Hey guys. I gave some of the same information in the introduction post, but I decided that I wanted to make a new post for this.
Basically I am having some serious psychological blocks going on here. How do I know that they're psychological? I've had 2 or 3 doctor checkups and everyone one has come out clean. Nothing bad in the bloodwork and I'm healthy otherwise. I frequently wake up with hardons that are rock solid. I'm 34.
This is one of the most frustrating things that I've ever dealt with. I know that a lot of my problems had to stem from my ex-wife of 11 years. Before meeting my fiancé now, she was the only person that I had ever had sex with and she had a lot of hang-ups and inhibitions. I loved her so I stuck with her, but 11 years of programming is a long time.
Take this morning as an example. My fiancé and I are going at it just fine, but she can't get into it because she thinks her daughter is in the other room and can hear. No big deal, I say, so we get dressed to get some breakfast and wait for her daughter to leave the house to go golfing, and discover that she wasn't there to begin with. We get back to bed to continue and mr happy here is out of commission for good. Nothing can get him up. All I did was stop and walk to the kitchen and back! It pisses me off so much because I can feel that I can get an erection, but I can also feel something in my head stopping it.
I must also say that I'm so glad to have a fiancé who is patient to help me through this and also be smoking hot at the same time.
So this is why I'm here. I've ordered the book, but I don't have it yet. I've seen enough info in the beginner forums that I can get started today - especially from PEsuccessGuy. It is my hope that doing this and working diligently will get me off of the need to use Viagra. I'm hoping to get some support from anyone here, because it's scary and frustrating at the same time when the little guy doesn't do anything. You can feel despair pretty quick.
Thanks for reading.
Basically I am having some serious psychological blocks going on here. How do I know that they're psychological? I've had 2 or 3 doctor checkups and everyone one has come out clean. Nothing bad in the bloodwork and I'm healthy otherwise. I frequently wake up with hardons that are rock solid. I'm 34.
This is one of the most frustrating things that I've ever dealt with. I know that a lot of my problems had to stem from my ex-wife of 11 years. Before meeting my fiancé now, she was the only person that I had ever had sex with and she had a lot of hang-ups and inhibitions. I loved her so I stuck with her, but 11 years of programming is a long time.
Take this morning as an example. My fiancé and I are going at it just fine, but she can't get into it because she thinks her daughter is in the other room and can hear. No big deal, I say, so we get dressed to get some breakfast and wait for her daughter to leave the house to go golfing, and discover that she wasn't there to begin with. We get back to bed to continue and mr happy here is out of commission for good. Nothing can get him up. All I did was stop and walk to the kitchen and back! It pisses me off so much because I can feel that I can get an erection, but I can also feel something in my head stopping it.
I must also say that I'm so glad to have a fiancé who is patient to help me through this and also be smoking hot at the same time.
So this is why I'm here. I've ordered the book, but I don't have it yet. I've seen enough info in the beginner forums that I can get started today - especially from PEsuccessGuy. It is my hope that doing this and working diligently will get me off of the need to use Viagra. I'm hoping to get some support from anyone here, because it's scary and frustrating at the same time when the little guy doesn't do anything. You can feel despair pretty quick.
Thanks for reading.
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