Hi I'm Luke and I've posted before about my Venous Leak which was diagnosed through Ultrasound about 2-3 months ago. Before I get into the main thrust of this situation I'm asking for advice on...I should just explain how the leak affects me.
- I can get and maintain a good 100% erection with stimulation from a girl. Lately and worringly that may be dropping to 70-80% (I think this is just recent anxiety issues)- The stimulation must be constant
- any breaks or changes of position will quickly lead me to worry and thus lose my erection (I would give it 10-15 seconds)
- Standing erections are near on impossible.
- My morning erections have been increasing, but fade the minute I even notice they're there.
- I do wake in the night and notice I have an erection (It's funny, I think I've trained my brain to monitor my erections on some sub-conscious level at night, i think about it so effing much)
- Re: Masturbation - Once again I can get 100% but only if I'm really horny and it would take visual stimulation ie: porn. However, again, this needs constant stimulation and even then, every few seconds or so it will start to fade. meh.
So now, i'll try and keep it real brief cos I hate having to read endless lines of text myself. Sorry!
I have a girlfriend. Smart, beautiful, dedicated and caring. However, as she lives far from me, I have to dedicate ALL my free time to her thus forfeiting a social life and my friends think I'm a massive flop now! PUNN INTENDED! I really think I would have split up with her by now in the search for someone who lives closer and who is much more relaxed and chilled. Someone who will let me have time with my friends too! But I'm scared to. I feel like if I do, I run the risk of not finding anyone, of constantly disappointing them in bed. Even though my gf claims I have no problem and that she is fully satisfied by me. What if it gets worse? It most likely will right?!
This ED issue is really holding me back. Cialis works a treat for me, but I don't want to go on the one-a-day tabs as have been prescribed to me because I don't want to become dependent on them.
What would you do? Play it safe and commit your whole life to that one person? Or be brave and grab life by the balls?
AND IS THERE ANY HOPE SCIENCE WILL SOLVE VENOUS LEAKS!!???! Thanks guys
- I can get and maintain a good 100% erection with stimulation from a girl. Lately and worringly that may be dropping to 70-80% (I think this is just recent anxiety issues)- The stimulation must be constant
- any breaks or changes of position will quickly lead me to worry and thus lose my erection (I would give it 10-15 seconds)
- Standing erections are near on impossible.
- My morning erections have been increasing, but fade the minute I even notice they're there.
- I do wake in the night and notice I have an erection (It's funny, I think I've trained my brain to monitor my erections on some sub-conscious level at night, i think about it so effing much)
- Re: Masturbation - Once again I can get 100% but only if I'm really horny and it would take visual stimulation ie: porn. However, again, this needs constant stimulation and even then, every few seconds or so it will start to fade. meh.
So now, i'll try and keep it real brief cos I hate having to read endless lines of text myself. Sorry!
I have a girlfriend. Smart, beautiful, dedicated and caring. However, as she lives far from me, I have to dedicate ALL my free time to her thus forfeiting a social life and my friends think I'm a massive flop now! PUNN INTENDED! I really think I would have split up with her by now in the search for someone who lives closer and who is much more relaxed and chilled. Someone who will let me have time with my friends too! But I'm scared to. I feel like if I do, I run the risk of not finding anyone, of constantly disappointing them in bed. Even though my gf claims I have no problem and that she is fully satisfied by me. What if it gets worse? It most likely will right?!
This ED issue is really holding me back. Cialis works a treat for me, but I don't want to go on the one-a-day tabs as have been prescribed to me because I don't want to become dependent on them.
What would you do? Play it safe and commit your whole life to that one person? Or be brave and grab life by the balls?
AND IS THERE ANY HOPE SCIENCE WILL SOLVE VENOUS LEAKS!!???! Thanks guys
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