- 12-30-2012 #1
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- Dec 2012
hi guys.....im new here,so i better explain abit of background.
im 37 years old and was in a 12 year relationship up until 2 years ago.in that relationship for the last 8 years of it i was having sex with my partner once a year......she kept telling me she wasnt in the mood all the time and i put up with it,remaining totally faithful.
i did however watch alot of porn as i had a high sex drive and obviously wasnt getting any satisfaction from my partner,had to release the frustration somewhere!!!
so i short,no sex from partner.......a hell of alot of porn consumption.
now at the start of being single again 2 years ago,i started meeting new women.....met about 4 or 5 over the same amount of months....had times when i couldnt get hard but in most cases i felt horny and i was able to "get it up" so to speak.......then i thought id caught an std as i started noticing redness around the head of my penis......got checked out and all was fine,plus i think i was just worried as i didnt have to worry prevously about catching any type of thing.
around this time....i noticed that i didnt seem to have the same libido as i used to have,nothing was turning me on.....i was seeing a girl and i didnt have any type of intrest in sleeping with her.....i'd do it very occasionally and even then id have quite a few problems trying to get hard.....if i could at all that is.
to the present day now.........ive now been seeing a girl for the past 4 months,ive had major problems getting aroused with her,maintaining an erection....she wants to sleep with me all the time.........she's very sexy,i find her attractive....she will do anything i want in the bedroom.....pretty much what most men would love....and dont get me wrong,i do too.........its just i know about 2 or 3 years ago id have been in the bedroom non stop with her and have no problem getting an erection......whereas now,ive not really got any intrest and when we do i find it really difficult to get an erection or if i do its hard to sustain it.
what i have noticed though is that if i really concentrate on very dirty thoughts running through my head,i seem to be able to sustain it abit better,but then im not even thinking about what im doing!!
and finally.....my penis sensitivity seems to have really diminished over the past year and a half......light touching does nothing,oral sex nothing and even down to sometimes penentration not doing anything,as in i cant feel nothing........also ive noticed that if i do get an erection,either masturbating or through intercourse they are nowhere near as hard as they used to be.
but i get morning wood,and they are rock hard.........well,for abit anyway............confused.com!!!
any help is much appreciated guys......and im sorry it was so long
Last edited by fatshady; 12-30-2012 at 12:13 PM.
- 12-30-2012 #2
I would imagine it is a lot down to watching porn excessively, there is a thread here called Anti Porn you should get some good info there. The problem is most likely being too accustomed to watching women in porn and getting too used to your grip from masturbation. My tip is to quit porn imediately, start JP90s routine here and you will be on the way to successStarting Point: September 2010: 6.5" x 5"
Goal: 8" x 6"
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