Couldn't get up during sex.

[dave cruz Member Find all posts View Profile Close dave cruz]

My girl came today and we started to watch a movie. A ways into the movie, I began feeling up on her and we started going at it. I started licking her all over and the whole 9. Take her panties off and shes getting super wet. Only thing is, IM NOT GETTING HARD. This is so damn disappointing. I dont know what the heck is wrong. Whenever we are out hanging out and fooling around and we start making out, i get a good hard on but when im at home and taking her panties off, im soft? I am baffled. I'll admit that I did watch porn for a few years but I stopped that a couple months ago since I got a girlfriend. Same thing happened a couple weeks ago. She was over and we started going at it. I was hard for a good 10 minutes but when I went down and started eating her out, my junk deflated to the max. I tried to whack myself off a bit but that didn't work. Eventually we stopped but after lets say 15 minutes, I went back at it and got hard again and put it right in her to insure i wasnt gonna get soft again. But today, that wasnt the case. I couldnt get hard for the life of me. I really need help guys. This is no good.

[dave cruz Member Find all posts View Profile Close dave cruz]

by the way, im 20 years old

[frisson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close frisson]

You're obsessing about it too much. The problem is in your head. I understand that it's easier said than done, but you need to relax.

[dave cruz Member Find all posts View Profile Close dave cruz]

thats what everyone is saying. All psychological. How do i overcome this?