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- 01-23-2021 #21
- 01-23-2021 #22
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bro what about standing erection?
- 01-23-2021 #23
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Bro when i stand my erection goes down .
- 01-24-2021 #24
Some people are more neurotic than others, prone to negative emotions, anxiety and depression. Some people had some problems growing up, problems with self esteem and all kinds of stuff. These stuff in your head have to be dealt with so we can grow up, mature.
Addictions provide you first with a high, you haven't felt that good after using something(porn or any substance) for a long time, maybe never. You hit your brain with high amounts of dopamine, this makes you feel good. So you start using almost all day, do this for few months or a year and your brain starts to adapt to that amount of dopamine, it builds tolerance. Now it's not fun as it used to be, it may not give you a high but it can still remove a low. After that it doesn't even take away the negative emotion, here people feel trapped. It's not fun anymore, it is a full blown addiction now, you just can't stop. At this stage people probably f***ed up totally their reward circuitry so much that other things that used to feel good don't anymore(riding a bike, going out with friends, playing a sports etc.), but you have to do those other things so you can beat the addiction.
I hope I answered some questions with my very limited knowledge of psychology of addiction.
I don't watch porn because I compare myself to porn actors, I feel bad that I don't have dick that big. Not that I don't want to put in the work, I did. I came to this site 8 years ago and increased my size to where I was pleased and wanted more. But I had problems with self worth even after that, because problems with self esteem don't go away by increasing size of your dick.
I've had problems with putting on condom with the first girl I was supposed to have sex with. At the time, I did masturbate too much but I just felt bad about myself. I felt self hatred because of this for so long time. I started to binge on porn hard, lost everything in size and endurance. Anxiety crept in, I developed partial ED and PreE. Got sick and sh*t.
Porn addiction wasn't sole reason for ED, for me at least. It's combination of shame, self esteem issues, body image issues, avoiding responsibilities which results in stress and addictiveness of porn.
- 2 Weeks Ago #25
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