Hello awesome guys at Pegym! This is my first post here. So please go easy on me.
A little background: I am 25 yo. Until a couple of months ago, I was a one pump chump. I felt like a miserable loser because of my PE. I could get close to beautiful ladies who spread their legs for me. But I could never enjoy sex as I cummed as soon as I tried to put my penis inside the vagina. I consulted a therapist (around 3-4 months ago) and he suggested a Start-Stop technique. From then on, I practised that technique and also simultaneously read a lot of posts from many awesome people here. Recently, I got close to a woman and I noticed that all the hard-work (with the exercises) paid off! I could fuck her like a champ (and not like a chump, haha). One day, I had sex with her for more than 2 hours. And on every other occasion, I had sex for atleast 45 minutes. I felt like a champion.
Current situation: A couple of days ago, I met a couple at their place. The husband was a cuck and enjoyed watching me get intimate with his wife. Everything seemed awesome. The only problems: 1) The wife was extremely unattractive, 2) Their place was not very attractive, 3) Very bad movie playing on the TV, etc. I didn't want to disappoint them. So I started making some foreplay with the wife. I had slight erection for a while. After 30 minutes of foreplay, I wanted to fuck her (just for their sake and not because I wanted to fuck her). When I took off my clothes, my penis was completely flaccid. Also, I am a grower... so, it was very embarrasing. I tried a LOT to get an erection, but couldn't get even a semi-erection. After about 20 minutes, I tried hard to get an erection and forcefully tried to penetrate her. I immediately ejaculated (without an orgasm).
This current situation left me extremely embarrased and compltely confused. The couple thought that I had ED and PE because I was extremely excited watching the wife. I couldn't tell them that it was the opposite, that is, I was not at all excited with the wife, as she was very unattractive.
QUESTION 1) I thought that erection can be achieved without being excited. That is, one can achieve an erection by stroking the cock for a while and by 'physical' means. Can someone explain why I couldn't get an erection even after stroking my cock?
QUESTION 2) I thought that ejaculation is solely linked to arousal. I wasn't aroused watching the wife. How could I ejaculate?
Hope I didn't break any rules of the forum. Cheers to you guys!
A little background: I am 25 yo. Until a couple of months ago, I was a one pump chump. I felt like a miserable loser because of my PE. I could get close to beautiful ladies who spread their legs for me. But I could never enjoy sex as I cummed as soon as I tried to put my penis inside the vagina. I consulted a therapist (around 3-4 months ago) and he suggested a Start-Stop technique. From then on, I practised that technique and also simultaneously read a lot of posts from many awesome people here. Recently, I got close to a woman and I noticed that all the hard-work (with the exercises) paid off! I could fuck her like a champ (and not like a chump, haha). One day, I had sex with her for more than 2 hours. And on every other occasion, I had sex for atleast 45 minutes. I felt like a champion.
Current situation: A couple of days ago, I met a couple at their place. The husband was a cuck and enjoyed watching me get intimate with his wife. Everything seemed awesome. The only problems: 1) The wife was extremely unattractive, 2) Their place was not very attractive, 3) Very bad movie playing on the TV, etc. I didn't want to disappoint them. So I started making some foreplay with the wife. I had slight erection for a while. After 30 minutes of foreplay, I wanted to fuck her (just for their sake and not because I wanted to fuck her). When I took off my clothes, my penis was completely flaccid. Also, I am a grower... so, it was very embarrasing. I tried a LOT to get an erection, but couldn't get even a semi-erection. After about 20 minutes, I tried hard to get an erection and forcefully tried to penetrate her. I immediately ejaculated (without an orgasm).
This current situation left me extremely embarrased and compltely confused. The couple thought that I had ED and PE because I was extremely excited watching the wife. I couldn't tell them that it was the opposite, that is, I was not at all excited with the wife, as she was very unattractive.
QUESTION 1) I thought that erection can be achieved without being excited. That is, one can achieve an erection by stroking the cock for a while and by 'physical' means. Can someone explain why I couldn't get an erection even after stroking my cock?
QUESTION 2) I thought that ejaculation is solely linked to arousal. I wasn't aroused watching the wife. How could I ejaculate?
Hope I didn't break any rules of the forum. Cheers to you guys!
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