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    I get totally turned on with my new girlfriend and have heaps of pre-cum (which for your interest she loves! ) however I can't maintain an erection with her which she doesn't love ... though I can still cum with a semi / flaccid penis.
    So can you still be aroused with heaps of pre cum and still not achieve or maintain an erection? I'm otherwise fit and healthy, 38 years old, good diet / exercise... though I have been masturbating to porn most days for the last 2 years or so... I'm hoping this is the cause and not penis damage... I have just stopped porn and I'm now on day 4 as well as starting kegals and rev kegals...
    Any help is greatly appreciated

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    yep per ...
    Good thinking
    and yer correct

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Prezzy View Post
      I get totally turned on with my new girlfriend and have heaps of pre-cum (which for your interest she loves! ) however I can't maintain an erection with her which she doesn't love ... though I can still cum with a semi / flaccid penis.
      So can you still be aroused with heaps of pre cum and still not achieve or maintain an erection? I'm otherwise fit and healthy, 38 years old, good diet / exercise... though I have been masturbating to porn most days for the last 2 years or so... I'm hoping this is the cause and not penis damage... I have just stopped porn and I'm now on day 4 as well as starting kegals and rev kegals...
      Any help is greatly appreciated
      Been to the doctors for basic tests? Hormones etc?

      EDIT
      Is this just a problem when you are with her? Does everything work ok when you are alone?

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      • #4
        Thanks for the input guys

        Things work 'OK' when I am using porn... although this has been getting weaker lately too... I get morning wood though this is weaker too.
        I haven't been to the docs as I am working overseas at the moment... though I have been thinking about making a trip home to do this if necessary.
        If I was hormone deficient then I wouldn't get turned on anyway... would I??

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Prezzy View Post
          Thanks for the input guys

          Things work 'OK' when I am using porn... although this has been getting weaker lately too... I get morning wood though this is weaker too.
          I haven't been to the docs as I am working overseas at the moment... though I have been thinking about making a trip home to do this if necessary.
          If I was hormone deficient then I wouldn't get turned on anyway... would I??
          There are so many factors, I think it is hard to say! I am no expert but I'm sure at least some people with hormone imbalances get turned on but no erections?

          They can rule out so many things quickly, another example maybe diabetes. I would go and see a doc, and they may be able to help.

          Stopping porn, and doing kegels and reverse kegels is good I think. If things work better when you are on your own, I think there is some kind of phycological element, even if it is not the main issue, maybe performance anxiety or something? I don't know anything about this but may he worth searching the forum for some info?

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          • #6
            Originally posted by ED 1987 View Post
            There are so many factors, I think it is hard to say! I am no expert but I'm sure at least some people with hormone imbalances get turned on but no erections?

            They can rule out so many things quickly, another example maybe diabetes. I would go and see a doc, and they may be able to help.

            Stopping porn, and doing kegels and reverse kegels is good I think. If things work better when you are on your own, I think there is some kind of phycological element, even if it is not the main issue, maybe performance anxiety or something? I don't know anything about this but may he worth searching the forum for some info?
            i think it can have many reasons and Porn can lead to psychological issues and thus a weak erection...since u hav been watching porn for a long time like me, i think it takes time for the brain to adjust..so just keep away from porn and dont masturbate...also as ed1987 suggested, u should do some tests to make sure you dont have harmone or lack of testestrone issues....i did my tests and all were clear...
            here i found an interested article about pre-cum issue....read it...
            Alright, I sent you an e-mail yesterday but I don't think that I clearly explained the problem completely so I just wanted to try it once more. I am 19 years old and haven't had sex yet and my problem is whenever I get aroused or make out with a girl or
            Grind (dance close rubbing against her) etc. my penis gets semi-hard to hard and a little bit of semen comes out and then it goes soft. Then it seems that when I want it to get hard a little later for intercourse it won't and I have to make up some excuse. My questions are:

            Why do little increments of semen come out of my penis when I get aroused?
            Is it normal?
            Is that the reason that I can't get hard for intercourse?
            And what should I do?

            Please e-mail me with you response. Thanks



            Generally speaking, a crystal clear fluid coming out your penis is considered Pre-cum, not semen. However, you may have sperm and semen leaking out into the precum - the
            lubricant from Cowper's glands. If semen/sperm leaks out of your prostate's ejaculation control valve, you may feel tired or have a weak erection after that. The parasympathetic sexual nerve powers the security of the ejaculation control valve.

            A weak parasympathetic prostate nerve will result in semen leakage, weak erection and premature ejaculation. A weak parasympathetic bladder nerve will cause wet bed; A weak parasympathetic kidney nerve may elevate blood pressure and reduce kidney functions. A weak parasympathetic heart nerve will elevate heart rate; A weak parasympathetic liver nerve will slow down the liver's Cytochrome P450 detoxification.

            There are couple factors causing your problem:

            1. Over-masturbation or over-ejaculation.
            2. Genetic weakness of the parasympathetic function - a kid frequently wetting the bed is likely to develop this problem.
            3. Excessive testosterone or DHT bounded in the prostate's hormonal receptors, resulting in prostate over-sizing.

            The solution is taking and eating a lot of soy products or walnuts. You may also try if you like but it is mainly for older men. If you want to use it, use only half the suggested dosage. You have to keep the parasympathetic nervous system recharged. The parasympathetic function restores bioenergy into internal organs and their associated parasympathetic nerves to support the organ function. The parasympathetic sexual nerve has two jobs: Securing the ejaculation control valve and actuating erection.
            source:
            Pegasus
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            Last edited by Pegasus; 07-21-2011, 07:21 PM.

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            • #7
              No commercial links sk, mods can mistake you for a spammer if you do this.

              Also "Dr" Lin is not well regarded by me ,but that is another issue.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                No commercial links sk, mods can mistake you for a spammer if you do this.

                Also "Dr" Lin is not well regarded by me ,but that is another issue.
                i was not aware that it was a commercial link... i was just sharing one of the possible reasons for pre-cum issue which i read in that website...also it is not only this dr.lin but many other relate this pre-cum issue to weak parasympathetic nerve ...I have never used any commercial sex improvement products in my life ..
                thanks for making me aware of it though

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                • #9
                  Thanks slaveking

                  Morning wood was a little better this morning I think and I was able to make myself quite hard just with my hand and feeling... though similar to you it's difficult not having images of my fav porn star from popping in my head. A lot of pre-cum, though I think now this is due to just being horny and wanting to make myself come... which normally I would just do once a day at least...
                  From the email you sent I think the main factor is too much masturbation and porn messing up the whole 'system'
                  I'm determined to stick to the program though and will try the erection tea, thanks for that.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Prezzy View Post
                    Thanks slaveking

                    Morning wood was a little better this morning I think and I was able to make myself quite hard just with my hand and feeling... though similar to you it's difficult not having images of my fav porn star from popping in my head. A lot of pre-cum, though I think now this is due to just being horny and wanting to make myself come... which normally I would just do once a day at least...
                    From the email you sent I think the main factor is too much masturbation and porn messing up the whole 'system'
                    I'm determined to stick to the program though and will try the erection tea, thanks for that.
                    the fact that u wer able to make urself hard urself means u can get hard wd ur girl frnd...it is just our mind that is programmed..and also excessive masterbation and porn that caused some of our nerves or muscles weak...masturbation or porn is not a problem when they are performed in limit but anything that is overdone can cause problem....
                    i also read another article that said pre-cum issue can be solved with pelvic floor exercises and massage the area...so keep doing standard kegels and reverse kegels along with massage on pelvic floor area....this is also suggested by pegasus so he can help you with exercises...you can refer to his posts to learn more about standard kegels and reverse kegels....

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