HELP!!!!!! I am gonna kill myself because of my ED?

[auting82 Member Find all posts View Profile Close auting82]

This thing is destroying my life......I dont know what the cause is to my ED, but for looong time now I have been having problems mantainig rock hard erections during sex with an actual woman.
Its incredibly frustrating...I dont have the biggest cock 6" max when its rock hard, so when its just 80%, we are talking 5"to work with....5" is frekishly small and useless....I have several times avoided possible intercourses with hot women because I cant trust my cock and am basically ashamed of it.Its like I get pannick before sex becuse I always think my penis is so fucking small...shes not even gonna feel anything.
Its the bodypart I hate the most!!!

Anyways I am using an extender to try to get a bit bigger penis and have now used ti ON/OFF for like 6 months without significant results.
Ive heard that I might have used to low tension to get ny results therfore I have increased tension but I am afraid that that might have caused even worse erections though I am not sure.

I have had good and bad periods with erection quality so I dont know if my recent low quality erections are caused bacause of extender usage or something else.
I have also stopped watching porn and reduced mastrubation significantly.
The rest from porn and reduced frequency of masturbation have given me some improvement in EQ but its not continous and it varies extremely from day to day.

I am looking from some help and feedback from members here.

This has lasted for too loong now,we are talking years.........I AM DESPERATE!!!!!

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

PE is for penis health, as is a kegel routine. Extending doesn't give you strong erections, seems you haven't been looking around, time to start PE and a kegel routine and try the erection tea.

[TJM19 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TJM19]

Cut masturbation for at least a month, start taking some supplements, start doing kegels, start edging/ballooning, and change your attitude to a positive one and I bet my left nut you will get your erections back. Its been working for me so far and its only been a few short weeks.

[mvergasioin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mvergasioin]

The rest from porn and reduced frequency of masturbation have given me some improvement in EQ but its not continous and it varies extremely from day to day.

Killing yourself is not gonna fix things. If you really mean what you are saying, call or communicate with a trusted friend, relative, or suicide help line now.

But if you are just beside yourself with desperation, then stop the damaging self talk and insecurity in your head and figure out a next step plan.

If you have not had a physical in a while, get one. Then you can rule in or rule out medical issues and proceed with whatever plan is best.

If you still have morning wood. That is a good sign.

Most of all, try to stop the panicking so you can get on with a reasonable next step to fix this. You are not doomed.

[auting82 Member Find all posts View Profile Close auting82]

Killing yourself is not gonna fix things. If you really mean what you are saying, call or communicate with a trusted friend, relative, or suicide help line now.

But if you are just beside yourself with desperation, then stop the damaging self talk and insecurity in your head and figure out a next step plan.

If you have not had a physical in a while, get one. Then you can rule in or rule out medical issues and proceed with whatever plan is best.

If you still have morning wood. That is a good sign.

Most of all, try to stop the panicking so you can get on with a reasonable next step to fix this. You are not doomed.

I have been thinking about going to the doctor to see if anything is wrong with me physiclly, but I have been to embarresed to actually do it.
Also sometimes I have had really strong erections and thats when I was thinking its probably not physicall, though I cant be certain since i have not actually seen a professional.

One worrisome thins is that I have not had really hard morning wood for ages.
It could be age...I mean I am 29 years old so obviously I am no teenager, but on the other side one should not have problems with erection this erly anyways.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Could be many things, diet, overmasturbation to porn, stress, drugs, etc etc etc, like I and other people said get started on your routines.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Hey bro. Don't kill yourself. You need to find a good eq routine. Get that eq up. Also, 5 is not freakishly small lol. I am sub 5 NBP and while I feel small I am not even freakishly small. So get that through your head. Your problem is eq not size. Don't worry about size until your eq gets good.

Anyway, as for suicide. I live in that world, thinking of ending it. It is not the answer. If you want you can pm me to talk about that shit.

[secureman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close secureman]

I have been thinking about going to the doctor to see if anything is wrong with me physiclly, but I have been to embarresed to actually do it.
Also sometimes I have had really strong erections and thats when I was thinking its probably not physicall, though I cant be certain since i have not actually seen a professional.

One worrisome thins is that I have not had really hard morning wood for ages.
It could be age...I mean I am 29 years old so obviously I am no teenager, but on the other side one should not have problems with erection this erly anyways.

Okay lets go back a bit. Obviously you didn't just wake up one day and feel like this. If we go back what was the trigger point that began all of this? Perhaps it was a comment or comments someone made?

Just so you know you're not the first person who has considered ending things at some point over this issue, I was there at one point and I'm sure many others on here have been as well. Get checked but I highly doubt your erections are the result of anything physical. You said your dick is getting %80 erections but that only gives you a measley 5 inches hard. This tells me that you think your dick is only close to being big enough to satisfy a woman when it's %100 hard, that's a lot of pressure to carry. Look your almost the same age as me (I'm 28) this is not a quick fix for most of us.

[auting82 Member Find all posts View Profile Close auting82]

Could be many things, diet, overmasturbation to porn, stress, drugs, etc etc etc, like I and other people said get started on your routines.

I know taht it could be many reasons for bad EQ...I dont think its my dioet or physicall form.I am in great shape and I watch my diet.I am soon 30 but everyone gives me at least 5 yers less, actually the girl I slept with whom I met at a club did this morning.
Anyways i will try kegals....does that really improves EQ....I cant understand why, but I ll try to do them.
Is it explained anywhere how to perform kegals??

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Here is the "top 10" exercises for a hard dick

Best 10 Exercises for Hard Penis

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

If you are to the point where you are ready to kill yourself over the situation, it is time to make an appointment with a urologist. Before confirming your appointment, ask if the doctor works with patients suffering from male sexual dysfunction ( some only deal with prostate problems or urinary tract problems). Don't be embarrassed to call about ED. The uro's office deals with hundreds of ED patients a week, and the staff treats ED as a normal every day ailment.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Bro, you've been given some excellent advice in this thread. Please take it.

[auting82 Member Find all posts View Profile Close auting82]

If you are to the point where you are ready to kill yourself over the situation, it is time to make an appointment with a urologist. Before confirming your appointment, ask if the doctor works with patients suffering from male sexual dysfunction ( some only deal with prostate problems or urinary tract problems). Don't be embarrassed to call about ED. The uro's office deals with hundreds of ED patients a week, and the staff treats ED as a normal every day ailment.

Firstly...thanks for all the supportive replies...I realli appreciate it!...

I know I have to do something, I have been trying to supress this problem for years now.
Something changed this saturday night when I took this girl home and tried to have sex wtih her.
I had been drinking quite a lot this night but I didnt feel drunk when we were about to do it.
I just managed to get 50-80% erect and the glans was soft, not like in a firm normal erection.
I know because I sometimes get those good hard erections, and thats when I cn actually measure my penis up to 6".

Anyways it was extremely depressing when i just couldnt keep the erection and had to pull out, ...I was sitting in on the edge of the bed when she fell a sleep I wanted to open the balkony door and jump.
Sam thing happened in the morning...I was horny but my penis was not fully erect, its such a strange feeling!!!!
We were just lieng ijh bed and kissing and afterwards we went out to eat some breakfast.
My balls were hurting so bad I couldnt even sit, so I went to the toilet to mastrubate and realese some pressure.
I ejculated half a liter of seamen.....never seen so much in my life....crazy.
I just cant figure out how I can be so horny but my penis just wont get erect.
I suspect somethin might be wrong with the blodd pressure in to the penis, something like a veneous leakage.
But thing that confuses me is that siome days the erections are perfectand everything works perfectly.
I just cant trust my tool....its completely unreliable.

[secureman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close secureman]

Firstly...thanks for all the supportive replies...I realli appreciate it!...

I know I have to do something, I have been trying to supress this problem for years now.
Something changed this saturday night when I took this girl home and tried to have sex wtih her.
I had been drinking quite a lot this night but I didnt feel drunk when we were about to do it.
I just managed to get 50-80% erect and the glans was soft, not like in a firm normal erection.
I know because I sometimes get those good hard erections, and thats when I cn actually measure my penis up to 6".

Anyways it was extremely depressing when i just couldnt keep the erection and had to pull out, ...I was sitting in on the edge of the bed when she fell a sleep I wanted to open the balkony door and jump.
Sam thing happened in the morning...I was horny but my penis was not fully erect, its such a strange feeling!!!!
We were just lieng ijh bed and kissing and afterwards we went out to eat some breakfast.
My balls were hurting so bad I couldnt even sit, so I went to the toilet to mastrubate and realese some pressure.
I ejculated half a liter of seamen.....never seen so much in my life....crazy.
I just cant figure out how I can be so horny but my penis just wont get erect.
I suspect somethin might be wrong with the blodd pressure in to the penis, something like a veneous leakage.
But thing that confuses me is that siome days the erections are perfectand everything works perfectly.
I just cant trust my tool....its completely unreliable.

Re-read what you just wrote. In reality this is great news. Your dick works fine it's just your mind that needs to relax and interpret sex in a new way. It's meant for enjoyment not anxiety. Again your dick works fine this is great news! You know how many of us if not all of us on here have had this happen at some point with a girl, it's very common. Congradulations your dick is like the majority in society pal.

[Irishfan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Irishfan]

How old r u? You may want to get your testosterone levels checked. This was my problem. But I was only working with 4 in at about 75%. If you are over weight that could also play a factor. Diet is very important.