Penis erection levels during sex and different positions ?

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

Hello and much respect to you all for this beautiful community, where we help each other and find solutions to improve ourselves in all aspects of life.

One particular subject or obsession intrigued me after I injured my penis from 2017 to 2018. During that time I did no-fap because I had severe erectile disfunction and that caused me great stress. After healing my peniss in 2018 succesfully I have become super-ultra aware of my erection and penis, at levels I never been before. I blame anxiety because of this. I was literally erect but my mind was not really understanding if it is a good erection or not, yet the girls were moaning in bed and begging to go slower. Still, I was confuse that I am full-erect. I blame anxiety again.


With time, testing at home at with more girls I got to feel that my erection is good, yet I am no longer natural and relaxed as before. I feel somewhat stressed or my brain really stressed out during that injury no-sex period. What happened is that I panic when the penis is not 100% steel hard.

100% steel hard it's for me when the penis is pointing upwards and it feels rock hard and I am unable to bend it.

This panic transformed into an OCD obsession and I stoped having sex and panicking a lot, why ? I tell you why :

I noticed that during sex, in some particular positions, the penis even lowers erection to 80%, no matter what I do, the penis will not go beyond 80%. I checked this positions in porn movies too (I just watched, I don't fap on porn!) and I noticed that on these position the penis is not 100% erect.

My question now is clear, because regarding my past problem I am unable to understand if I was like this before the problem or not. I don't remember if my penis was like this before or not. So the positions are, example :

1. Doggystile. Here the guy has to insert the penis in this angle --------- because on full 100% erect it points upwards and you can't really insert it into her pussy on doggystyle because the angle is simpy like a line, so the penis goes down to like 70% erection and you **** the girl in 70% erection power in doggystyle, always and cum like that in 70% erection power. Am I right here ?

2. images.hellogiggles.com/uploads/2018/07/09091144/image8.jpeg This position. The penis will go prolly to 60% erection for the angle to enter in the vagina, it will be even a little soft in this one, so you will **** the girl in this position always with like 60% erection and cum like that in 60% erection. Am I right ?

3. Blowjob with her standing on knees while you stand. sexpositions.club/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/12_19.png like this. In this position the penis will always have to get lower to enter the mouth in this angle ------ so on 100% erect steel hard, you have to bend it and lower the erection to like 70% so that you will **** her in the mouth and cum like that, in 70% erection. Am I right here ?

4. Inverted blowjob. kinkly.com/images/uploads/55fdf8fab9e8454b86c09ad1358154df.jpg?width=400[/url] like here. In this particular position the penis will be very little erect and soft, probably like 40% erection and you will **** her in the mouth like that, with 50% erection pointing down, and cum like that in 50% erection. Am I right ?

Meanwhile some positions will offer 100% erection like missionary or the girl sitting on you, as you sit on a chair ?

Please make me understand if I am right, because I feel very distressed.

thank you

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Erection level varies, based on many normal factors. You're digging too deep bro, relax, don't worry, and enjoy.

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

So it varies during different positions like I said ? that means it's not 100 rock % in all positions ?

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Interesting topic.

Obviously different positions will affect your erection differently. That's just how blood flow works.
If make a handstand blood is moving different than if you are standing or sitting.
This can effect your erection strength.

Also when you're in a position were the penis gets bend it might challenge your hardness.
It's totally normal to not be 100% hard at all times during intercourse. Penis will bend and get softer inside the vagina.
Missionary position is probably the least challenging...

If you want to turn into some sex animal that is hard in all situations you could train that. Most people are not a sex animal lol

Edging and holding an erection in different situations. Pushing down on your erection while edging trying to maintain an erection.
Trying to keep an erection without stimulation for more time..
All possible..

But yeah always try to keep logic and be realistic with your expectations to yourself. Seems like you put a bit too much thought to it(I did often too)

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

Interesting topic.

Obviously different positions will affect your erection differently. That's just how blood flow works.
If make a handstand blood is moving different than if you are standing or sitting.
This can effect your erection strength.

Also when you're in a position were the penis gets bend it might challenge your hardness.
It's totally normal to not be 100% hard at all times during intercourse. Penis will bend and get softer inside the vagina.
Missionary position is probably the least challenging...

If you want to turn into some sex animal that is hard in all situations you could train that. Most people are not a sex animal lol

Edging and holding an erection in different situations. Pushing down on your erection while edging trying to maintain an erection.
Trying to keep an erection without stimulation for more time..
All possible..

But yeah always try to keep logic and be realistic with your expectations to yourself. Seems like you put a bit too much thought to it(I did often too)

Are you sure that what you said with red is possible ? I mean how could one be 100% erect during those positions ?? if you get 100% erect in doggystile hard rock, probably the angle will make your penis to hurt like hell and damage it or something.

Ain`t I right ? take a look :

EREREA.jpg

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

Anymore opinion guys on my first questions ?

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Are you sure that what you said with red is possible ? I mean how could one be 100% erect during those positions ?? if you get 100% erect in doggystile hard rock, probably the angle will make your penis to hurt like hell and damage it or something.

Ain`t I right ? take a look :

Yes possible. Some people have hard erections that point outwards and doggy would pose no problem to them.
But I agree that to someone who has a high angle erection this position could mean a loss of hardness.
I can push a 100% erection down to that angle without pain. But after some time I lose some hardness. This can be trained though.. that's why I used the qualifier
Sex animal

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

But I`m talking about how we are by default not how we can train to be.

So that's why I 'm asking you guys, am I right that erections are not 100% rockhard in all positions, no mater what one does ?

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

But I`m talking about how we are by default not how we can train to be.

So that's why I 'm asking you guys, am I right that erections are not 100% rockhard in all positions,

Yes, normal.

no mater what one does ?

No, it depends..

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

I~m waiting for other opinions, please guys do write !

i recently watched few porns (no masturbation) and saw guys cuming at 50% erection... i dont get it, is my obsession so high that I forgot that's normal ?! because I tend to cum only at 100% rock hard

No, it depends..

I don't see what possible ways are in the world to have sex in this positions with an erection over 70% without breaking your penis fracture, please tell

https://lovepositions.org/storage/im...se-cowgirl.png

https://static-ca-cdn.eporner.com/photos/122565.jpg ( NSFW explicit sexual image) notice the erection here

https://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/...s-position.jpg

I can find many many positions like this in which... you cannot be 100% rockhard penis no mater what you do

so please do tell me how I am wrong?

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

People are very different. Pelvic floor angles, shapes etc.
Fitness and control ability is very different.
I can hold erections for positions much better now than years ago cause I trained my pelvic floor. Everyone has a radius or angle where they can move their dick more and less comfortable
The first position can be akward for me too. I don't like it

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

If you lose your erection when you push on it lightly or push it down or to the side... that is not normal.
This means your pelvic floor is weak or unbalanced.(if you are healthy)
Losing erection during sex happens for all people. Some, like pornstars or very fit or strong pelvic floor people can do more.

If you want to increase your abilities.. you're on PEgym

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

You avoided my direct questions.. regarding those positions, you know it is impossible to be rock hard 100% when having sex in those positions.

No matter what pelvic floor and etc you do. I suppose you are reffering to kegels.

[Davis Carter Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Davis Carter]

Losing erection during sex happens for all people. Some, like pornstars or very fit or strong pelvic floor people can do more.

If you want to increase your abilities.. you're on PEgym

You are off-topic, talking about something else here. How can a super fit pelvic floor guy with the best " pelvic floor in the world perform 100% erect in the positions I posted on the previous page ? explain that, and you get a prize.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Sounds like you are approaching sex like a nervous science experiment. That would make my boner less hard, too!

If a position is not quite working, just adjust the position! The pictures you are looking at are only one view of a position with many slight variations. Like doggy style - if it's making your cock angle to far down, just have her spread her knees more so she's lower and bend your torso over her back. Reverse cowgirl can be a challenge if you cant point it straight up or if you're on the longer side. Have her lean more toward your head or just avoid the position if it's uncomfortable. The on the knees blowjob might work better for you if you lean towards her more. Same with the the lie back blowjob position - just get her head totally perpendicular to the floor and lean over her some. That's a great blowjob position, especially if she has no gag reflex! Most importantly, relax man!