I need an honest opinion about my problem.

[Alphonsesilberstein Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alphonsesilberstein]

Hi, im new here, but ive done PE exercise before, maybe got injured but IDK. Im having trouble having erections without constant physical stimulation, Ive got a big dick for a small body (18.5 cms and maybe 6 inchs of girth not sure, at 170 mts of height) I have had this problem for a lot of time. I used to masturbate a lot during my teens, I was on antidepressants and other drugs and im sure they killed my testosterone levels and my cnfidence, I remember I couldnt sometimes get a complete erection but I did not care, ill come. This was before PE, so it kind of make sex scary, I refused a few ocassion because of the fear, and wel sometimes I coulld not get it erect if i tried, it would go soft inside the vagina. This has made me to not to relieve on condoms so because of this situation I dont hook up. I work out a lot an im pretty sure im healthy, I fixed that issue, my testosterone levels are terrific for my age, got good sleep hygiene also. I dont want to make this a long thread,, but I have problems having erections without physical stimulation, I do get morning woods, I have stopped watching porn and Ive seen some improvements, althought some days I come back to it because I cannot sleep if I dont jack off, and sometimes is difficult withhou porn, but it is becoming extremely uncommon, I guess I use porn as an escape from depression and I am coming to noticed it (baby steps ill keep trying) I dont get spontaneous erections, or very very rarely. The fact that I have morning woods and sometimes espontaneous erections made me thinnk that it was all in my head, that maybe it was years off porn use and heavy masturbation habits, plus the sexual trauma I had, I remember that after quitting those drugs sex would be very scary because of my erection problems, let just said that I have turned down many sexual oportunities because of it. Ive been able to have "normal" sex, althought condoms have been almost a noo because of who quicly my erection subsides. The problem is that I read a thread while googling about a guy whose doctor told him that you can have normal sex with a mild venous leak when youu are really turn on https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...nous-leak.html here is the threath. It makes sense to me Something like this happens to me, and the only time I hooked up I had to use viagra. The rare ocassions when I get espontaneous erections is when I havent cum in three days or smething like that. I have never being able to get an erection with a bj, I dont know it just doesnt feel right. Today I slept almost 10 hours, woke up with a morniing wood. I edged before posting this thread, my erections starts to subsize after ten seconds, it does not die complety until about I dont know 50 sec, but it becomes so soft to penetrate after 20 seconds , this is why I dont use condoms and I almost need to be able to cum to be able to penetrate a girl. I need honest opinions, Im scared of doing a doopler test because of the injection and the possibility of developing scar tissue, maybe I need some psychologicall help and thats all Im asking here, I did a lot of extreme jelking but never at 100 or I did not try it. I mean I remember reading a lot about PE before starting, even bought a book, im sure I had that in my mind or I wannt to believe that, i even paid for an internet program. (just instructions not person to person program). The other day while dancing with a girl I got a 65 percent erection, is that even possiblle with a mild venous leak. As I said I may just need psychoological help, the most important thing for me is the possibility of finding one day someone with whom start a family and not being able to talk about this kind of makes me depressed.
Thank you for your time

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Get a hormone check get the numbers do not repeat do not accept being told "normal".
Much "venous leak disappears with adequate testosterone and much with kegel style training .

https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectil...tml?highlight=

Quit porn .

[marksanchez397 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close marksanchez397]

I think this is another case of PSSD (Post SSRI sexual dysfunction)

[Alphonsesilberstein Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alphonsesilberstein]

marksanchez397- Yeah Ive thought about it, but all the things Ive done makes me wonder if this is the case and not physiological (in the penis like a venous leak), I woke up with a morning wood today despite being terrible drunk, I tried to hook up but I could perform so I just went to sleep. What gives me confidence is that I wake up regulary with a morning wood, I have never checked how long does it last if I get up, Im not the kind of guy who jumps up from his bed instantly but maybe I should check it What do you think? THe problem is that I cannot get a decent erections for penetration when its not in the morning, It only becomes fullly erect when Im about to come. Ill give it more time but I feel that talking about this makes me less anxious That threat I posted at the beginning has made me very anxious, because it makes me feel that in theory I could have it, If he could have erections when he was super turn on I dont see why someone who has morning woods cant have a venous leak But maybe I am misinformed. Thank you for your time again it really helps at lleast psychological

[Alphonsesilberstein Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alphonsesilberstein]

Pegasus- Im pretty sure my T levels are ok, i exercise a lot, im strong, im training to be able to do a one arm pull up, last year I was almost able to do it but I stoppped because of time depression and responsabilities. I am quitting porn, definitly, did you say "venous leak" between "" because you believe that is all in my head? Do you really believe there is no chance Ive got it because I got morning erections despite the story of the thread that I posted? Just asking thank you Im going to do everythiing in my hands to heal, trying to mantain my mind occupied to help the healing process. Again I just do it because it kind of relaxes me, but Ill give porn and come back to tell if my problems persist

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Venous leak is very trendy every second person onsite claims to have it . The reality is it is very rare and very overdiagnosed even medically let alone self diagnosis.

[marksanchez397 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close marksanchez397]

marksanchez397- Yeah Ive thought about it, but all the things Ive done makes me wonder if this is the case and not physiological (in the penis like a venous leak), I woke up with a morning wood today despite being terrible drunk, I tried to hook up but I could perform so I just went to sleep. What gives me confidence is that I wake up regulary with a morning wood, I have never checked how long does it last if I get up, Im not the kind of guy who jumps up from his bed instantly but maybe I should check it What do you think? THe problem is that I cannot get a decent erections for penetration when its not in the morning, It only becomes fullly erect when Im about to come. Ill give it more time but I feel that talking about this makes me less anxious That threat I posted at the beginning has made me very anxious, because it makes me feel that in theory I could have it, If he could have erections when he was super turn on I dont see why someone who has morning woods cant have a venous leak But maybe I am misinformed. Thank you for your time again it really helps at lleast psychological

Are your morning wood hard an complete or only semi-morning wood?

[Alphonsesilberstein Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alphonsesilberstein]

Are your morning wood hard an complete or only semi-morning wood?

Sometimes they are hard, sometimes they are semi, I edge in the morning (got use to it but now Im cutting it too) this is why im not sure how long my erections last without constant stimulation. Today my alarm clock woke me up from a dream, I did not have a morning wood, so it seems irregular but i guess that normal isnt it? I mean they are almost always rock hard but not the steel hard that wakes you up, I remember when I first startetd doing kegels (without PE) my erection would wake me up, that does not happen anymore. Id say that ina scaale 100% being still, I wake up 80% 90% but maybe it is just my imagination and my erections are actually pretty good. Also I have a big penis and a small body.