I'd like to share my thought on how porn effects EQ . If you have any experience or opinions then please share.
I am 22 y/o and I started watching porn when I was only 10. I believe this negatively effected my EQ as I never got morning wood or random erections anymore, so for the past 6 months I have cut out porn. After this my EQ has improved dramatically. I have been getting morning wood every other day, and I can get a full erection just by thinking about sex. While I was on porn it was becoming hard to get an erection standing up, but now it's practically a bar of steel. Additionally I feel way more confident and happier now that I've quit porn. Sidenote: You can masturbate without watching porn.
So recently I've been thinking about the reasons porn destroys EQ and I've come up with this list. Please comment on what you think. If you have any additional reason then I will add it to the list.
1) Ruins mental/ psychological stimuli
Porn raises the requirement for what kind of mental stimuli you need. The timeline for excessive porn users shows that overtime many people watch progressively more extreme/ unordinary porn. Every step you take down this road makes it harder to get erections for less extreme types of mental stimuli. Maybe all it use to take was a pair of boobs, but now getting turned on requires some complicated sexual ritual that is perpetuated through pornography. This sexual ritual is so complicated that doggy style with your wife now no longer gets you 100% hard and erections you do get quickly evaporate.
If you're a boob guy like me, then maybe you've noticed that you need bigger and bigger porn boobs to get an erection. What use to seem like big beautiful milkers now seem small because of how much jumbo bumbo titties that you've looking at daily.
2) Destroys confidence
Porn is really bad for sexual moral. Jerking off someone desirable getting banged by another dude is essentially the role of the cuck. I recently downloaded bumble and just got asked yesterday to be a third in someone's relationship. This seems to now happen whenever I download dating apps. I often see profiles of couples looking for a "bull." I always decline because that's pretty weird, but I think it's evident of a trend in our society. Young men are watching porn and it's turning them into submissive cucks that make Tinder accounts for their girlfriends.
When watching porn women will fake orgasms and will drive this message into you head that you need to be 8+ inches and on steroids to please a women. The pornstars moan as they give hand jobs, and act/ say things that normal women don't say or do. This delegitimizes your performance in the bedroom when you view sexual interactions through the lens of porn. Because, porn creates feelings of inadequacy it becomes sexually demoralizing and thus hard to get an erection. Your mindset needs to be in the right place or getting an erection becomes neigh impossible.
3) Poor habit building
Every day following the routine of Porn then Erection then Masturbate then Orgasm creates a bad habit. You are training yourself to only get erections in a very specific and methodical way. Psychologically this is similar to ringing a bell to let your dog know its time to feed. The dog will eventually begin salivating just from the sound of the bell even if food is not present. A similar effect happens to you when you watch porn. You train yourself to only get an erection to a very specific methodical process. Furthermore, watching porn from the safety of your bedroom or bathroom will make you too nervous to perform sexual acts with a partner. Before I quit porn I always felt nervous the first few times I was with someone new, and it would become difficult to get an erection and orgasm those first few times. Porn creates a trained atmosphere of safety by loneness which will leave you ill equipped to get erections.
4) Gives unrealistic standards of beauty
When searching on the internet you can find the ideal woman. Red heads with big tits are probably 1 in 2,000 people but if that's what you've grown to enjoy then it will become harder (no pun intended) to get an erection from women expressing other physical characteristics that you would otherwise find beautiful. You can easily find 10/10 women on the Internet to jerk off to, but guess what??? you can't get a 10/10 woman. Maybe you can get an 8 or a 9 but if you keep fapping to 10/10 then those 9/10 and 8/10 will not be as visually stimulating as they otherwise would be. And if you're humping a 6 or 7 then these mildly pretty girls won't come close to the beautiful women that you daily bust to. Essential higher and often unobtainable standards of beauty lead to numbed visual stimuli components of an erection.
I am 22 y/o and I started watching porn when I was only 10. I believe this negatively effected my EQ as I never got morning wood or random erections anymore, so for the past 6 months I have cut out porn. After this my EQ has improved dramatically. I have been getting morning wood every other day, and I can get a full erection just by thinking about sex. While I was on porn it was becoming hard to get an erection standing up, but now it's practically a bar of steel. Additionally I feel way more confident and happier now that I've quit porn. Sidenote: You can masturbate without watching porn.
So recently I've been thinking about the reasons porn destroys EQ and I've come up with this list. Please comment on what you think. If you have any additional reason then I will add it to the list.
1) Ruins mental/ psychological stimuli
Porn raises the requirement for what kind of mental stimuli you need. The timeline for excessive porn users shows that overtime many people watch progressively more extreme/ unordinary porn. Every step you take down this road makes it harder to get erections for less extreme types of mental stimuli. Maybe all it use to take was a pair of boobs, but now getting turned on requires some complicated sexual ritual that is perpetuated through pornography. This sexual ritual is so complicated that doggy style with your wife now no longer gets you 100% hard and erections you do get quickly evaporate.
If you're a boob guy like me, then maybe you've noticed that you need bigger and bigger porn boobs to get an erection. What use to seem like big beautiful milkers now seem small because of how much jumbo bumbo titties that you've looking at daily.
2) Destroys confidence
Porn is really bad for sexual moral. Jerking off someone desirable getting banged by another dude is essentially the role of the cuck. I recently downloaded bumble and just got asked yesterday to be a third in someone's relationship. This seems to now happen whenever I download dating apps. I often see profiles of couples looking for a "bull." I always decline because that's pretty weird, but I think it's evident of a trend in our society. Young men are watching porn and it's turning them into submissive cucks that make Tinder accounts for their girlfriends.
When watching porn women will fake orgasms and will drive this message into you head that you need to be 8+ inches and on steroids to please a women. The pornstars moan as they give hand jobs, and act/ say things that normal women don't say or do. This delegitimizes your performance in the bedroom when you view sexual interactions through the lens of porn. Because, porn creates feelings of inadequacy it becomes sexually demoralizing and thus hard to get an erection. Your mindset needs to be in the right place or getting an erection becomes neigh impossible.
3) Poor habit building
Every day following the routine of Porn then Erection then Masturbate then Orgasm creates a bad habit. You are training yourself to only get erections in a very specific and methodical way. Psychologically this is similar to ringing a bell to let your dog know its time to feed. The dog will eventually begin salivating just from the sound of the bell even if food is not present. A similar effect happens to you when you watch porn. You train yourself to only get an erection to a very specific methodical process. Furthermore, watching porn from the safety of your bedroom or bathroom will make you too nervous to perform sexual acts with a partner. Before I quit porn I always felt nervous the first few times I was with someone new, and it would become difficult to get an erection and orgasm those first few times. Porn creates a trained atmosphere of safety by loneness which will leave you ill equipped to get erections.
4) Gives unrealistic standards of beauty
When searching on the internet you can find the ideal woman. Red heads with big tits are probably 1 in 2,000 people but if that's what you've grown to enjoy then it will become harder (no pun intended) to get an erection from women expressing other physical characteristics that you would otherwise find beautiful. You can easily find 10/10 women on the Internet to jerk off to, but guess what??? you can't get a 10/10 woman. Maybe you can get an 8 or a 9 but if you keep fapping to 10/10 then those 9/10 and 8/10 will not be as visually stimulating as they otherwise would be. And if you're humping a 6 or 7 then these mildly pretty girls won't come close to the beautiful women that you daily bust to. Essential higher and often unobtainable standards of beauty lead to numbed visual stimuli components of an erection.
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