Ok. I had my only relationship in life, 13 years together, ending few months ago. I started dating new woman, but I can't get my dick working and it's killing me. I copy paste from my own thread from relationship forum:
God damn my dick has worked like shit both times. Difficulty of having erection and losing it, even if I took 100mg viagra. Then finally succeeded to make it work and cum both times. But it has been very shitty sex because of that. It is probably because of tension. And I started to fear that it won't work so it makes it worse. 13-years, whole life with one woman. It feels weird to have sex with someone else. Also I have had huge anxiety from family braking apart. It is very discouraging and unmanly feeling when smoking hot woman wants you badly and you cannot deliver. I have been last 3 months on isotretinoin (accutane) 20mg/day (low dose) and started to wonder if that has something to do with this, but I have used the drug before and at least with viagra I have worked well as I remember. I stopped taking it now. Also my TRT protocol changed so estrogen might be out of balance. Gotta ged bloodwork done. That's bad that I can't trust that dick works even with viagra. That's very frightening that even with ED drugs it won't work. With my ex it worked 95% time very well. Then I wasn't on isotretinoin though. It's whole different level of self-confidence when you have now doubt if your dick works.
Last night I was with her again and same shit. Working very badly. In the end could penetrate and have sex for like 5 mins and that was it. Shitty sex, compared to fucking great 20-30 min penetration time sessions I used to have with my wife.
So there is;
quite recent divorce
isotretinoin
change in TRT protocol
I will get bloodwork done and adjust trt protocol. I have stopped accutane, I hope that didn't do any permanent/long term damage to erection. I have tooked 2 courses before, the last one was 2 years ago and I have had very fucking good erections after that. So I would assume if it cause something I will recover from it this time too.
Allthought I don't feel like I'm nervous when we (try) to have sex, maybe I am nervous. Last time I drank 3 beers just to relax before sex. It didn't help much.
What do you guys suggest?
God damn my dick has worked like shit both times. Difficulty of having erection and losing it, even if I took 100mg viagra. Then finally succeeded to make it work and cum both times. But it has been very shitty sex because of that. It is probably because of tension. And I started to fear that it won't work so it makes it worse. 13-years, whole life with one woman. It feels weird to have sex with someone else. Also I have had huge anxiety from family braking apart. It is very discouraging and unmanly feeling when smoking hot woman wants you badly and you cannot deliver. I have been last 3 months on isotretinoin (accutane) 20mg/day (low dose) and started to wonder if that has something to do with this, but I have used the drug before and at least with viagra I have worked well as I remember. I stopped taking it now. Also my TRT protocol changed so estrogen might be out of balance. Gotta ged bloodwork done. That's bad that I can't trust that dick works even with viagra. That's very frightening that even with ED drugs it won't work. With my ex it worked 95% time very well. Then I wasn't on isotretinoin though. It's whole different level of self-confidence when you have now doubt if your dick works.
Last night I was with her again and same shit. Working very badly. In the end could penetrate and have sex for like 5 mins and that was it. Shitty sex, compared to fucking great 20-30 min penetration time sessions I used to have with my wife.
So there is;
quite recent divorce
isotretinoin
change in TRT protocol
I will get bloodwork done and adjust trt protocol. I have stopped accutane, I hope that didn't do any permanent/long term damage to erection. I have tooked 2 courses before, the last one was 2 years ago and I have had very fucking good erections after that. So I would assume if it cause something I will recover from it this time too.
Allthought I don't feel like I'm nervous when we (try) to have sex, maybe I am nervous. Last time I drank 3 beers just to relax before sex. It didn't help much.
What do you guys suggest?
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