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    Hi guys,

    This is my first post here.

    I am a 35 yr old guy that abused my sexual function by getting off to online porn for many years. My only symptom though is weak erection. That's pretty much it.

    One thing I have noticed is that I get good nocturnal erections but they just go away as I wake up. And the whole day I get no erections at all. If I have some sexual thoughts I will get a very very very weak erection that will not sustain. (not good for sex)

    I am wondering why I would get nocturnal erections (some times strong enough to wake me up) but nothing when I am awake? This is very puzzling.

    Can you guys offer any thoughts on this?

    thanks,
    HCP

  • #2
    Hi HCP,

    Because you can have erection in the night mean you don't have any biological problem. Don't consult a urologist. This is clearly psychological. You can use psychotherapy. And you have to stop watching porn. There is a strong connection between porn and ED. If you watch porn compulsively It will probably be very hard to stop. I recommend again psychological help. I can tell you that because I have also abused porn in the past.

    MaxP

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    • #3
      Thank you Max.

      Are you sure it is not biological? I am not getting day time erections at all (but get nocturnal erections). I thought I messed up my hormones. I do have low T anyway..

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      • #4
        Maybe you should try doing kegels. They improve erection quality, look them up in exercises on this site. You will probably have to start off light so you don't tire yourself out, if you start heavy it may temporarily make your EQ worse, but if you do it in moderation i'm sure it will help. Best of luck

        Yours,

        Frosty
        BPEL= 6.0 + 0.2
        EG (MID)= 4.45 +.05
        *Short Term Goal*
        EG (MID)=5.0

        *GOAL*
        BPEL= 6.2
        EG (MID)= 6.0

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        • #5
          Try going 2 weeks without masturbating. Usually fixes every ed problem I have come across.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by phil88 View Post
            Try going 2 weeks without masturbating. Usually fixes every ed problem I have come across.
            This is good too :]
            BPEL= 6.0 + 0.2
            EG (MID)= 4.45 +.05
            *Short Term Goal*
            EG (MID)=5.0

            *GOAL*
            BPEL= 6.2
            EG (MID)= 6.0

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            • #7
              Originally posted by phil88 View Post
              Try going 2 weeks without masturbating. Usually fixes every ed problem I have come across.
              If Masturbation does that, does the same issues occur is you naturally f*ck a few times a week?

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              • #8
                I think if you're busy busy busy during the day, you're body just doesn't have time to pop a random woody. Then when you rest at night, your body just starts making up for lost time.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Hockey_NY View Post
                  If Masturbation does that, does the same issues occur is you naturally f*ck a few times a week?
                  lol yeah, I guess I should say try not to ejaculate for two weeks, but if the problem is ed there probably is not much sex going on.

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                  • #10
                    If Masturbation does that, does the same issues occur is you naturally f*ck a few times a week?
                    Fucking a few times a week shouldn't be a problem because you're accustoming your penis to respond to women as opposed to 2D images on a screen + your hand.

                    After I have good sex I usually have amazing hang the same day and the next, in addition to getting spontaneous erections. But the sex has to be good. If the sex is good, then as long as the memories are fresh in my mind I can usually get an erection by just recalling the events.

                    However, if I binge on porn after one of these great fuck sessions then my experience with porn supplants my experience with the real woman, and the destructive, ED-inducing cycle begins all over again. I'll add that my hang is terrible after masturbating.

                    Most on here suffer from psychological ED that has been induced by years of pornography and masturbation. I'm sure that most of us can get it up on a daily basis, but only when we're by ourselves and only when we're watching porn.

                    If we had been fucking women this entire time instead of viewing porn, we'd be able to get it up every day as well, but not for porn+wristina but for flesh-and-blood women.

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                    • #11
                      Thanks for your thoughts, FM

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by schlittle
                        Hi hcp

                        Who said you had low t?

                        Have you been tested?

                        If so, what was your reading?
                        I had a blood test last yr and my T reading came out like this:

                        Testosterone, Total = 315.3 (241 - 850 ng/dL)

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by FrancisMacomber View Post
                          Fucking a few times a week shouldn't be a problem because you're accustoming your penis to respond to women as opposed to 2D images on a screen + your hand.

                          After I have good sex I usually have amazing hang the same day and the next, in addition to getting spontaneous erections. But the sex has to be good. If the sex is good, then as long as the memories are fresh in my mind I can usually get an erection by just recalling the events.

                          However, if I binge on porn after one of these great fuck sessions then my experience with porn supplants my experience with the real woman, and the destructive, ED-inducing cycle begins all over again. I'll add that my hang is terrible after masturbating.

                          Most on here suffer from psychological ED that has been induced by years of pornography and masturbation. I'm sure that most of us can get it up on a daily basis, but only when we're by ourselves and only when we're watching porn.

                          If we had been fucking women this entire time instead of viewing porn, we'd be able to get it up every day as well, but not for porn+wristina but for flesh-and-blood women.
                          Francis I agree with each and every word of your post. I know for sure that I ruined myself by getting off to online porn for years and years.

                          What is the ticket out of this misery though? One obvious thing is of course to cut out porn and masturbation. But I am just wondering if that alone can bring back my body to normal functioning.

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                          • #14
                            Francis I agree with each and every word of your post. I know for sure that I ruined myself by getting off to online porn for years and years.

                            What is the ticket out of this misery though? One obvious thing is of course to cut out porn and masturbation. But I am just wondering if that alone can bring back my body to normal functioning.
                            I can only speak for myself, but laying off the porn and masturbation and losing myself in the labial folds of a vagina has always succeeded in restoring my masculinity and virility.

                            I'm on day four now of no P&M and I'm starting to get random erections during the day, amazing morning wood, and I've even started to dream about women again.

                            And that's only day four! Now the hard part will be holding out until I can get some pussy, which, due to my busy schedule, won't happen until next week. So I still have about five more days ahead of me of no P&M. I hope I can make it.

                            You should also note that I've been abusing myself for 14 years now, and in that time I've sometimes stooped very low to get my kicks. I'm mentioning this because I want to stress that if I can be cured of psychological ED after only a week or so of no P&M, then just about anybody can.

                            But I'm also natural (uncut), and my glans is very sensitive when my penis is erect, so that precious foreskin definitely helps in preserving the sensitivity of a man's penis. I think I'd have a much harder time with ED if I were cut and my glans were numb.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by FrancisMacomber View Post
                              I can only speak for myself, but laying off the porn and masturbation and losing myself in the labial folds of a vagina has always succeeded in restoring my masculinity and virility.

                              I'm on day four now of no P&M and I'm starting to get random erections during the day, amazing morning wood, and I've even started to dream about women again.

                              And that's only day four! Now the hard part will be holding out until I can get some pussy, which, due to my busy schedule, won't happen until next week. So I still have about five more days ahead of me of no P&M. I hope I can make it.

                              You should also note that I've been abusing myself for 14 years now, and in that time I've sometimes stooped very low to get my kicks. I'm mentioning this because I want to stress that if I can be cured of psychological ED after only a week or so of no P&M, then just about anybody can.

                              But I'm also natural (uncut), and my glans is very sensitive when my penis is erect, so that precious foreskin definitely helps in preserving the sensitivity of a man's penis. I think I'd have a much harder time with ED if I were cut and my glans were numb.
                              But Francis I cannot have sex because I can't get an erection... I get nocturnal erections but not day time ones when I am wide awake

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