Hi all.
I’m 30. Normal weight. I go to gym. Don’t smoke. Don’t take drugs. Don’t take antidepressants. Drink alcohol on a weekend.
I’ve had blood tests through the years and they’ve all come back as normal. I don’t know what the figure is but latest blood test said it was good.
I was born with hypospadias and a very small penis.. Had surgery at 14 which left me with a tiny fistula under shaft.
I was still able to get random erections. Had a perfect sex life with my first GF at 18. No issues.
We broke up a year later. Since then I’ve had issues with being unable to penetrate women.
Tried viagra, cialis etc. Didn’t work.
GP said it was due to performance anxiety so kept prescribing me viagra. Minimal effect. Still unable to enter women.
Age 27, had surgery to repair the fistula.
Ever since... erections have got worse.
I’ve been unable to have sex. Penis shrunk. I’m unable to get night wood. I’m unable to get random boners. I’m even unable to get erections in private. I can ejaculate but it stays soft.
I haven’t had night wood in about 10 years.
If I do get an erection...I have to really stimulate it and can only get partial erection at 30%. It gets bigger but stays soft. Not hard enough to enter a woman. I can ejaculate with a floppy dick and it immediately shrinks afterwards.
It’s ruined all of my relationships. Women keep leaving me and losing interest after me trying to have sex with them and failing.
I’ve been prescribed a vacuum pump to try and regrow the penis and stimulate blood. I’ve been using it for 10 mins a night every night. It works. Penis is much bigger when using it but instantly shrinks after use. It shrunk instantly even with a ring.
Latest partner, she kept kissing me, foreplay etc...but penis was unresponsive. I ejaculated even though it was soft. I was so embarrassed.
I’ve also been prescribed injections...had an injection to the penis at a clinic. I found it traumatic as it was painful. It didn’t work. Penis was only at 20% hardness.
I have no idea what to do. I’m so depressed over it. I have no problems attracting women. I just can’t have sex with them.
What is going on? It’s been like this for 10 years. I don’t have anxiety. I’m very calm with women and make sure I get them off first.
Thanks.
I’m 30. Normal weight. I go to gym. Don’t smoke. Don’t take drugs. Don’t take antidepressants. Drink alcohol on a weekend.
I’ve had blood tests through the years and they’ve all come back as normal. I don’t know what the figure is but latest blood test said it was good.
I was born with hypospadias and a very small penis.. Had surgery at 14 which left me with a tiny fistula under shaft.
I was still able to get random erections. Had a perfect sex life with my first GF at 18. No issues.
We broke up a year later. Since then I’ve had issues with being unable to penetrate women.
Tried viagra, cialis etc. Didn’t work.
GP said it was due to performance anxiety so kept prescribing me viagra. Minimal effect. Still unable to enter women.
Age 27, had surgery to repair the fistula.
Ever since... erections have got worse.
I’ve been unable to have sex. Penis shrunk. I’m unable to get night wood. I’m unable to get random boners. I’m even unable to get erections in private. I can ejaculate but it stays soft.
I haven’t had night wood in about 10 years.
If I do get an erection...I have to really stimulate it and can only get partial erection at 30%. It gets bigger but stays soft. Not hard enough to enter a woman. I can ejaculate with a floppy dick and it immediately shrinks afterwards.
It’s ruined all of my relationships. Women keep leaving me and losing interest after me trying to have sex with them and failing.
I’ve been prescribed a vacuum pump to try and regrow the penis and stimulate blood. I’ve been using it for 10 mins a night every night. It works. Penis is much bigger when using it but instantly shrinks after use. It shrunk instantly even with a ring.
Latest partner, she kept kissing me, foreplay etc...but penis was unresponsive. I ejaculated even though it was soft. I was so embarrassed.
I’ve also been prescribed injections...had an injection to the penis at a clinic. I found it traumatic as it was painful. It didn’t work. Penis was only at 20% hardness.
I have no idea what to do. I’m so depressed over it. I have no problems attracting women. I just can’t have sex with them.
What is going on? It’s been like this for 10 years. I don’t have anxiety. I’m very calm with women and make sure I get them off first.
Thanks.
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