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  • 20 years old ED

    Hello everyone!
    I have just registered hoping that you can help me. I am 20 years old and I'm dealing with ED.
    The story dates back 2 years ago when I discovered some weird porn about cuckolds. it turned me on a lot and since then it is the only kind of porn I watch. Back then, my penis was fine, I could get boners anytime and me and my gf were happy. Most times I came quite hard and sex used to last a lot but that was fine with us. We broke up and I was single for about a year. A month ago I got a new gf, at first, I could get a boner without big problems, maybe a short bj and I was ready to go. But, while changing positions I would go soft...
    A few days ago, that changed, a few times after a bj and few seconds of sex it went soft and I felt like cumming at the same time. Today I came after 2-3 mins of bj and it went soft again. A few minutes ago I masturbated, it went hard only a little bit and I came in like 30seconds.
    What should I do?
    I am fit, I workout, I eat well, I don't drink but I have been smoking about 5-20 cigarettes everyday for the last few weeks.

  • #2
    Abstain from porn, hear me out...this makes a huge difference and you'll be getting boners just looking at pedestrians in no time. The part with the Pre E is likely down to masturbating too quickly, simply getting used to a new partner, and/or an overly sensitive penis. If it's the latter, learn to edge properly (no death grip) for long periods of time; you can find many articles here on this site to read more about that. You can fix this in probably a few weeks to a month doing the aforementioned.
    Start: 8.25 BPEL, 5.2 MEG, 6.4 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL

    9/11/17: 8.5 BPEL, 5.25 MEG, 6.5 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL 7.75 NBPEL*

    10/7/17 (EQ increased): 8.5 BPEL, 5.5 MEG, 6.4 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL, 7.75 NBPEL

    11/17/17: 8.75 BPEL, 5.5 MEG, 9.25 BPFSL, 8 NBPEL

    2/9/19: Same as 11/17/17

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    • #3
      Smoking obviously isn't helping but I doubt it's the cigarettes giving you these problems. Consider weaning off in the future.
      Start: 8.25 BPEL, 5.2 MEG, 6.4 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL

      9/11/17: 8.5 BPEL, 5.25 MEG, 6.5 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL 7.75 NBPEL*

      10/7/17 (EQ increased): 8.5 BPEL, 5.5 MEG, 6.4 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL, 7.75 NBPEL

      11/17/17: 8.75 BPEL, 5.5 MEG, 9.25 BPFSL, 8 NBPEL

      2/9/19: Same as 11/17/17

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Trax2Brax View Post
        Abstain from porn, hear me out...this makes a huge difference and you'll be getting boners just looking at pedestrians in no time. The part with the Pre E is likely down to masturbating too quickly, simply getting used to a new partner, and/or an overly sensitive penis. If it's the latter, learn to edge properly (no death grip) for long periods of time; you can find many articles here on this site to read more about that. You can fix this in probably a few weeks to a month doing the aforementioned.
        Well, I lasted for about a week without porn and it was about the same, not that easy to get hard + I came a bit quicker. So I started to watch again hoping than I'm going to cum harder again but I don't know wtf was wrong, I never came from less than 10mins of sex or bj before....

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        • #5
          A week's really not enough, try at least a month. If you can use your imagination to get hard, you're in the clear. If not, you have PIED.
          Start: 8.25 BPEL, 5.2 MEG, 6.4 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL

          9/11/17: 8.5 BPEL, 5.25 MEG, 6.5 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL 7.75 NBPEL*

          10/7/17 (EQ increased): 8.5 BPEL, 5.5 MEG, 6.4 Base Girth, 9 BPFSL, 7.75 NBPEL

          11/17/17: 8.75 BPEL, 5.5 MEG, 9.25 BPFSL, 8 NBPEL

          2/9/19: Same as 11/17/17

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          • #6
            Not even a month bro try atleast 90 days, you have PIED I already know it just by reading you were into weird cuckold porn. Nobody gets into that shit unless they are after novelty/chasers effect (to elevate dopamine levels because stimulation response is less you need more extreme content to get off) Hell man I even watched Mom-Son, BBW shit and some other disgusting stuff. For real pornography is the devil, if you say otherwise you don't know... Just stop jacking off, orgasm and ESPECIALLY PORN. Try it for 90 days if not fixed by then you need another 90 days. I pretty much quit porn for 2 months now mostly and all that weird shit went away

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            • #7
              yes one week is nothing. You almost certainly have PIED and need to stop the porn for good, you'll see improvements after a few weeks and continue seeing them after a few months. Take a look at the info on yourbrainonporn.

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              • #8
                At first it was nice. I was into that shit, my ex used to give me a bj and afterwards I could last forever. I used to cum only after thinking about that porn for a few minutes. Now ED, stopped the porn and guess what ED+PE... It's embarassing af as my new gf is older, more experienced and super hot.
                I think I'm gonna try some viagra for a while till I get used to real sex again.

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                • #9
                  Porn = ED
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                  • #10
                    The more focused you become on your performance, the more this issue will cause your performance to deteriorate. It's a very tough irony, but the solution from a mental/emotional standpoint is to attempt to be as objective as possible about your performance and to do your best to focus only on positive emoting. Having a trusted sexual partner help you work through this until you get to the other side of it can be extremely helpful.
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by t3ckton1k View Post
                      At first it was nice. I was into that shit, my ex used to give me a bj and afterwards I could last forever. I used to cum only after thinking about that porn for a few minutes. Now ED, stopped the porn and guess what ED+PE... It's embarassing af as my new gf is older, more experienced and super hot.
                      I think I'm gonna try some viagra for a while till I get used to real sex again.
                      Have you seen my private message?

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                      • #12
                        Temporary Psihological ED fix

                        This is my other post:
                        https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectile-dysfunction-forum/117831-20-years-old-ed.html
                        And I need some quick fix for this as ny relationship is going from bad to worse after we've talked about this and now my performance anxiety is much wore too.

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                        • #13
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                          Please continue to use the same thread for the same issue, thanks.
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                          • #14
                            I am quitting porn.. I thought I had ed from alcohol sometimes, but now I realize it years of porn ( a good 10 years). I never got into anything too weird, but there is definitely something wrong. Especially because a lot of people i know fuck girls while their hammered. So it really shouldn't be an excuse, not every time.

                            A Dr. I followed said if you don't have a solid erection in the am something is wrong. I have quit porn for a bit now and Im not going back. I'm tired of watching that shit anyway, there comes a point when you got to ask yourself who you are... are you a guy who watches people fuck? or are you a guy who fucks? I've been the first thus far, and now its time to change that.
                            closed158
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                            Last edited by closed158; 11-14-2017, 07:40 PM.

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                            • #15
                              I used to look at porn all the time. Soon I stopped getting erections as often and thought something was wrong with my penis. But nope it's just porn messing with your head. Your brain gets used to the dopamine release that unrealistic porn gives you and normal things stop making you hard. It's just a lack of interest.

                              Now I've quit porn and it's easy for me to get full spontaneous erections again.
                              PointyStick
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                              Last edited by PointyStick; 11-18-2017, 06:16 AM.
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