be a venous leak?

    I used to be able to masturbate 1-2 hours without cumming,now I am lucky to get 10 minutes. I have asked for help on other forums where they believe in a nofap philosophy but I feel like I am talking to a wall half the time. All advice will be appreciated.

    Edit:Forgot to add that I find it easier to keep an erection when I dont use KY to masturbate. I also cannot achieve an erection without stimulation.
    Last edited by Henry9; 11-06-2017, 02:09 PM.

  • #2
    Originally posted by Henry9 View Post
    I have been dealing with this issue for the last month or so where I will be masturbating for 5-10 minutes when all of a sudden I will start losing my erection. I have started to get nervous when I masturbate because I am now constantly expecting the ED. I have been having days where it isn't really noticeable and other days where I am masturbating and I will end up with a limp after 5 minutes.It starts to go down and sometimes I cum at 50% erection and I have came completely flaccid before(which leads me to think its biological) .When I get random erections/morning wood, the erection is only partially filled with blood and doesn't really go rock hard. I have tried cialis with OK success but it isn't a miracle pill either.What could possibly be going on here to cause such an awful thing to happen to me. My penis also seems shriveled up to about 2 inches and I have to masturbate it for 30 seconds before it gets hard(80-90% erection only to lose it 5 minutes). Sometimes I will start to lose it and it will randomly get hard again. I am not sure if it has to do with arousal level but even if arousal level dropped I don't feel like I should lose my erection in seconds. Could this possibly be a venous leak?

    I used to be able to masturbate 1-2 hours without cumming,now I am lucky to get 10 minutes. I have asked for help on other forums where they believe in a nofap philosophy but I feel like I am talking to a wall half the time. All advice will be appreciated.
    It sounds pretty serious. Better go get a real penis MRI.

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    • #3
      Seems like you got quite s few issues going on, some of which are mental. Oh I know you don't like that but it's true.
      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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      • #4
        When your masturbating is this to porn? like CUSP has said you have far more than one problem and the first attack is a long break its the only way to go, you need to forget about your dick leave it alone, you have no sexual contact with women, friendly but not sexual, if its getting sexual just say no, but be the man and tell why.

        Its what you have got to do if you want your sex life back, but masturbating for 2 hours is not good, proves nothing.

        One other thing when your masturbating are you using the grip of steel? the not good, it just needs to be a feather light touch, which is what a vagina is like, if you use some baby oil it will feel like the real thing.

        yes you may say I have heard this all before, its your only way back, there is no quick fix is a slow job to get back to normal, and the only way your know its getting better is if your getting nocturnal erections coming back with morning woods, these are great signs that things are working in your favour.

        NOWHARD

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        • #5
          Masturbating for 2 hours? My arm would fall off.
          The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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          • #6
            I agree with CUSP82 there is more than one issue going on and I suspect that this is a problem that's more than just a couple of months in coming. I say that because it's not usual for a 23 year old to be using Cialis and this medication is usually obtained by perception from a medical professional. That means, to me, that you have talked to someone about this before and most likely have tried other things.

            Furthermore, it seems likely that you masturbate at least daily, " I have been having days where it isn't really noticeable and other days where I am masturbating and I will end up with a limp after 5 minutes.". Masturbation is best enjoyed and mentally healthier when it's not a daily task, but used for release of sexual tension.

            It sounds to me that you are placing a lot of pressure and attention on preforming the act and not nearly enough on just enjoying the experience. I agree with NOWHARD you should take a long break and wait for your libido and natural bodily functions to return. This should also give you time to straighten out your thinking.
            Unit
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            Last edited by Unit; 11-06-2017, 03:07 PM.
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            The enemy of good is better

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            • #7
              Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
              Masturbating for 2 hours? My arm would fall off.
              Makes me laugh
              ​The enemy of good is not bad
              The enemy of good is better

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              • #8
                Originally posted by NOWHARD View Post
                When your masturbating is this to porn? like CUSP has said you have far more than one problem and the first attack is a long break its the only way to go, you need to forget about your dick leave it alone, you have no sexual contact with women, friendly but not sexual, if its getting sexual just say no, but be the man and tell why.

                Its what you have got to do if you want your sex life back, but masturbating for 2 hours is not good, proves nothing.

                One other thing when your masturbating are you using the grip of steel? the not good, it just needs to be a feather light touch, which is what a vagina is like, if you use some baby oil it will feel like the real thing.

                yes you may say I have heard this all before, its your only way back, there is no quick fix is a slow job to get back to normal, and the only way your know its getting better is if your getting nocturnal erections coming back with morning woods, these are great signs that things are working in your favour.

                NOWHARD
                I use KY jelly and have for the past 5 years(few years of baby oil few years of KY) , I recently started going back to dry masturbation(past month or so) . I got cialis for an online pharmacy as no way I am paying 30 a pill here. Cialis will hold me down in an emergency but it isn't a go to type thing.

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                • #9
                  Have you ever thought that your dick is over worked and needs a rest? Are you addicted to masturbation?
                  The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                    Have you ever thought that your dick is over worked and needs a rest? Are you addicted to masturbation?
                    I wouldnt say addicted but I have been masturbating more lately as I want to "prove" to myself my dick still works. I now have anxiety to top things off. I notice I do not have too much sensetation on my penis. I start out with a solid erection and then poof(although not a 100 erection)

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                    • #11
                      Because your wearing it out and then letting your brain go nuts because your dick is exhausted. You will end up ruining yourself if you continue. You must stop all masturbation for at least a month and after that time you will notice all is back to the way it was. Don't do it and you will ruin yourself for life. No I'm not kidding.
                      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                      • #12
                        I would second Unit, Noward and Cusp. Your problem seems to be more than just a few months in the making. You say you used to masturbate for 1-2 hours straight and that you have done so for the past 5 years. This is wrong and would by itself cause problems. Also you seem to be masturbating daily, BigAl calls it Frivolous Masturbation The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence

                        Now if you have been using porn all this while, then you may too be having PIED https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...anti-porn.html

                        As Noward said, you may want to leave masturbating for a while. How long? The standard is 90 days and see how it goes. Of course it is better to have a support group for that but you may as well just go cold turkey on it. The next step (or even 1st step if you like) could be to see a urologist for a total check up.
                        A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle

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                        • #13
                          Problem is that there is scientific evidence that completely refutes the notion of PIED yet people keep spreading it like it is a fact. https://goodmenproject.com/featured-...t-on-men-ajrt/ .

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                          • #14
                            Okay so since you know all the answers then fix yourself. You want to jerk off, you want to watch porn so go right ahead and see where it gets you. Oh I forgot; it got you here because your dick doesn't work right.
                            The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                            • #15
                              Sad
                              ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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