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    I am looking for clarification on this topic, specially from the senior members. I noticed in the threads that there seems to be a consensus that masturbation needs to be avoided in order to improve EQ or help avoid ED. My questions is this and I am hoping the answer helps not only me but the newbies too.

    If frequent masturbation affects EQ/ED, doesn't is stand to reason that frequent intercourse will do the same?

    If no, why isn't it the same? I have read many threads here and this is a point that is not clear. I seen posts where members are told to avoid masturbating but encouraged to have intercourse or fellatio. Is this a physiological issue or a psychological one?

    Hope I am not asking a stupid female question, I truly want to know so that others and I can benefit from my lack of knowledge on this topic.
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    Number one my dear we're guys; we always encourage each other to have sex. Besides if I told someone here to lay off sex to help improve hi eq that if he did it well then he's too stupid to get laid and therefore doesn't have an issue.

    Now if we have a member who masturbates 4 times a day and then he can't be great for his lady that night we tell him to cut it out. The penis does fatigue but of course we guys don't think that way. Masturbation will not cut down on eq unless you overdo it and then you get tired. Masturbation is not a bad thing unless it's overdone and it really doesn't cause ed at all. In fact we have many posts of guys claiming to have ed but yet they still masturbate. Boggles my mind!

    So in short masturbation does not affect eq unless overdone and it doesn't cause ed. I have heard though it can cause you to grow hair on your palms and blindness when you're young.
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    • #3
      In our repressed society guys get head issues about masturbation.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by MrsLooking4more View Post
        If frequent masturbation affects EQ/ED, doesn't is stand to reason that frequent intercourse will do the same?
        Yes. A good question coming surprisingly from a female about male potency. That was a good analysis of this issue, one which is indeed very foggy for many guys. It could take a whole day breaking it down but I will be as brief as I can. The answer to your exact question is both NO and YES. The NO has to do with "over-masturbation" while the YES has to do with "over-ejaculation" (which comes along with the former). Note the emphasis on the "over" part. Its critical.

        Lets start with over-masturbation (O-M). O-M affects EQ/ED in a number of ways. One of them is desensitization (physical and mental). O-M with a poor technique on a "very regular" basis creates physical desensitization of the penis to the non pressurized feeling of a real life vagina which is not as tough as a tight hand grip or a pillow cover. This can create problems like lack/loss of sensation while in a pussy leading to loss/lack of erection. It can also lead to delayed/lack of ejaculation in a vagina, thus you see some men taking out their dicks and "hammering" them in order to ejaculate. On a flip side, premature ejaculation is a common effect of this O-M as most guys whip it quick to cum as quick as possible (ESPECIALLY with porn) so they can move on with other things, weakening their ejaculatory response/control which in turn can lead to all sorts of problems. The mental aspect I think is self explanatory. O-M conditions the brain and SRC to a hand and porn thus a real life woman leads to a a subdued SRC which leads to a subdued erection (poor/lack of EQ)..... This is the NO part of the answer to your question (has to do with masturbation alone).

        The YES part to the answer deals with over-ejaculation (O-E). Both O-M and too much sex create O-E. The negative effects of O-E have to do with chemical imbalance in the body created by too much release of hormones and chemicals like dopamine that are associated with ejaculation. This chemical imbalance also in turn leads to other problems like fatigue (this is huge) as well as painful balls/erection and "funnier" issues like hair loss. But can also lead to fatigued penis where you find it hard to get fully erect and long refractionary period or where semen just "dribbles" out of the dick e.t.c Thats why you see some men with limp dicks at the second round. I call it "horny but tired".

        ^^ So that's it in a nutshell. Over masturbation has a string of effects that lower/impair erection as outlined above. Especially if this O-M is done in conjunction with "porn abuse". Then you have a BIG problem. So we can say that over ejaculation is a subset of over masturbation. However, it is a subset that can also cut into too much sex as well since it still involves over ejaculation. So the effects of over ejaculation seen in masturbation can also be seen in too much sex. So that's why the answer to your question has both a NO and YES.

        Hope this gives you a rough idea.

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        • #5
          Most guys would find it difficult to obtain too much actual sex.

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          • #6
            Thank you for the replies! Love the different perspectives.
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            • #7
              Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
              Most guys would find it difficult to obtain too much actual sex.
              Well Sir, I can honestly say I have been there. It was difficult but I made it through. Thank goodness I was a lot younger at the time. I just don't know what I am gonna do about it now since history seems to like repeating itself.
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              • #8
                Well...I like litopita take on masturbation.

                I'm not sure the male body will allow you to have too much sex. As long as the body is willing I don't feel you can have too much sex. While I guess you could call the penis not rising to the occasion ED...I feel it would depend when was the last time you sex. If you've had sex twice a day with at least an EQ of 8 for 5 days in a row for example and on day 6 you can't get it up!?!?!? That's the body says we're done for a while. That's not ED, that fatigue.

                I know from personal experince that you can masturbate with a very low EQ and still cum...so that is my $0.02 on it..
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                • #9
                  Whats the point of having any EQ if you dont use it!!1

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Looking4more View Post
                    Well Sir, I can honestly say I have been there. It was difficult but I made it through. Thank goodness I was a lot younger at the time. I just don't know what I am gonna do about it now since history seems to like repeating itself.
                    I have been there and want to go back to there, but alas.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by SeaCock View Post
                      Well...I like litopita take on masturbation.

                      I'm not sure the male body will allow you to have too much sex. As long as the body is willing I don't feel you can have too much sex. While I guess you could call the penis not rising to the occasion ED...I feel it would depend when was the last time you sex. If you've had sex twice a day with at least an EQ of 8 for 5 days in a row for example and on day 6 you can't get it up!?!?!? That's the body says we're done for a while. That's not ED, that fatigue.

                      I know from personal experience that you can masturbate with a very low EQ and still cum...so that is my $0.02 on it..
                      Great point!
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by 5"penis View Post
                        Whats the point of having any EQ if you dont use it!!1
                        Right! Point being does it matter whether you use it manually or intercourse? Doesn't both cause fatigue or lower EQ/ED? I love the points you all are bringing to the table!
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