Hey guys just looking for some help here. After reading up on this thread, i feel like i 100% have performance anxiety that is causing myself not to be able to get an erection when it comes to having sex. Little bit of a back story:
Basically went through a depressive episode for about 2 years. Through these 2 years I watched a lot of porn and masturbated to it. There were some cases where i would just do it out of routine. Fast forward a couple of years, i realize what's happening and start to try and change my life. I'm happier now and want to pursue relationships/ sexual encounters with women.
I start seeing a girl for about a couple of months and i basically avoided having sex. The main reason for this is because i was NEVER ever happy with my size. This caused so many fucking issues for me. It's all i think about. It's legit a huge burden on my life and i absolutely hate it. Eventually it gets to the point where we try and have sex. I obviously couldn't and later down the road end this fling. She feels as if it's all her fault but i basically try and convince her it isn't. Still friends to this day.
This eventually has gotta me back to this forum. I have tried PE in the past but never really got into it. Recently I've made it a goal that i will 100% with out a doubt in my mind stick it out for AT LEAST a year. I want to see what kind of results i can get with this. I have notice better EQ when i masturbate (still to porn) and just in generally having a lot more erections throughout the day which is a huge step for me.
Now there's a girl that i want to see/pursue something with. Nothings official/started yet but we both have shown signs of interest. Now i'm absolutely scared to even try and have sex out of fear that i will yet again not be able to have an erection. I've finally acknowledge that a lot of these issues stem from porn. Without a doubt in my mind. My goal is to just PMO until i have the chance to hook up with this girl, the only thing is this will most likely cause me to not be able to last long.
I honestly don't know what's best for me in this situation and I would appreciate any tips to get over this performance anxiety and just everything in general. This is really affecting my mental health and would like to get over this.
Basically went through a depressive episode for about 2 years. Through these 2 years I watched a lot of porn and masturbated to it. There were some cases where i would just do it out of routine. Fast forward a couple of years, i realize what's happening and start to try and change my life. I'm happier now and want to pursue relationships/ sexual encounters with women.
I start seeing a girl for about a couple of months and i basically avoided having sex. The main reason for this is because i was NEVER ever happy with my size. This caused so many fucking issues for me. It's all i think about. It's legit a huge burden on my life and i absolutely hate it. Eventually it gets to the point where we try and have sex. I obviously couldn't and later down the road end this fling. She feels as if it's all her fault but i basically try and convince her it isn't. Still friends to this day.
This eventually has gotta me back to this forum. I have tried PE in the past but never really got into it. Recently I've made it a goal that i will 100% with out a doubt in my mind stick it out for AT LEAST a year. I want to see what kind of results i can get with this. I have notice better EQ when i masturbate (still to porn) and just in generally having a lot more erections throughout the day which is a huge step for me.
Now there's a girl that i want to see/pursue something with. Nothings official/started yet but we both have shown signs of interest. Now i'm absolutely scared to even try and have sex out of fear that i will yet again not be able to have an erection. I've finally acknowledge that a lot of these issues stem from porn. Without a doubt in my mind. My goal is to just PMO until i have the chance to hook up with this girl, the only thing is this will most likely cause me to not be able to last long.
I honestly don't know what's best for me in this situation and I would appreciate any tips to get over this performance anxiety and just everything in general. This is really affecting my mental health and would like to get over this.
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