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  • Penis Pump and Threesome Issue

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    Pumped340
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    Last edited by Pumped340; 12-17-2020, 05:47 PM.

  • #2
    Too much pumping, in my experience, can lower your erection quality.
    Dangler
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    Last edited by Dangler; 01-15-2019, 09:19 AM.
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    • #3
      Since you are OK with your size I would look around the ed section of the site. Lots of exercises and input from others there that may help.

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        Pumped340
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        Last edited by Pumped340; 12-17-2020, 05:47 PM.

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        • #5
          If you feel that your problem with staying hard in these situations is a mental thing then pumping before hand most likely will not help.
          To totally satisfy a woman sexually is not about having a large penis, it's about being a good lover.

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          • #6
            Penis Pump and Group Sex Pressure

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            • #7
              Sorry to say, I don't recollect the amount of time, or how frequently I was pumped in my cylindar.
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              • #8
                I don't advocate performance pills but in unique situations as this I would probably go that route to ensure there were not issues with "rising to the occasion" lol. In between those encounters I would focus on jelqing and kegels to help restore EQ and build confidence in my own abilities to where I know there is no need for pills.

                Worse than taking something for erections is to have your confidence repeatedly shattered by devastating experiences. They can be used as a crutch as long as you are working hard to not need them at all. Like I said, I would ONLY use them for those special occasions.

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                • #9
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                  • #10
                    You are better of going to a psychotherapist.
                    There is nothing wrong with your body as long as you get erections normally with 1 girl.
                    Maybe issues with competition, anger, fear, etc.
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                    • #11
                      I say go for another round, but this time focus more on giving the other(s) pleasure and let nature take its course with your erection.
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                      • #12
                        Hi your putting to much strain on your penis by pumping, just don't pump before you going to enjoy yourself, I cant get an erection after pumping the same day.

                        So next time no pumping for up to 24 hours before, remember its not size a women wants its just a good time with a hard penis and your not doing that.

                        NOWHARD

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                        • #13
                          Make sure you are taking the right nutrients beforehand. Feed it.
                          Don't Touch it the day before/that day - he's got enough work to do with multiples- rest it
                          and don't forget to congratulate the lil bastard after a hard days work - thank it.
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Pumped340 View Post
                            Hey guys, used to be on here a lot but stopped PEing about 1 year ago as I hadn't grown anymore in a full year of effort and it no longer made sense for me personally. I gained about 0.75in length and 0.8in in girth....kept maybe 75% of that after I stopped.

                            Anyway, I've had a two threesomes in my life (two girls and me, and then me and a guy and a girl) and two swaps (two couples switching partners). In all 4 of these situations I have unfortunately had a hard time getting and staying hard. It's very clearly mental as I normally get erections all the time and have no issue performing at all with a single girl. Basically I've gotten in my own head about it and I'm not sure if there's a lot I can do about it at this point as I will continue to overthink it. I've taken cialis before every one of these events and I'm sure it has helped but I've still definitely gone soft at times and have required several more minutes of head to come back, and if I need to wear a condom then forget about it lol.

                            Me and the girl I'm seeing have met another like-minded very attractive couple who is into what we're into, and I'm hesitant to agree because I am assuming the same will happen. There's a lot of pressure because of course if this couple has driven an hour to come see you specifically to have sex then if you don't it's a huge deal (versus if you're just on a date with an individual woman there is very little pressure).

                            The only thing I haven't tried that I'm thinking may help a little is if I pump for several hours before hand that could leave me almost semi-permanently engorged during the interaction and therefore less self conscious and less likely to go fully soft.

                            Any thoughts on that? My only concern there would be I've heard if you overpump you can turtle up afterwards and I used to pump a lot and that probably did happen on occasion. Last thing I need is to overpump and not be able to get it up at all for the interaction. Also just by working on it so much I may get even more mentally obsessed with it (like training for a competition).

                            It's a shame because these things have the potential to be so much fun but now rather than looking forward to it it just becomes something to worry about. I wish I could get my hands on some of that injectable medication that essentially forces your penis to be hard.
                            ‘Why not have a date night with the woman of the other interested couple and girl can have a solo date with the guy. If you are at ease with a single girl then this pre sex could break the ice and make things more comfortable when you all hook up together.
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                              Pumped340
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                              Last edited by Pumped340; 12-17-2020, 05:47 PM.

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