Connection between aruosal and erection.

[Burritobab Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Burritobab]

Hello, as we know, we don't need to be aroused to get erect and we can get erection without arousal. That got me thinking of how it is for me. I don't get erection when i'm aroused. I need to mastrubate or getting a blowjob. Psysical contact on my penis in other words. I get aroused when kissing a girl, but don't get erected. Not even getting erected without psysical contact at all, not even by the most exciting porn or fantasy, naked girl or whatever either. This make me think, because I often get morningwood, that the link between arousal and erection is broken. Another theory is that maybe it is pelvic floor issues, because pf is relaxed when sleeping, i'm able to get morning wood. Don't get spontenous erections either during the day. Yes, i know you want to know about my testo levels, but because of morningwood i'm pretty sure it is psycological problems i'm faceing. I'm under 30 years old, no health issues. Not mastrubating to porn. Have been doing that often before but are clean now for many months. Are just curius about the link between erection and arousal. If that link is broken, can you fix it somehow? Can you train yourself to get erected without hands? Maybe this should be in the science forum.. Please tell me what you think about this topic.

[Burritobab Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Burritobab]

Is it possible to use penis pump to get erect when you are aroused to condition your brain to associate arousal with erections?

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Is it possible to use penis pump to get erect when you are aroused to condition your brain to associate arousal with erections?

i never thought about this. Excluding spontaneous erections when I was younger, I always had to get aroused before I could get an erection.

You should try it and let us know.

[Burritobab Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Burritobab]

i never thought about this. Excluding spontaneous erections when I was younger, I always had to get aroused before I could get an erection.

You should try it and let us know.

Ok, I think it is very interesting. Maybe the topic should be "condition brain to get erected by arousal". I am going to buy a penis pump and try for myself, but I would love to hear peoples thoughts about this. I guess I should use fantasy to get aroused and then use the pump. Wonder how long I need to try this before I know if its working or not.

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

Ok, I think it is very interesting. Maybe the topic should be "condition brain to get erected by arousal". I am going to buy a penis pump and try for myself, but I would love to hear peoples thoughts about this. I guess I should use fantasy to get aroused and then use the pump. Wonder how long I need to try this before I know if its working or not.

Interesting theory. It could be, or it could be only anxiety.

However the problem should be put in another way : how exactly the brain got conditioned to not get erect when aroused ? I think naturally we are getting erect when aroused; but ! what happens afterwards ? porn ? something else ? your mind is in the good direction, like mine too, I seek how to recalibrate the brain to the youth times, as we all want to get back in time

[Burritobab Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Burritobab]

Interesting theory. It could be, or it could be only anxiety.

However the problem should be put in another way : how exactly the brain got conditioned to not get erect when aroused ? I think naturally we are getting erect when aroused; but ! what happens afterwards ? porn ? something else ? your mind is in the good direction, like mine too, I seek how to recalibrate the brain to the youth times, as we all want to get back in time

Yes, maybe anxiety, but i have had this problem for 10 years maybe. If anxiety, i think i would be over it by now. How do i really know if anxiety is the problem? Yes. Maybe porn is to blame.

[tank0909 Senior Member Member of the Month Jan. 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close tank0909]

Or maybe your connection between arousal and erection is on a more emotional or comfort level. If you're comfortable or emotionally involved with someone, like in a relationship, is it easier to get/maintain an erection? It may not be the connection is broken... the connection just may not be being made in the way that you require.

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Or maybe your connection between arousal and erection is on a more emotional or comfort level. If you're comfortable or emotionally involved with someone, like in a relationship, is it easier to get/maintain an erection? It may not be the connection is broken... the connection just may not be being made in the way that you require.

I have been in long relationships and yes, it gets easier. Still need psysical stimulation on penis to get hard.

[tank0909 Senior Member Member of the Month Jan. 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close tank0909]

I haven't gotten spontaneous erections for years. It's just the way my body is. Sometimes it happens if I get really aroused. The majority of the time I need physical stimulation. Don't put too much pressure on yourself about it, if you are. We're not robots. Can't just flip a switch and turn it on. One thing I have noticed is, for me, taking a daily regimen of Arginine, Citrulline, and a multivitamin has helped a decent bit. Still not usually full erections, but definitely some added blood flow down there when I start thinking about naughty things.

[Burritobab Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Burritobab]

I haven't gotten spontaneous erections for years. It's just the way my body is. Sometimes it happens if I get really aroused. The majority of the time I need physical stimulation. Don't put too much pressure on yourself about it, if you are. We're not robots. Can't just flip a switch and turn it on. One thing I have noticed is, for me, taking a daily regimen of Arginine, Citrulline, and a multivitamin has helped a decent bit. Still not usually full erections, but definitely some added blood flow down there when I start thinking about naughty things.

Ok. Yes, maybe i should think about it. I started to take citrulline 2 days ago. Not sure if i notice anything yet. Started to take ashwagandha too. And magnesium for muscle relaxation.