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CUSP82 · 12-16-2019, 05:00 PM

You get erection so you don't have ED. End of story. All this stuff that you get only 94% and not 100% is all in your mind.

Mikebranada · 12-16-2019, 08:13 PM

Dear Davis, have you ever told your doctor you want to achieve better erections? He'd be glad to fill you a prescription for this. My doc gives me 5 mgs of Cialis and I get nice boners in the morning.

You have to take what they do in porn with a grain of salt. This is online prostitution not regular sex, that's why they get paid. For what? In return, women's reproduction organs get demolished (can't conceive) and they take too much dick and can't get pregnant. For guys: it's a bunch of meaningless sex, some of them just want to hurt women. These same men who are "' macho' end up with erectile dysfunction in their twenties and thirty's. These same guys need "buffers" women who suck their dick just so they stay hard between scenes because they are so decensitized maybe only getting horny if he's burning that cigarette butt on a girl's face...
Do not idolize porn. A real woman wants to make love and be shown affection. Not violently ravaged. They get told what things to say but meanwhile they are getting ptsd from gangbangs,, for real.
So stop comparing yourself to porn, take some Cialis, and keep going in your life.

incogneeetoe · 12-17-2019, 02:42 AM

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

I want the plain truth in your opinion as my situation made me unable to know if I still have erectile disfunction or not. So please tell me... compared to, your... cock, if my cock works normal or not now...

I can get an erection but it does not seem full rigid erection to me like before.

I think it is well established here on the 'Gym that we really cannot compare one cock to another.
I have never had a real injury. I do aerobic exercise, do pelvic floor yoga, eat a penis healthy diet, take 5G tea, do PE 5 days a week with ballooning and have regular sex with my wife. How can we compare. Do you follow an obsessive regimen as I do?

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

Questions :

1. Why is this happening ? is this normal ? is it not ? I do not seem to remember if I was like this before but I suspect that before I could get 100% in all positions. Or am I totally wrong and this is the normal way males get erect, with a super rock hard erection when they bend knees or put knees above the body !?

Compare me to yourself and tell me how is normal, because I lost the track.

I get rock hard erections in various positions. Standing, sitting, during sex, etc. Is that normal? I would assume I am, but anecdotal evidence shows me that I may be abnormal. Many men do experience ED. Some chronic, some periodic. I used to experience periodic ED, now I do not. Is that normal for a 52 year old man?

One study found the crude incidence rate for ED was 65.6 cases per 1000 person-years (95% confidence interval 49.6 to 85.2). The incidence rate increased with age and was 33.3, 53.7, and 189.5 cases per 1000 person-years for men 40 to 49, 50 to 59, and 60 to 69 years old, respectively. So between 40 to 60 less than 10%, but after 60 is more than 10%.
The age-adjusted risk of developing new-onset ED was higher for men with lower education, diabetes, hypertension, and benign prostatic hyperplasia. Do you have diabetes? Hypertension? Enlarged Prostate?

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

2. Also, I have tried to watch some porn ( no masturbation on it , no arousal , just watching the guys cocks erection) and have seen that in many positions those guys have soft cock, which intrigues me; isn�t the penis supposed to be rock hard in all sex positions ? because from what I see, in 69, doggy style, blow job from standing and the girl on knees , all these positions and many more will offer the guy an erection of probably 80% max. due to the angle of where the cock will enter inside her. So does that mean that actually some positions of sex are done with the penis softer ?

I have noticed this myself. I do not see much porn, apart from short clips on reddit, and I am often surprised by the men being so soft. I even started a thread about this a while back (https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/131...hard-hard.html).
I am generally fully hard in all positions. Cowgirl can be problematic if I am tired or we are starting out in that position. But if we work up to it I am 100% in cowgirl, too.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

3. In this imagery I have found on the internet, I cannot explain this, probably a big enigma for me :

So how is normal full erection normal when one stands ? with the penis pointing up with the tip, or with it just slight bended ?!

I do edging/ballooning while standing, so for me it is very normal to be 100%, with erection pointing up 10 degrees.

Davis Carter · 12-18-2019, 04:56 AM

Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post

You get erection so you don't have ED. End of story. All this stuff that you get only 94% and not 100% is all in your mind.

I get erection.

It's not in my mind as I get stronger / rock / better erection in that position.

My question is, if that is how penis works for everyone and I forgot ? Is it possible that I have 100% erection all the time and that particular position it gets to some kind of extra "overclocked" erection 120% let's say ?! for some reason ?

That's what I am trying to understand.

And there comes these guys who say stuff like Mikebranada to take cialis etc.

I took 20 mg Cialis and the situation was the same. In that position I got rock hard and in other positions I get the 94%.

Even with 20 mg Cialis.

Mikebranada: A real woman wants to make love and be shown affection. Not violently ravaged. They get told what things to say but meanwhile they are getting ptsd from gangbangs,, for real.
So stop comparing yourself to porn, take some Cialis, and keep going in your life.

Sir , everything you said here, is bullshit. You haven't even read what I said about porn. I said that it looks that they have some soft erections into some various positions and I was asking if that is the normal way for the penis to act in those positions. Because I want to understand again how the penis works. Besides that, women want hardcore sex, trust me.

Cialis 20 mg helped me with nothing, I still get the rock hard super erection with knees bended and normal 94% erection with other positions, even with Cialis.

Davis Carter · 12-18-2019, 05:14 AM

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

How can we compare. Do you follow an obsessive regimen as I do?

Yes, I do kegels, reverse kegels, but lately I 've been told that too many kegels are bad. I try to keep on only with reverse kegels.

What's your approach on this? what do you recommend ? would it be ok only to try reverse kegels / ballooning if that is what you refer to as balooning ?

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

I get rock hard erections in various positions. Standing, sitting, during sex, etc. Is that normal? I would assume I am, but anecdotal evidence shows me that I may be abnormal. Many men do experience ED. Some chronic, some periodic. I used to experience periodic ED, now I do not. Is that normal for a 52 year old man?

I think it depends how you define rockhard. Of course mine is pointing up when standing, but still not rock hard as when I get in the bended knees situation. I don't know how can we know what is what in each other case, that's why I am trying to find out if I have ED or not. As cialis changed nothing in my situation, I still tend to suspect that there is something physical that is being "released" when I bend knees, from pelvic floor to vein or nerve / muscle, that's why I keep asking this, because in 3-4 seconds I get that super hurting rock hard erection when I simply bend knees. Why ?

Before my appointment to the 7th urologist in february, I try to ask / find out if anyone figures out what is going on in my case.

I even suspect something being done from cycling to my nerves, etc. I don't know, I have had many tests and they found nothing yet. You do seem experienced in this issue so please help me find out what's going on.

I don't have diabetes / enlarged prostate / whatever else health issue, none.

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

I have noticed this myself. I do not see much porn, apart from short clips on reddit, and I am often surprised by the men being so soft. I even started a thread about this a while back (https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/131...hard-hard.html).
I am generally fully hard in all positions. Cowgirl can be problematic if I am tired or we are starting out in that position. But if we work up to it I am 100% in cowgirl, too.

Again I think we're dwelling in confusion in this case. Why ? because I simply cannot see how someone can get ROCK HARD in doggy - style or 69 or many positions that won't let the angle of the penetration be more than 90 degrees.

You simply cannot be rock hard / as rock hard means penis pointing up and being hard as a rock; when you penetrate the woman in doggy style position or reverse cowgirl and many other positions.

If you think otherwise, explain to me how, because the angle will not offer a better erection and the penis "adjusts" to the situation and get's softer, or else you will have it broken. Or even break the women's insides.

Take a look at this illustration :

Doggystile position :

https://badgirlsbible.com/wp-content...lustration.jpg

Doggystile position with the visible penis penetration :

https://ibb.co/C91nD68

Doggystile position with the visible penis penetration and rock-hard up pointing erection :

https://ibb.co/R7CzNs0

As you can see it's literally impossible to penetrate the girl in doggy-stile position with rock-hard erection, but you said you are rock-hard in all positions. So how comes that ,sir ?

I know it feels great to say " I m rockhard in all positions " but it doesn't make sense.

Another example of real sex situation position, where you cannot penetrate the girl if your penis is rock-hard, please do explain how you penetrate the girl in this position with rock-hard penis, sir :

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(warning, graphic)

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

I do edging/ballooning while standing, so for me it is very normal to be 100%, with erection pointing up 10 degrees.

What is that and how you do it ? reverse kegels ?

Please answer to all my questions

Davis

nblade98 · 12-18-2019, 02:31 PM

Hey Davis can you please explain your initial injury? How did you get injured, what were you doing? What were your symptoms? And how did you heal? Did you find that masturbation made your symptoms worse? Thanks a lot man.

Mikebranada · 12-18-2019, 04:19 PM

Hey nblade, have you ever thought of physiotherapy for your pelvic floor? It adds circulation causing massive erections during later the day at physio. These erections lead to improved penile health because its part of healing when you're having erections. Especially if your libido and depression are down. It's worth a shot right?

incogneeetoe · 12-19-2019, 03:27 AM

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

Yes, I do kegels, reverse kegels, but lately I 've been told that too many kegels are bad. I try to keep on only with reverse kegels.

What's your approach on this? what do you recommend ? would it be ok only to try reverse kegels / ballooning if that is what you refer to as balooning ?

I do basically equal amounts of kegels/reverse kegels. But I will say that when I reverse kegel I hold it longer. So if I am just standing, waiting, I will do 25 of each. Kegel in, reverse kegel out. The kegel is about 2 seconds while the reverse is 3 seconds.

When I balloon I reverse kegel while working my erection to maximum, once I am 100% I kegel to hold it for a minute. I do that 5~6 times in a hot shower.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

I think it depends how you define rockhard. Of course mine is pointing up when standing, but still not rock hard as when I get in the bended knees situation. I don't know how can we know what is what in each other case, that's why I am trying to find out if I have ED or not. As cialis changed nothing in my situation, I still tend to suspect that there is something physical that is being "released" when I bend knees, from pelvic floor to vein or nerve / muscle, that's why I keep asking this, because in 3-4 seconds I get that super hurting rock hard erection when I simply bend knees. Why ?

I do not think you have real ED. You get erections. I had periodic performance anxiety induced ED. Once I go over my own fears it went away.
If there is something physical, I do not know. Not a doctor. There is a great deal of information available about squats and erection. I did a search for erection and squat (bent knee) there are many experts saying to do squats to get better erections.
Maybe use that as a starting point. Get into bent knee position then see how hard you get. Move around. See what you can feel.
There are even people who advocate doing squats with a full erection.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

Before my appointment to the 7th urologist in february, I try to ask / find out if anyone figures out what is going on in my case.

I even suspect something being done from cycling to my nerves, etc. I don't know, I have had many tests and they found nothing yet. You do seem experienced in this issue so please help me find out what's going on.

I am guessing (pure guessing, not a doctor) that a big part of it is nerves.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

Again I think we're dwelling in confusion in this case. Why ? because I simply cannot see how someone can get ROCK HARD in doggy - style or 69 or many positions that won't let the angle of the penetration be more than 90 degrees.

When I am fully hard. I am saying at 100%. That is what I call "rock hard".
The angle of my erection is about 80 degrees. If I am standing it does not point out from my body at a 90 degree angle. It is up 10 degrees. I am not posting pictures.
If you compare to the one illustration you had showing the erection penetrating at 90 degrees, I am 10 degrees above. In order to do doggy I will lean over my wife and place hands on her shoulders, so I am not directly behind her as such, slightly above and behind.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

You simply cannot be rock hard / as rock hard means penis pointing up and being hard as a rock; when you penetrate the woman in doggy style position or reverse cowgirl and many other positions.

I can be. It does not point up. It points out at 80 degrees. We do not do reverse cowgirl. It does not work for me. Unless I am seated.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

If you think otherwise, explain to me how, because the angle will not offer a better erection and the penis "adjusts" to the situation and get's softer, or else you will have it broken. Or even break the women's insides.

I adjust my body to the situation. I go slow and make sure that we are not going to hurt each other.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

As you can see it's literally impossible to penetrate the girl in doggy-stile position with rock-hard erection, but you said you are rock-hard in all positions. So how comes that ,sir ?

I know it feels great to say " I m rockhard in all positions " but it doesn't make sense.

I like sex. My wife likes sex. She is hot. I exercise daily. I get rock hard when we have sex. Every time now. I often post about our achievements in the "Motivation" thread. Most of the time she comments not on my size but on how hard I am.

I used to have trouble. I would lose my erection changing positions. Or have a hard time getting fully hard, rushing things. I learned to slow down, and I determined to do everything I could to ensure good EQ. 5G tea, exercise, ballooning, diet, etc.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

Another example of real sex situation position, where you cannot penetrate the girl if your penis is rock-hard, please do explain how you penetrate the girl in this position with rock-hard penis, sir :

Slowly.
Last weekend we were having sex. She started to play with my erection, engaging in foreplay, etc. It had been a week, so I was hard quickly. She was ready, but I still needed to work it in. So I got behind her, pulled her ass up in the air and did it slowly.
Just the head at first, thrust a few times to get the juices distributed, then push a little more in, etc., all the while keeping a reverse kegel. The slow working in only serves to make me stay hard, even get harder. By the time I had worked it in, I was so hard it hurt.

Originally posted by Davis Carter View Post

What is that and how you do it ? reverse kegels ?

Please answer to all my questions

See above.

Davis Carter · 12-19-2019, 05:55 AM

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

I do not think you have real ED. You get erections. I had periodic performance anxiety induced ED. Once I go over my own fears it went away.
If there is something physical, I do not know. Not a doctor. There is a great deal of information available about squats and erection. I did a search for erection and squat (bent knee) there are many experts saying to do squats to get better erections.
Maybe use that as a starting point. Get into bent knee position then see how hard you get. Move around. See what you can feel.
There are even people who advocate doing squats with a full erection.

I said and will say it again : it's not anxiety. I am like this since 2017, and I m not sure I was this before my injury. I cannot recall as I was not aware of penis hardness back then. I was just feeling things normally.

I said , I get into the bend knee position, I get that hurting erection of super rock hard where it literally feels tight to the point that I feel all area (where the penis conects the body, tight) If I stand and move around it changes to less erect, 94 % . I was curious if this is normal or not.

I will try squats with full erection.

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

I am guessing (pure guessing, not a doctor) that a big part of it is nerves.

So what to test in this case ?

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

When I am fully hard. I am saying at 100%. That is what I call "rock hard".
The angle of my erection is about 80 degrees. If I am standing it does not point out from my body at a 90 degree angle. It is up 10 degrees. I am not posting pictures.
If you compare to the one illustration you had showing the erection penetrating at 90 degrees, I am 10 degrees above. In order to do doggy I will lean over my wife and place hands on her shoulders, so I am not directly behind her as such, slightly above and behind.

With all due respect, I think you are exaggerating. When I am fully hard 100% from the bend-knees and I stand, the angle of erection is somewhat 40 or 50 degrees and when I touch it it feels like a resistant steel connected to the body, resistant to moves. This is the hardness I speak of.

When you are standing it's 80, well at me it's like 40 / 50 degrees.

Regarding doggy stile, yes I do the same, but still that cannot offer the 40 / 50 degrees angle erection and hardness I get with bended knees. And I am 100% sure you cannot be total hard in that position either, I suspect the penis is full hard when in upwards pointing angle too, so doggy stile and many other positions will offer less hardness due to the.. angle of the position. If I'd be total hard in doggystile I think I would break my penis.

Ain't I right ? I am waiting for more people to speak their opinion because I am trying to find out what's going on.

Originally posted by incogneeetoe View Post

I can be. It does not point up. It points out at 80 degrees. We do not do reverse cowgirl. It does not work for me. Unless I am seated.

Yes, 80 degrees, but at 80 degrees you can touch the penis and it will move slightly. When I am total hard at 50 degrees and I touch the penis, it feels "resistant to moves" , that's what I speak of.

Given the situation clarified I suspect that in my case the "bended knees position" might possibly be some form of over-erection and that normal erection is whatever I get when I don't bend knees.

Still, I'm not sure yet, because I don't know what to compare to or how to compare to, all I have is this :

rock-hard at bended knees
less-hard at other positions

I don't know who to ask further if this is normal or not or how can I test it before my appointment to the 7th urologist. But I still don't understand why I get so hard at bended knees and when I switch, it gets less hard.

My confusion is still present, I don't know what is the resolution, only if you guys would post your opinion, it will help

Mikebranada · 12-19-2019, 01:13 PM

So the fingers in the ass thing did work for my Ed. The woman physio therapist milked the prostate. That was on Tuesday. Today is Thursday. All I have to do is do a few kegals, some pelvic floor squeezes, few weights, some breathing exercises. My dick feels 100% better but I don't want to Jynx it. Anyway if things don't seem to work, another session is warranted.

Davis Carter · 12-21-2019, 07:45 PM

Hm, excuse me ? what issue did you had and how did "milking" the prostate changed things ?

Mikebranada · 12-21-2019, 08:05 PM

Well, I had lacerations in my penile sheath for fourteen years plus. The pelvic floor plays a big help in seXual function. When physio shoves a finger up your ass they hit the prostate because all men have one. Of course it is a female who does or else it would be all gay n shit. Once you go home you'll be popping boners all day, even though I had Ed. The libido goes up and the blood flow to your penis gets help. For example they lye you down with your knees bent up with a triangle pad underneath. This is common in physio to use these heated seats. There is also homework for you to do, kegals, butt clenches, weight training, etc. The first time costs a wallop if money because they get all your medical history. I'm spossed to go back in two weeks, but it's only half the price for follow up appointments. If you work and have insurance it shall cover it. I have had it once and I can say it gave me some relief, to be honest it does more then help the pelvis pain. Depending what you do on your own time you may yield great results. Its just like a job. It's what you do in your off time that matters. And please take the day off if doing this, you will pop too many boners at the office lol f'real.

Mikebranada · 12-21-2019, 08:06 PM

It's called pelvic floor strengthening sir.

Mikebranada · 12-21-2019, 08:08 PM

I am not saying it is a godsend but it is male physio!

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